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Topic: if you love two people at the same time
mistaice Joined Sat 06/24/17 Posts: 11	Tue 07/04/17 11:32 AM
if you love two people at the same time, choose the second because if you really love the first one, you wouldnt have fallen the second

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Tue 07/04/17 11:35 AM
'falling' and loving are different things no guarantees,,,sometimes people get bored with the landing and seek the 'falling' feeling again,, and once they land that,, its on to the next, and the next, and they are never satisfied because they continue to chase the 'fall'

Tejpook Joined Tue 07/04/17 Posts: 2	Tue 07/04/17 11:36 AM
Hi

Tejpook Joined Tue 07/04/17 Posts: 2	Tue 07/04/17 11:37 AM
R u interested do sec with me

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 07/04/17 11:40 AM
I can't juggle. Not sure what you are referring to

mistaice Joined Sat 06/24/17 Posts: 11	Tue 07/04/17 11:43 AM
that means people still love the most for the no 1 and no 2 was just lust. what happen for the no 2. is he/she been played?

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Tue 07/04/17 11:44 AM
Sorry but if it was between me am another, I would say bye and have at her

IgorFrankensteen Joined Thu 10/01/09 Posts: 5444	Tue 07/04/17 12:32 PM
You've come to the wrong conclusion from your data. If you think you've fallen in love twice in a relatively short time, that doesn't mean that either the first OR the second was the "real deal." It means that the thing you think of as "the in love" sensation, isn't.

Unknow Joined Sat 01/11/14 Posts: 23369	Tue 07/04/17 12:35 PM
R u interested do sec with me

Unknow Joined Sat 01/11/14 Posts: 23369	Tue 07/04/17 12:36 PM
Best get rid of them both. The first obviously wasn't the 'one 'and the second will never trust you!

peggy122 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 6525	Tue 07/04/17 12:46 PM
I'm not interested in being any man's "first" or "second". Is being his "ONLY" an option?

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24703	Tue 07/04/17 12:48 PM
I'm not interested in being any man's "first" or "second". Is being his "ONLY" an option? This!

mistaice Joined Sat 06/24/17 Posts: 11	Tue 07/04/17 02:17 PM
R u interested do sec with me

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Tue 07/04/17 02:41 PM
If you're in love with 2 people, you're probably not in love with either one. You're probably in love with the idea if being in love. Sometimes fantasy is better than reality

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21804	Tue 07/04/17 03:01 PM
One word, "threesome". And don't forget to send videos.

Mike6615 Joined Sun 09/18/16 Posts: 1524	Tue 07/04/17 03:12 PM
If you're in love with 2 people, you're probably not in love with either one. You're probably in love with the idea if being in love. Sometimes fantasy is better than reality Your second sentence is exactly what Oprah once said when asked why she doesn't marry her boyfriend.

ciretom Joined Wed 06/18/14 Posts: 4953	Tue 07/04/17 05:37 PM
if you love two people at the same time they probably don't know about each other, so you've probably lied to both. if you love two people at the same time, choose the second because if you really love the first one, you wouldnt have fallen the second If you think (or if it happens) by "choosing" the second that any love you feel for the first will immediately disappear and not cause emotional problems for you in all your relationships, then you don't really love the first. If you don't really love the first then you might not really love the second. Not to mention, you may only be able to love the second because of who you are because of your love of/with the first, so getting rid of the first can change you so you're incapable of loving the second like you think you can or you've grown accustomed to.

mistaice Joined Sat 06/24/17 Posts: 11	Tue 07/04/17 09:49 PM
One word, "threesome". And don't forget to send videos. sheee it

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24703	Tue 07/04/17 10:05 PM
DP

mistaice Joined Sat 06/24/17 Posts: 11	Tue 07/04/17 10:12 PM
if you love two people at the same time they probably don't know about each other, so you've probably lied to both. if you love two people at the same time, choose the second because if you really love the first one, you wouldnt have fallen the second If you think (or if it happens) by "choosing" the second that any love you feel for the first will immediately disappear and not cause emotional problems for you in all your relationships, then you don't really love the first. If you don't really love the first then you might not really love the second. Not to mention, you may only be able to love the second because of who you are because of your love of/with the first, so getting rid of the first can change you so you're incapable of loving the second like you think you can or you've grown accustomed to. me aldy felt being the no2 lover. its like all things was 2nd for me. i tried so hard being the best lover which she admit it but she still goes with no1 and left me just like that .