I was over at the girls house whom I've been seeing for a month now the other night. We were sitting and talking, she said to me "you call me a lot." I responded, "Is that a bad thing?" She said "It's better than me having to search for you all the time." So my question is what is this supposed to mean? Should I not call her every day? Starting relationships are so confusing, trying to figure out what women want.

Don't call for a couple of days, see what happens.

Is this the same one that you haven;t kissed?? I remember one like that, but don;t remember who it was.

Just my opinion, but sounds like you may be putting too much pressure on yourself and trying to "read between the lines". And there may not be anything written there.

So my advise....relax. if you have questions, ask her, but think about it first. You don;t want to be askin a zillion questions either. So play a balanced role.

Good luck!

i really think you need to ask her , what do i know other than quessing ..if you can't talk to her maybe you should have a list ready to read off to her , so then you 'll know whats going on for sure


i'm not trying to hurt your little feelings , but this is my opion only , hope it helps

when i am really into a guy i love it when he calls me, i think it is sweet, you obviously like her alot,

do not listen to the negative comments, you are not a wimp if you like someone and they confuse you, people often say about other people what they r/ lol

Dude, if you can figure a woman out, you'd be a rich man. You have to just be yourself, and if she likes you, great. Women, at least the ones that I've been in relationships with, have never had any reason to wonder about me, because I've always let them know the who what when where, and how longs ahead of time. I did learn one thing along the way, tho. If you feel like it's your duty to call her, then you'll start to regret it, and possibly hold it against her, somehow. When I was dating a woman, if I wanted to go out to a club,or just to the corner pub, I'd ask her if she wanted to go first, or if going out with a buddy, he and I would almost insist that our girlfriends go out with us, and take them to the same places we'd go to if we went out without them.

thanks goddess

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and get a ball and chain for one angle

and an ankle house arrest band for the other

Listen, I think she's saying that it's better you're calling each night, cuz it reasures her that you're thinking of her, and she's confident in that you're home alone, and not out with someone else. BUT WE ALL KNOW...... What the fuc_ does that prove, cuz we can all call someone, despite where the he_ _ we are????? Making it sound good, but are we really being faithful to a relationship that is going somewhere??? Where is this relationshop going??? Cuz it all depends.....

Trust, honestesty and sincerity are Key to any relationship. Can you trust her, and CAN SHE TRUST YOU????

bullsh_ _ !!!! That's rediculous

u r welcome, any questions you needed answered by a woman , I am glad to answer and give my take on it, not saying I will always be right , lol

I understand what you're saying torey

Believe it or not, I think I know what she meant. She appreciates your calling because she wouldn't want to have to go out and hunt you down to find you.

I know you've posted several times before about her not being comfortable even kissing you. That would concern me more than her comments about the phone calls..but together, those are just huge signs...

I wish you much luck with this one, Steven =)

I've learned that being offended is a choice. If you feel that self focus come on you,redirect that focus to somthing positive about her. Humans love affirmation, and it will tell her that 'that' is your focus, to love and reaffirm her.

Instead of "is that a bad thing" (just for instance). say somthing honest and positive from your' heart. Mine 'may' have been "I can't help it babe, your worth all the time that I can give you" or just simply "I love to hear your' voice". Don't shrink back when your' unsure, take the risk and you will find it's worth it. It's the only way to discover true love I think, giving it freely.

my 2 cents

nuenjins...you always have such a positive spin on things. Wonderful. =)

I did tell her I like to talk to her and hear her voice when we talked about it

If I said to a guy "you call alot" that would mean he should slow it down a little. JMO