Looking for the plug here from San Antonio

I found it,

I stay home, order wings from the pizza place that delivers then web crawl from Craigslist to FB stalking my potential victims

I went to a concert at Town Square, in the fine city of Sugar Land, TX


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Quarters up. Next game. I'm beating everyone. Cue ball is good tonight

Evening at home with my daughter. Citywide yard sale in the morning. Then a little work before taking my guy to mexican for fixing the lawnmower.

If you're hoping to find a potential partner, the movies, a play, concert, live band aren't the best of options as you cannot really have a conversation in those settings.
A pub isn't the great either as few long term relationship start there. It has more potential for a one-night-stand.
Thing is that people are often different when they go out, they drink (a lot) and that is not really the right way to get to know each other or to fall for each other for anything stable.
Can happen of course, but I think chances are slim.

So I'd go out if I'd feel like that, but not with the idea to meet my new romantic life partner. And then I go for the pub with live music.

Have an idea in my mind and it sorta happened but the feeling was so different. I was in the library trying to fill my time sitting down reading when suddenly a guy approached me asking if we have been in the same class in a certain school. It was a public library in Pasadena and he was American. It gave me the creeps instead maybe a bookstore would be a bttwe place next time? Lol

So where would you go to meet your new romantic life partner then since you shot down Tom's suggestions?

Who are you talking too?

Guys do stuff like this sometimes. I hate it that you took it creepy. What did a man do before the internet and smartphones? He would do it the old fashion way. He would walk up to you and try to start a conversation with you. He took a chance. He either bombed out or he didn't.

I'm not much of a drinker. I will not drink and drive, Period.
I don't gamble. Bingo maybe but casinos, nah, not interested.
I respect people's privacy. I don't interrupt them.

I grew up in a small town.
We hung out at places and just messed around.
You could walk past and we would start up a convo with ya.
Met a lot of friends that way. Male and female.

Where do people around my age hang?
I'm wanting to find people in their late 40s to mid 60s.
Men with free time to do things and women that are non-attached and single.

I've gone out on the piers and tried starting conversations with people fishing but most are on their phones. The few that are not are usually not interested. I can tell by the dismissive responses.
Plus, few women my age fish by themselves.

Well, here it is Friday again.

A quick look at my Biorhythm graph shows me:
http://www.biorhythm-calculator.net/
I'm peaking in Aesthetic and Spiritual.
I'm climbing in Awareness
I'm declining in Intellectual above zero and Emotional and Physical below zero.
I am bottomed in Intuition.



Any suggestions?

better try the laundry mat and ask her to borrow a quarter for the last load

Well, another friday night fast approaching.
No plans, nobody to call.
Any suggestions?

Hmmm, not sure Tom. Maybe a BBQ or walk to the park?

I went to the store and bought a new top... was thinking of going to the Pink Pony for a virgin drink and listen to the music.

Normally I wouldn't do this alone, but got thinking after Blondey's thread that there's probably nothing wrong with it. Plus it's a tourist Island and only night clubs are open at night anyways.

In my hometown they have a coffee lounge where they sponsor poetry readings, guest speakers and local bands.

Fresh Grounds



How common are those types of venues?
How many of you would consider going to one of those alone?
Sadly, I am not aware of anything like that around me...

Not at all common on the Island, or any off the other smaller towns I've been to. It's a great idea and I would totally go there by myself.

Yeah, it's too bad they don't have that around you Tom.
Have you looked into creating a movie night or maybe even something like the coffee lounge thing?

In St Louis (and probably NOLA) there are Blues Lounges

I would consider going there but again, nothing close like that.
Plus, I would want a date to accompany me, not something I would do alone?