^^^ this I don't get. So black men can do what they want but white men can't?

People like what they like. Get over it. But a double standard confuses me

Let people like who they like. Whether they don't care, like only their race, prefer outside race...it's their life

Race has no bearing on the pull of the heart. I would meet anyone of any race anywhere at anytime we both were available.

A woman is a woman. Some have a better tan.

concise, yet accurate.

well put

Better tan?

I have always dream of getting married to a white chick since I was 10. It's all about choice.

Everything is a choice, except being born really.

I could not do it. I used to work with a black lady for 19 years, and she always said that everyone should stay in their own race. Blonde hair is expected to be gone before long. Obviously someone is trying to atone destroy purity.

I don't get this. What is a 'pure' person? What has hair color got to do with it?

That's exactly one of these things that P me O.
Basically saying race doesn't matter, but as soon as a white man dates a woman from his race he suddenly gets all protective about it and offended? Lingering feelings from times of slavery? But that can't be it, cos Arabic men can have the same thing.

I can't help it, but what I often get from non-Caucasian males is that it's a status symbol to stick their thing in white p***y.
Must be on every non-white man's bucket list.

From what I gather -not just here- is that it's mostly non-Caucasians who still have an issue with race, not the other way round.
I personally don't care about race, but I do want to be respected, and that is exactly what often is missing from other races towards white woman.

Must be on every non-white man's bucket list.


not quite.

And (USA)Americans of all races have an issue with race, its really not something that can be compared between races. IMHO and experience.

please contact me

Surely have already. An will continue

Lovely

I've dated outside my race, "Puerto Rican". But I will never date black. Maybe it's because of where I live. "GA". There are too many ghetto fabulous here. Loud, pushy. They act like they are mad at everything. I've seen so many that it's turned me off with them. I know within reason all are not that way. But the grand majority of what I've seen is.

So would you be open to dating the black women who are not 'loud' or 'pushy'?

You are right dear. That is actually one event no one has power over. We learn and make choices there after.

Well, in all honesty, I'm not attracted to black women. Since I have dated outside my race I believe the main reason I'm not is because of what I've seen here. I know that you could argue this and say that most families have this problem no matter the race. But another thing I've noticed over the years. Example, You've got a black family living here in this home. This family bothers no one.

But 99 times out of 100 this family has at least one that likes hanging out in the streets with his buddies. He's neck deep in the dope trade. Walks around with a gun on him because of the dope he's knee deep in. This family that bothers no one, he brings his crap to their house. The next thing you know bullets are flying and you are caught in the middle of it.

And one last thing, the killings. It seems to me that black people are killing black people left and right. Usually over dope. In a lot of ways, they can't seem to get along with each other. I've seen black women that I thought was pretty. But when I step back and look at the whole picture, Her family, the way she carries herself, I get turned off. Again, I'm not saying all are this way. All I'm saying is, I've seen enough. And it's turned me off.

I think the problem is just that the average person doesnt know 100 black families to draw conclusions from but go only on media or entertainment and the bad experience they have reinforce what they may already be conditioned to think.

but thats my opinion, of course.


I know that black on black crime happens just like white on white crime. but it is far from the majority of people in each group killing each other.

In my family you would be hard pressed to find in most any of our environments the drugs and other stereotypical 'black' things being mentioned as turn offs. Quite frankly those things would turn me off of any individual as well, but not a whole race.


It is unfortunate that that has been your life experience. Perhaps things will change when you experience more environments and cultures and surroundings where there are black people.