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Topic: When messages from men turn sexual in nature
Glenn Joined Wed 02/17/21 Posts: 3	Sat 12/23/23 06:25 AM
How about every single man on earth and every single woman on earth wants to have a relationship and they want to have a healthy sexual relationship if you don’t let someone know right up front kind of what you are looking for I guess you’re just wasting your time and all you ladies you feel like you’re on trial anytime I’m talking to a new lady they’re collecting fax collecting fax looking for a reason to kick it to the curb I am looking for reasons to like someone when I talk to them

Glenn Joined Wed 02/17/21 Posts: 3	Sat 12/23/23 06:28 AM
PapaToetoe wow you come online little bit too strong there lady I don’t even know what that is but it sure sounds sexual I’m out of here you New Zealanders are too loose for me If being sensual and sexy is very important what you’re looking for then you need to say it in the first few conversations because a lot of people aren’t like that so why would you waste your time talking to a prude who wants to spend three months seeing if your friends first before you find out if they don’t like to sleep with their mate naked. If that’s what you require gonna wait three months to find out that’s insane

Fun Joined Sun 02/21/21 Posts: 6	Tue 01/30/24 07:05 PM
Have you ever noticed that the women who are concerned about the conversation becoming sexual, are women you wouldn't fork in the first place?

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10858	Tue 01/30/24 07:35 PM
I notice this.

Penelope Joined Sun 02/25/24 Posts: 13	Sat 03/02/24 01:49 AM
I think people should be honest nothing is more insulting than being seen as an object not a person and it gets boring talking sex nonstop no i am no prude i love sex but with respect younger men and i want a guy i can have a conversation with if you engage out of the bedroom sparks will fly in it . It is that attraction , chemistry but needs to be on all levels being called Tasty or hello then start talking about parts of my anatomy does not impress me the whole package !!! Sex talk should be respectful when know the person then it is different . Please let us choose be honest gents if you want just sex say then we can say yeah or jog on . .

Paul Joined Wed 12/29/21 Posts: 16	Sat 03/02/24 10:24 AM
i want sex. is that honest enough haha :)

Jaan Doh Joined Mon 06/24/13 Posts: 2483	Mon 03/04/24 02:17 AM
Just tell him to talk to his hand... Then block and/or delete...

Michael Parker Joined Thu 04/04/24 Posts: 2	Sat 04/06/24 01:56 PM
Any man, in my book, who brings up the subject of sex, long before you have had the opportunity to talk and get to know each other better, has shown that all he is after is sex.

IXOYE4Us Joined Mon 04/30/12 Posts: 6	Sat 08/10/24 08:44 AM
If a woman is local or just a short drive away, then I'm pretty open to meeting early on to discuss compatibility on various issues. But if meeting is going to involve hours of driving or maybe even a flight, then there are a number of issues that I want to be sure we are compatible on before I make that trip. Somewhere on that list is going to be the subject of sexual compatibility. Because, while sex is not the only thing I'm interested in, it is one of them. And I'd like to be sure that it isn't going to be a problem, before making a long trip to meet.

scottmoriarty Joined Sun 08/18/24 Posts: 2	Sun 08/18/24 01:23 PM
Sex can be a very important topic of conversation when handled correctly. I believe the key is maturity and respect. I have talked with women that take offense at any mention of anything of a sexual nature. To me it indicates an immature sexual maturity and removes them from my interest. As adults, chances are anyone I will meet is not a virgin. I certainly am not. I like sex. It isn't my sole reason for being but I expect it with someone I love and if we can't even talk about sex there is something wrong. Again, I stress, Maturity and Respect. The maturity and respect has to flow both directions. Sadly, I know from talking to a multitude of women that have to contend with constant assults by men that have no sexual maturity or respect, the reflex is to take offense at anything sexual in nature. Sexual maturity and respect is very important to me when considering an intimate relationship. The only way to make that determination is to discuss sexual things. There is a difference between discussing and assaulting. Well said! I agree 1000%

Duncan Joined Thu 09/12/24 Posts: 2	Sat 09/14/24 04:43 AM
Im somewhat bemused by the various opinions around sex. Personally for me there has to be a connection mentally first, because without that any sex or as I prefer to call it love making is going to be awkward and not particularly memorable. Sexually I get a bigger kick out of making a woman feel comfortable and giving her as much pleasure as possible. That’s what makes me happy. None of us are mind readers and when a woman puts in her wants ‘sexual encounters’ then how do you respond to that? I think the only way to start to know someone is to talk openly and honestly preferably on the phone. I saw a saying that said ‘light travels faster than sound, so from a distance your potential partner may look stunning, but when she speaks it can be a major disappointment’ I’m new on here so I’m learning the ropes and it’s fascinating how people behave and react!

Unknow Joined Sat 08/24/24 Posts: 10	Sat 09/14/24 03:55 PM
i want sex. is that honest enough haha :) You really should be more specific.

kenbobone Joined Sun 08/26/18 Posts: 2	Fri 10/04/24 03:36 PM
Sexual attraction can't happen online. That's because it's a chemical reaction (pheromones) that pass between 2 people. I have encountered this plenty of times. A beautiful black woman and I went through this at work. We kept our focus on work, but any other time I would have loved to explore this in more depth. In the meantime, I'm still looking.