I do think men are More visual than Women.

I went to see Fifty Shades Freed recently. I t was about a young married
Couple and the things in there was WOW!!

the problem with that statement Blondey is no two couples are alike, and reading erotic fiction is not the same as hardcore porn that is on the net.

Even soft porn is more erotic fantasy vs the hard core stuff.

When Most people think of porn they think of the type of stuff stormy daniels did, phucking this , phucking that, azz phucking , orgies you name it.

That to me is dangerous because it paints an unrealistic expectation .

one of my buddies dad is a cosmetic surgeon and he is doing a killing, between vaginal reshaping, boob jobs, azz implants you name it he is doing it, and some of them are doing it because they seen it in a porn, mind you when he hears that he refuses them.

I guess my point is there is a difference between erotic fantasy vs hardcore porn where the woman is phucking everything and usually guys who are hung like a horse.

I tried watching it a few times, but i couldnt last more than two minutes so we turned it back to the baseball game and she was very pleased with that....

I dont think it is cheating, but I also thinks it matters to the relationship. Is his desire to self satisfy causing issue in the relationship itself? Is he not attentive to her? Or is this something that occurs only when she is away from the home?

Porn-Induced Erectile Dysfunction is a real thing guys

Porn can be a teaching experience for many. Porn also will never replace the warmth of a decent woman but finding one is a challenge so porn sometimes has to do.

Oh so porn voyeurism and self satisfying is strictly a guy thing now...

typical!

*roll eyes* you're right, its a girl thing too. I love watching porn with my partner and when I am single. I do tend to stay away from self satisfaction when I am in a relationship.

maybe its just you...

Wimmins complain about men and porn but someone bought 80 million copies of 50 shades. It weren't guys as it has no pics, at least in the GFs copy LOL

Wimmins complain about men and porn but someone bought 80 million copies of 50 shades. It weren't guys as it has no pics, at least in the GFs copy LOL

You need to see the original 50 Shades of Gray

You need to see the original 50 Shades of Gray

In my view, it's cheating. If you stop and think about it, gonna be a little blunt here, but when a man is doing the deed while watching porn, (1) he is fantasizing about another woman. In his mind, he's doing it with her. Where the mind is, is usually where the heart is.

(2) Many women who are in a relationship with a man, to them, satisfying him in the bedroom is her job. And many take it seriously. They want to be the one that does it for him. Not some bimbo in a porn video. They feel cheated. I've known a few like this.

I've known a few men that have lost there girlfriends and or wives because of this. The woman I've been seeing now is that way. Heck, almost every woman I've ever known is that way. They see it as cheating.

dang...just a pure post right there guys..honest and bare..

erotic fantasy is limited only by a person's mind .. you cannot assume it all to be soft porn as you describe .. Perhaps you are confusing erotic fiction with erotic fantasy ??

The question posed was if watching porn could be considered cheating in a marriage . There was no distinction between the format of porn other than it was visual

Nope didn't want to see that one!!!

You might be right Blondey, I cant say that Im into reading erotic fantasy or fiction like 50 shades of gray.

A book that If I was stuck on a desert Island I would rather eat it than read it or use it for firewood.

back to the topic.

Porn in a marriage, depends on the marriage and their beliefs.

if I was married I dont know if I would watch it with my wife, I know I wouldnt be watching by myself if I was married, there is no need.

pshhh...yeah sure..

YES many see porn as cheating. But I would rather he watched porn than he have sex with a real woman and satisfying her, rather than just himself.

imo