Women will tell you want they really want and we have to accept it!

That goes for anyone really, not just women.

It means she is not used to having a loyal puppy like yourself, call her everyday.....space it out a bit.....youre driving her crazy!!!

i WOULD RATHER HAVE A MAN THAT i'M DATiNG CALL ME EVERYDAY CAUSE THAT MEANS HE'S THiNKiNG OF ME.. AND NOT KiSSiNG? THAT'S ABSURD! i LOVE KiSSiNG..

BUT YOU KNOW, i CAN'T FiGURE MEN OUT EiTHER.. LOTS OF MY FRUSTRATiONS ARE TRYiNG TO FiGURE THEM OUT.. UGH!

Ive decided men are all crazy and then I just go shopping to relieve my tension of all man stuff...

i say if all else fails


throw a brick through her windshield....

of course anyone in their right mind would SAY that they would like a free coffee every day

unless they were very self-aware

read my post on the previous page to know wut im talkin about

Unfortuneately nobody gets a crystal ball in new relationships and some times communication needs a little clarification. If the new person in your life is commenting on your ways maybe they are just making observations and maybe they are complaining. You generally have to trust your gut on what is instinctively the right way to go. Listen to it if it says back off a little then that is probably in your bst interest.

And example was when I was dateing my great love he used to call a little just before he came over. In the beginning it kind of bugged me... like he was checking to see what I was doing? or wanted some big greeting when I was a busy working Mom with a laundry list of chores to do frequently rushing right before he was to show up. He then told me no he just was trying to be considerate and give me a chance to "clear the decks" because he so wanted to kiss me on arrival or if I needed any little thing he could stop and save me a trip out. LOL this kind of carbon dates me since this was before everyone was attached at the hip with cell phones but it became to be one of those little loving things that made me adore him when I got used to the attention.

I used to tell people in counseling that communication is some times of the ready>fire>aim variety and if done in a nice way couples can line up the sites with a little more conversation and encouragement. Like saying the next time you are together "I love to call you and let you know how important you are to me but if there is a better time of day or another way I will consider it."

I don't know about the kissing issue. How and where I kiss someone is always important to me even if I really want to kiss them. I don't like and audiance and kissing tends to really reve my engines so maybe being reserved about the early exchange is kissing is more "important" to your new love than the popular superficial meaning a lot of people put on it.

I have to say that some guys, regardless of what they have been told otherwise, are lousy at kissing. If your flame seems a little less than enthusiastic you might want to check your style and make sure your not intimidateing her with your physical presence; always watch for fresh breath, how much pressure, and how much fluid exchange your kiss presents.

Or ask her if kissing hurts; many people have dental/kissing issues they are self concious about. It is not uncommon for younger women to have serious pain from incoming wisdom teeth and little or no dental coverage or time if they are also mothers to attend it. Maybe your lady friend is just trying not to appear to be a gold digger for not mentioning a unmanageable and expensive health issue.

Rightfully so many young mothers are concerned about where your mouth as been and what they may be shareing especially if they have young children who they also kiss. Pediatricians and nurses warn young mothers about the transference of oral STD's.

Also if kissing is an issue for someone I tend to wonder about the person's right to choose their previous partners. Being forced can make a person hyper sensitive to unwanted advances and may be a subtle tell about a background you may not be priviledge to know yet. Rather than over react give the new love interest some time to get comfortable with her feelings and experiences and you and how you will react to "that's enought for me right now signals". Unfortuneately one pushy not so charming Frog Prince can put warts on the whole experience for the most attractive current suitor or even friends of friends. I know when a campus rape occured at a community college where I was in the student government there was a decided chill in the overall campus kissing level for months.

wow, thanks pacific

first piece of advice

STOP CALLING YOURSELF A MORON!!!!!!!

I only put the moron part in for the topic

good point

Steven, i think this may have been addressed however, somtimes people in general bring up things for reasons, there was opviously a reason. Given this reason i think sometimes we dont realize what we have until we dont, maybe she hasnt appreciated those phone calls or is not use to them.

In my strong suggestion show her what a couple days without your call feels like. Dont be rude about it but sometimes we need a little awakening to appreciate somthing.

I think she meant ...you make me feel like a lady when you call me and I do not have to do it
In some countries it is very shamefull a girl calling a boy alot...they parents always advise to be the man who makes this girl feel like a lady