Please explain your opinion why you think that SEX is good before or after marriage.

It's an individual thing.

Probably good both times, if the man is functionable.

I f a woman wants to wait til marriage that's her choice and the best choice.

I think sex is good before marriage for the same reason it's good after marriage. It's sex.

hate state the obvious but what's the difference? ...Sex is sex... I don't think having a piece of paper changes the quality of it.

Actually I take that back - I've known couples that after they got married the sex just about stopped - go figure.

First of all I think it is culturally based. And religion.
I'd never wait till marriage as
a) you don't know if you ever will get married again. Most men don't want to anymore.

b) before I'd be willing myself to tie the knot I'd like to know if we are compatible between the sheets and if he is still fully functional.

and just how involved is this compatibility test crystal?

Well... first there's meeting over cappuccinos. Then there's another meeting, dinner, conversation. Kissing... if all that works out and sparks fly... well... kissing is the first compatibility check... if that doesn't work out, the rest won't either.
So if he passes that 'test'... then there's only one way to find out about the rest

Is this a question of time or quality?

it is good to sex before married

Humm before cause I'm gonna take it for a test run before I invest ~~~~~~~~~~

Why ask such a question?
Sex was here long long before marriage!

But why

I have more than one way of looking at this. If it happens naturally. Neither one of us are coming at it with any pre-conceived ideas, then, OK. But, if I have any inkling of an idea that a woman is just trying me out, I'm gone. I'm not going to be done like that.

For the simple reason, "where is the love?" This works for men and women. If you say that you love this person, then you love this person and you want to be with them. You take what comes. But now, this is where honesty come's into play. If your a man and your junk don't work, speak up and tell her. Same with a woman. Because here is where you will find out if this person who says they love you, really does or not.

Either way, if that persons love is based on a "test drive", then that person is not the one for me. To me, they are not basing their love for me on who I am and what I am. They are basing their love for me for what I have swinging between my legs. As for me, I'm a lot more than that.

These before or after questions are so hard on the subject of coming together.

A1 first after marriage

Yes it’s individual

after marriage

Well this question is easy! I think the more challenging is during. Lol.

Just kidding but I do remember the challenges that children bring to logistics, timing and spontaneity.

In summary I vote yes.