I don't have a boat I'll let you know if I decide to get one . Might take a lifetime.

This is a list of traits I in a potential mate (survey of only one person). The list is partly instinct and partly malleable as I get to know a person. Also, I am talking only about romantic attraction, not the ways that I admire women in the community for more important values. In order of least important to most important:

Women who are adapted to cold weather tend to have a certain look I like

Yes, I do think loose, jiggly skin on the belly is pretty awesome

Hair at least shoulder length

Flexible skin with a thin layer of softness underneath

Physically strong and flexible undertone

While I do not really have a preference as to slender or heavy, I do like if her features are interconnected attractively

Humble and emotionally strong, intelligent, benevolent, and positive personality.

Independent, able to think for herself

Open to answer questions about anything about herself, and what she likes and doesn't like about me

Fashionable clothes and manner, and sans make-up

For private female parts (boobs), as long as there is a visible indent under her shirt that looks proportionate, that is all I need to see.

Compatible. If she is with another guy or would not be able to work out with me for some other reason, that sort of kills the romantic attractiveness; however, I would still appreciate her values in other ways.

Patient, aware, expressive, and engaged

If she has children, then I think it is super attractive if she is playfully engaged with them.

There is nothing wrong with a woman being short or slender or small-chested.

How about short, stocky, and medium chested?

That was my late wife.

A man with a yacht would float my boat.

I dated a woman that had a double mastectomy.
She was more hung up about it than I was.
She didn't work out because her personality was confrontational concerning her chest.
She made everything out to be wrong because of her, in her words, "deformity".
Despite my attempts to help her build healthy self-esteem, she was bitter against men.
It didn't matter that I could accept her, she couldn't accept herself.
Those 6 months were some of the worst experiences I've had with a woman because of her personality.
I finally had to break it off and when I did I told her why but she was convinced it was because I had a problem with her chest.

That's sad. My daughter has a birth defect, but we never identified her as ONLY that. She has a great personality, is a leader, is married, it's never stopped what she wanted to do.





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I agree, it was sad and heartbreaking.
Her inner turmoil was terrible to behold and it made her mean.
Thing is, she had some good days when she wasn't brooding on her loss.
Problem was, the longer I spent time with her the more angry at me she became. I realized that she was not angry with me but with the condition life threw at her. I hope she went back to counseling like I suggested.

I imagine losing something, and such a big change, as an adult, is much more different than being born with a circumstance. My daughter never knew herself fully whole.

A virtuous woman.

I agree, this woman was a casino table manager before cancer got her.
She was used to men's attention.
Her chest was a significant part of who she was.

On the other hand, my MIL also had a double mastectomy. The cancer ended up killing her. Her loss of chest had a different impact on her personality.
It was her ability to cope with the loss that made me think this particular woman could be as stable. Its one of the reasons I tried so long.

When I was in college I dated a woman that had a cleft foot birth defect.
She was a wonderful person and still is. Location separation is what killed that relationship. I considered asking her to marry me but I was too immature and the thought scared me.

Its not the defect or disability that is important to me its how its dealt with that matters, the personality that goes with the body.

Water, what else.. the wet kind to.

Your cracking me up first with the ring and now the yacht but it’s true...happy wife happy life

I am impressed not one single man has said penis colada floata his boat



It is a genuine cocktail for those who do not know

Suddenly, sobriety is looking better.

Remember that song dodo .. if you like penis colada and getting caught in the rain .. I'm the love that your lookin for .. come with me and escape .. it is a classic