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My tip for men is to make sure you give your dough plenty of time to rise before putting it in the oven .. it is the same when it comes to sexual flirtation ...,  Just Think like a woman
Be sure your brain , penis and heart are all speaking the same language
.if it is not clear , then ASK Her what she values in getting to know a man . And guide your behaviour on that
Simple really   
Xox blondey 
Logic should tell you that being sexually suggestive with someone that you have not met could be less than impressive ., if you do not share similar values . Incompatible communication styles is likely to cockblock you faster than your wing man :-) you do not need to be a mind reader just improve your communication skills
You bring up several very significant points. We recently had a thread about the use of "honey" and "sweetie". Very common terms of greeting in the south but offensive to some, especially women, on the coasts. The meaning of many words is different based on age, race, gender, and geography. There is also the difference in values and attitudes. There is always the desire to learn the values and attitudes of someone you have an interest in. The response of that person says a lot about their values and attitudes. It is best to find those incompatibilities before spending the effort to meet. |
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There is also the difference in values and attitudes. There is always the desire to learn the values and attitudes of someone you have an interest in. The response of that person says a lot about their values and attitudes. It is best to find those incompatibilities before spending the effort to meet. And, if someonre's values and preferencs are different than yours, then for gods sake..don't criticize them or get rude and tell them how you think they'd be a better person if they'd just..... Unless one is an Ascended Master, one should not presume to tell someone that *they* know better than them how they should conduct their life, how they should act, or behave, or believe. And you (the generic *you*) don't get to get pissy or ugly when they don't take you "advice" with a smile, if they react like any normal person would to an unasked for opinion, especially if that "opinion" is merely teling them how they are wrong..abd if they'd just see/ vhange (to suit you)...blah blah. Attitudes? I don't know how that comes into play unless one is referring to specific subjects or prefernces..and, in that regard..see above. |
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There is also the difference in values and attitudes. There is always the desire to learn the values and attitudes of someone you have an interest in. The response of that person says a lot about their values and attitudes. It is best to find those incompatibilities before spending the effort to meet. And, if someonre's values and preferencs are different than yours, then for gods sake..don't criticize them or get rude and tell them how you think they'd be a better person if they'd just..... Unless one is an Ascended Master, one should not presume to tell someone that *they* know better than them how they should conduct their life, how they should act, or behave, or believe. And you (the generic *you*) don't get to get pissy or ugly when they don't take you "advice" with a smile, if they react like any normal person would to an unasked for opinion, especially if that "opinion" is merely teling them how they are wrong..abd if they'd just see/ vhange (to suit you)...blah blah. Attitudes? I don't know how that comes into play unless one is referring to specific subjects or prefernces..and, in that regard..see above. |
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Wow that went about 10 feet past their head.....hey! let's be realistic we are all users, yes even you . Some are on this site for sex, to cheat, or wanting a relationship . We aren't 20 anymore so are chances of getting the pick of the litter greatly decreases the older we get. I think a lot of kind hearted, faithful, happy men/women get kicked to the curb because some think they are all that. And a little side note here a person can always lose weight but an ugly personality is forever....
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Topic: When messages from men turn sexual in nature
If you are not interested, then say so. If they persist, then BLOCK is your new best friend. |
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Wow that went about 10 feet past their head.....hey! let's be realistic we are all users, yes even you . Some are on this site for sex, to cheat, or wanting a relationship . We aren't 20 anymore so are chances of getting the pick of the litter greatly decreases the older we get. I think a lot of kind hearted, faithful, happy men/women get kicked to the curb because some think they are all that. And a little side note here a person can always lose weight but an ugly personality is forever.... YES! I agree totally. Attitude can kill any potential relationship. |
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Get over it! 1st..if the sex is no good there's no sense in going any further!
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All men care about is sex. They dont care about a woman personally. They think
Were no better than whores or there personal maid |
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It's all a question of timing, bringing sex up in initial conversations is sleazy but it's an important aspect to a relationship and deeply personal. Some mischievous banter shows a bit of character and humour. 2 people can decide yay or nay but if it's immediate, oh yawn
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well said
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All men care about is sex. They dont care about a woman personally. They think Were no better than whores or there personal maid |
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Edited by
Ladywind7
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Tue 12/17/19 12:15 AM
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Oh come now. Messages will eventually lead to sex/ making love. I met my husband on here, it did take us 7 months to initiate "things", but it will always lead to "intimacy".
