Topic: Suppose
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Thu 05/17/18 08:05 PM


Crystal, when you said porn that caters to women, I pictured a channel of men doing dishes, vacuuming and cooking dinner. laugh

You mean something like this? Wasn't what I had in mind, but HELL YESSSSSS!!! I'm game!
And when he's done with all that, we can go straight into what I consider porn that caters for women, lol.









is there a class men can go to learn how to assume the pose of a domestic god laugh laugh

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Thu 05/17/18 08:35 PM
Edited by Fervid_heart on Thu 05/17/18 08:48 PM
Be careful ... guys are gonna come in here and say they know ladies that need those classes laugh laugh

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Fri 05/18/18 12:51 AM


In my view, it's cheating. If you stop and think about it, gonna be a little blunt here, but when a man is doing the deed while watching porn, (1) he is fantasizing about another woman. In his mind, he's doing it with her. Where the mind is, is usually where the heart is.

(2) Many women who are in a relationship with a man, to them, satisfying him in the bedroom is her job. And many take it seriously. They want to be the one that does it for him. Not some bimbo in a porn video. They feel cheated. I've known a few like this.

I've known a few men that have lost there girlfriends and or wives because of this. The woman I've been seeing now is that way. Heck, almost every woman I've ever known is that way. They see it as cheating.





YES many see porn as cheating. But I would rather he watched porn than he have sex with a real woman and satisfying her, rather than just himself.

:smile: imo


I understand your point. But here is another. I've never known one man that that honestly loved his woman that would cheat on her in any way. That includes getting off to some fake woman that he will never really have in a porn video. I've seen this stuff really hurt people. Break up relationships and whole families.

It's kinda like the games that many people like to play now. They would rather sit on there backsides all day and live in the fantasy world of a game. instead of getting out in the real world and living in reality.

Same thing with porn. Fantasy, not reality. I'm not saying that I've never looked at porn. I guess we all have at one time or the other. All I can say, as, for me, I prefer reality. Nothing can take the place of feeling her in my arms, the sound of her voice in the dark of night. Or to look into her eyes in the morning light. Porn can give you none of that.waving


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Fri 05/18/18 06:44 AM

Be careful ... guys are gonna come in here and say they know ladies that need those classes laugh laugh




laugh laugh

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Fri 05/18/18 06:47 AM


Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction is a real thing guys


maybe its just you...bigsmile




Still so jelly pops :kissing_heart: it's ok we won't compare sizes again

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Fri 05/18/18 07:03 AM
wish i could offer an opinion but porn never did anything for me, so i don't waste my time with it

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Fri 05/18/18 07:05 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 05/18/18 07:11 AM




I understand your point. But here is another. I've never known one man that that honestly loved his woman that would cheat on her in any way. That includes getting off to some fake woman that he will never really have in a porn video. I've seen this stuff really hurt people. Break up relationships and whole families.

It's kinda like the games that many people like to play now. They would rather sit on there backsides all day and live in the fantasy world of a game. instead of getting out in the real world and living in reality.

Same thing with porn. Fantasy, not reality. I'm not saying that I've never looked at porn. I guess we all have at one time or the other. All I can say, as, for me, I prefer reality. Nothing can take the place of feeling her in my arms, the sound of her voice in the dark of night. Or to look into her eyes in the morning light. Porn can give you none of that.waving





Men can love their wives and still get into watching porn for whatever reason.
Men have affairs all the time and women do too in reality.

I think most men who want a woman, would rather have a real. Woman not just watching porn . However a real woman and the kind they want is not available to Him .

I met a man online, Not in person, I really was attracted. To him in almost every way, except I felt he was sex addict. Many are and hide It. A woman has too talk and long conversation, to bring many things out like that.

Online is difficult in knowing Real people . Most men I met in person were nice and real people.

I like how you reply , you seem upfront and real. Many men won't admit to watching porn , however, the percentage that do is High. Married and not married.

Also some Christian men have a problem with it and need counseling. This was on the radio few years ago. Sad thing Not a good thing.

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Fri 05/18/18 09:23 AM
The need for warning label on deodorant to say for external use only says it all.

In other words porn was given to us by virtue of government approval to view as educational material to enhance our lives.

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Fri 05/18/18 09:36 AM



Crystal, when you said porn that caters to women, I pictured a channel of men doing dishes, vacuuming and cooking dinner. laugh

You mean something like this? Wasn't what I had in mind, but HELL YESSSSSS!!! I'm game!
And when he's done with all that, we can go straight into what I consider porn that caters for women, lol.






is there a class men can go to learn how to assume the pose of a domestic god laugh laugh

Damn!
I knew I shouldn't have thrown my old photo album away!
Stupid trash pickers!
frustrated
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Fri 05/18/18 09:47 AM
Seriously tho,
Back in 1998 I read the entire internet.
I looked at so much porn I got sick of it.
My imagination far exceeds anything porn has to offer.
Porn is selfish.

Making love to someone I love is a bonding experience of sharing.
Its different for everyone.
Its about sharing a connection of mind, body and soul.

I see porn as a sign of a weak imagination and any woman that needs to look at porn is not the woman for me.
If you are with a woman and you are sitting there watching or looking at porn...You're doing it wrong.

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Fri 05/18/18 10:46 AM

Is there much difference between watching porn and fantazising .. (women are particularly good at the latter)


To me it's all the same - how can you not watch porn without fantasizing? That's probably why most
women aren't into porn - we do just fine with our own imaginations! laugh pitchfork

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Fri 05/18/18 10:51 AM
that and your girl porn novels lol

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Fri 05/18/18 10:59 AM
Edited by Piscesmoon02 on Fri 05/18/18 11:01 AM

that and your girl porn novels lol


Difference with those is there aren't any pictures... So we can read those and imagine it's the man we're with... And hopefully act it out with him bigsmile pitchfork

Oh, forgot to mention... I don't like porn books... Just romance novels


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Fri 05/18/18 11:01 AM
scared blushing tongue2

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Fri 05/18/18 11:05 AM

scared blushing tongue2


Just as I thought, all talk laugh

tongue2

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Fri 05/18/18 11:07 AM
sorry skype sex won't cut it road trip is neededpitchfork

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Fri 05/18/18 11:09 AM


that and your girl porn novels lol


Difference with those is there aren't any pictures... So we can read those and imagine it's the man we're with... And hopefully act it out with him bigsmile pitchfork

Oh, forgot to mention... I don't like porn books... Just romance novels


I am a sucker for erotic literature. As you said, you pick the visual.

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Fri 05/18/18 11:09 AM
Edited by Piscesmoon02 on Fri 05/18/18 11:10 AM

sorry skype sex won't cut it road trip is neededpitchfork


Did you read my edit... I don't like porn or participate in it... So totally agree, that wouldn't work for me either .

bigsmile


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Fri 05/18/18 11:20 AM
edit is just semantics i have had to read them when nothing else is available. and it's all gurl pornlaugh

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Fri 05/18/18 11:30 AM
I used to love porn cocktail as a starter, now I'm more into pate or melon.