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Topic: Can you love more than 1 woman?
RealNatalie's photo
Mon 08/27/18 06:46 AM
I love him but he is in love with his ex. Will he love me more in time?

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Mon 08/27/18 07:14 AM

I love him but he is in love with his ex. Will he love me more in time?


Nope.

He is using you as well

Cheneza's photo
Mon 08/27/18 07:26 AM
yeah sure .. contact me

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Mon 08/27/18 08:40 AM

I love him but he is in love with his ex. Will he love me more in time?

nope.

msharmony's photo
Mon 08/27/18 08:44 AM
wow.

love and 'in love' , I think, are totally different things.

I think people can 'love' in many ways and on many levels any number of people.

I think they can only be 'in love' with one at a time.

as to whether love can grow, absolutely. the more we go through and share things with each other, the more I think love can grow, IF we have a heart and mind that is open to that type of love. Some are closed off to anything but the immediate and the right now.



soufiehere's photo
Mon 08/27/18 09:05 AM

I love him but he is in love with his ex. Will he love me more in time?

Sounds like he jumped too fast from her to you.
And he had not worked through his old feelings.

What you have to decide is, to wait for him to
do that or move on.
Your willingness to move on could trigger the
reaction you want.
Can he change?
Sure.
Will he?
It could happen.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 08/27/18 09:13 AM
Can you love more than 1 woman?

Certainly.

Leo Getz: Uh, I had this pet frog, his name was Froggy. He was my best friend in the whole world. I didn't have a lot of friends. As a matter of fact... okay I had no friends, and uh, I used to kiss the frog, too. I thought maybe, uh, that it would turn into a princess since I was a boy, and uh, it could be my mother. They told me that she left or something, and my father was no bargain, and so just the frog. Froggy was my friend and I really loved him, and I took him everywhere with me, and I was riding on my bike one day and he jumped out of the box, and uh, I ran him over with the back tire. I killed him. I was really heartbroken. Really, he was my best friend in the whole world; the only thing I ever loved. And then I met you and Roger, and you guys really looked after me a lot more then you had to.

Martin Riggs: Geez, we're terrible to you, Leo.

Leo Getz: No no, it's okay, it's okay. You are my family. You are my friends. You are not better friends than Froggy. You're just different, and, uh, I just thought that *maybe* that might be relevant. Okay. I'll leave you alone now.


Marriage is loving someone specifically above all others.
It doesn't mean that you can't love others. It only means that you love that one person more.
A choice that is made.

Palghat's photo
Mon 08/27/18 09:46 AM

For a person to reciprocate love he has to be free from the past and although I don't believe in quick fixes, recently viewed this video on NLP and it has changed my opinion.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ebV04hKHa6U

After viewing if he comes chasing, or maybe because you are a good cook; then consider this as real commitment.

Problem is, you should not be the one to suggest this video; (be his therapist).
Best of luck.waving

Stu's photo
Mon 08/27/18 09:53 AM
No, you're being strung along. Find a date and go out, see how he reacts to that....

Billy's photo
Mon 08/27/18 11:25 AM
It talks time to get over an ex. But if you love him I do believe he will start loving you and not her

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 08/27/18 11:27 AM
Probably not if he's still in love with his Ex.

I think a man can love two women, but he loves One more than the other.

Billy's photo
Mon 08/27/18 11:42 AM
It all depends on who left who as to how long it will take to get over them. If he left her he should be over her already. But if she left him while he was in love with her it can take a long time, Sometimes as long as he knew her. That was the case with me. I hope that helped you...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 08/27/18 01:53 PM

I love him but he is in love with his ex. Will he love me more in time?

Nope. And you also may ask yourself "If I truly totally loved myself, what would I do with this situation?"
That answer won't please you. It's good to look into why you don't love yourself enough to put up with this. Work on self-love, self-esteem, healthy boundaries.
It is hard to digest, but no woman who truly loves herself would stay in this situation. And she won't have to either, she has options. She very likely wouldn't have fallen for a guy who's not available either.
It's women who still have problems with self-esteem and self-love who attract emotionally unavailable men. If you don't work on this, it will become a recurring pattern...
flowerforyou

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Mon 08/27/18 01:58 PM
Yes, you can love more than one person at a time but it usually doesn't work out for all parties involved...


In your situation, I would assume it will end up like the Hindenburg so move on. There are better men out there for you.


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Mon 08/27/18 02:29 PM
No rebound-ers for me.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 08/27/18 02:35 PM

No rebound-ers for me.

Exactly! Never ends well, causes a lot of heartache, not for them, they dump you and move on to someone they do fall in love with, leaving you heart-broken.

luckychoudhary555's photo
Mon 08/27/18 07:10 PM
Hello

Poetrywriter's photo
Mon 08/27/18 07:17 PM

Hello


Your hello belongs in the New Members thread.

Totage's photo
Mon 08/27/18 09:00 PM

I love him but he is in love with his ex. Will he love me more in time?



He's still IN love with his ex? If that's the case then it would be best to cut him loose. If he still loves his ex, that's a bit of a different story though. If it's the latter, you're going to have to have a talk with him and see where things are and if there is a future.

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Mon 08/27/18 09:53 PM
For the men or women who think love = sex .... yes, they can sex more than one.

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