It is what we want. |
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Oh come now. Messages will eventually lead to sex/ making love. I met my husband on here, it did take us 7 months to initiate "things", but it will always lead to "intimacy". It is what we want. Yep! If it happens sooner than you want, say so and if they don't respect that you can always block them. I agree with Ladywind, it will eventually happen... and imo, as the relationship progresses, it simply adds a little spice to the intimacy of the relationship. |
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Oh come now. Messages will eventually lead to sex/ making love. I met my husband on here, it did take us 7 months to initiate "things", but it will always lead to "intimacy". It is what we want. Yep! If it happens sooner than you want, say so and if they don't respect that you can always block them. I agree with Ladywind, it will eventually happen... and imo, as the relationship progresses, it simply adds a little spice to the intimacy of the relationship. I fancy a man who has self control. It means he is really interested in being truly loved. 
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Oh come now. Messages will eventually lead to sex/ making love. I met my husband on here, it did take us 7 months to initiate "things", but it will always lead to "intimacy". It is what we want. Yep! If it happens sooner than you want, say so and if they don't respect that you can always block them. I agree with Ladywind, it will eventually happen... and imo, as the relationship progresses, it simply adds a little spice to the intimacy of the relationship. I fancy a man who has self control. It means he is really interested in being truly loved.
Yes! Me too! 
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Let's just say IF they are "playing" online with you. Chances are playingnonljne with others. Just saying
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Almost all the women who've contacted me want to pass me their nekkid body pics.
I block and move on. How dare they!!!! |
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Often I have women bring up sex immediately to me, like saying "I believe in no sex before marriage".
That clears up that question. Next! |
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This is why men bring up the subject earlier than you ladies like: To take a closer look at sex and older women, Harder and her colleagues analyzed surveys filled out by 24,305 women, half of whom were 64 or older. The researchers chose to focus on 4,418 women who also filled out a comment section that allowed them to write down their experiences in more detail. Just 22.5% of the women, whose ages ranged from 50 to 75, said they had had intercourse in the preceding month. Lack of an intimate partner was the most common reason women cited, at 34.7%, for giving up sex. Among the 65.3% of women who did have a partner, just 34.5 reported being sexually active in the preceding month. If only 35% who have partners are sexually active, that means I have a 60+% chance of getting involved with a woman unwilling to be sexually active. Poor odds of finding a suitable partner!! I don't need a commitment to have sex with me ever but I do need to hear a positive attitude toward still being sexually active on your part. ref:https://www.msn.com/en-us/health/health-news/sex-less-likely-and-less-satisfying-as-women-hit-older-age/ar-AAEbE6E?li=BBnba9O You really need to get off the woman-bashing trope.. There are plenty of guys who, as they get older have lost interest in sex.. Just because YOU don't believe it or don't perspnally know anyone like that doesn't mean it isn't true... Also, men are less likely to be honest about the fact they aren't getting any...like it's an embaressment if they aren't or something...so, many misrepresemt how active they actually are...  Owwweeee! You just ripped a few of these men on here a new one
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It could be that some older men have decreased sexual interest. There's one point that both of you ignored- Does the man Want to get involved with the woman? I'd wager that some men (like me) don't want to. The baggage that comes with a sex partner isn't so appealing. Or, the man sees no appeal in the available women. I came across a few street walkers in my younger days. Never saw one I'd have sex with, even if it was free. (And it wasn't) My ex used to complain about my sexual interest in her. What she never realized, is that when she dyed her hair red, that killed my interest in her. I never dated a red head, never approached one for dating. Red wasn't in my appealing category. Then I end up with one. It became sort of a mexican standoff. To retaliate, I shaved off my mustache. Now it seemed pretty childish, back then, it wasn't. These goofy articles seem to proclaim the true reasons for sexual interest. I say it's time to look at the appeal side of sex. Good points but you left out one thing.... when you mention woman who have no appeal for men, well that goes both ways Maybe just maybe a woman isn't interested in the man, so then we get slandered with being called prudes, frigid, B's, C's yada yada yada |
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