Topic: I Wish I Had Said
Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 03/13/18 12:06 AM
No real psychology to this one. No need for backstory unless you have the NEED for backstory or explanation.

Whatever the situation was, say what you should have said. GO!

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Tue 03/13/18 01:41 AM
I wish I had said how imperfect I am from the very beginning even though you thought otherwise. I should’ve said that the sadness in my eyes was basically a part of that flaw and that my walls are sometimes stronger than my heart. I wanted to know you more but I felt what was right was to let you live your family life, a life that your wife can provide you with. Thank you for the comfort and the time you gave me. I pray that you make the right choice and that someday you might be able to forgive my goodbye.

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Tue 03/13/18 03:43 AM
Come home now.

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Tue 03/13/18 03:47 AM
I did most of the talking in an effort to safe our marriage but you didn't say much at all. I know I was critical at times in thinking it was mostly your fault that we were on the slide. Maybe it was mostly me.. I'm sorry. I feel I have learnt from the past which is all anyone can do.. or should do.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Tue 03/13/18 06:24 AM
I should have said 'No' in 2009. Now I am right in the middle of a divorce battle. I learnt it the hard way frustrated

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Tue 03/13/18 07:47 AM
rofl rofl rofl oh beach ., if only I could ., it would be very entertaining ..does not have the same effect with an R13 rating :wink: waving

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Tue 03/13/18 08:34 AM
That it's , "You", "Not me", before I had to do the Valentine's hoopla.
Coulda saved me a few bucks...slaphead rofl

Stu's photo
Tue 03/13/18 11:07 AM
Ummm... cya later


(more than once)

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 03/13/18 11:44 AM
I can't change ANYTHING in the past.
I can't change ANYTHING in the future (it hasn't happened yet)
The only thing I can do is exist in the moment of the present.

I didn't always have this discipline.
I spent many hours lying awake at night thinking of 'What Ifs'.
I refused to accept the reality of now.
It did nothing but cause me stress and discontentment.
Hindsight is always 20/20 but hindsight is just that, hindsight.

No matter how hard you try, you can't fix the past.
You can make a new future by being decisive in the present but that future is never going to be exactly as you imagine.

There will always be mistakes in the past.
When you learn from those mistakes and apply that to the present, its called wisdom.
If you gain no wisdom because you are constantly trying to change the past, you will repeat the mistakes of the past.
I make new mistakes, I learn from them and adjust my present accordingly.

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Tue 03/13/18 11:53 AM
I'm Rocco or local. But I just didn't understand your accent

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Tue 03/13/18 01:30 PM
KFC, I meant KFC when I said I love a nice breast.

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Tue 03/13/18 05:41 PM
Whatever the situation was, say what you should have said

Yes.

Poetrywriter's photo
Tue 03/13/18 05:51 PM
Instead of saying "will you marry me" 30 years ago I should have said "you wanna practice a honeymoon tonight? laugh

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 03/13/18 05:53 PM
Let's continue forward!

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 03/14/18 05:49 AM

KFC, I meant KFC when I said I love a nice breast.

laugh

No wonder Blondey felt she had to edit herself.

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 03/14/18 01:41 PM

Whatever the situation was, say what you should have said

Yes.


drinker

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Wed 03/14/18 05:56 PM
I wish I would have said
" no you are absolutely right and I am 100 percent in the wrong"

hahaha...

wish I would have said a time or two in my life

" na man no big deal I do not feel the need to correct you in all your wrongness" bigsmile

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Sat 03/17/18 03:01 PM
I usually find a way of getting my message across .. no need for wishes biggrin