What can make you tear up then? Just curious?

Romantic movies.

Very good chocolate.

And very old whiskey.

Ohhh its just like girls... thank you for sharing

Really? That's it? I don't tear up at any of those things.

Guys cry too if touched emotionally... me and my brother cried when our dear father died :(

I also often have tearful eyes while watching or reading emotional scenes :)

I do in some romantic and drama movies..

Yeah everyone does when theres someone who died close to you... i forgot sorry...

Come on, now.
You needed a hankie with that corned beef on rye.

real men for me are those in touch with their feminine side...crying is one strong trait we women posses to control our feelings or cope with a situation. so a guy can cry all he wants on my shoulder and have my utmost respect and admiration he can do my hair and make up too lol (kidding)

Havent seen one who cried about it... mostly i saw a war freak / berseked guys who is ready to punch anyone around him and his dented car..

and i was off topic lol

you are so sweet...

Being able to express and share ones full range of feelings is the beginning of wisdom and a woman who has a man she will very likely cherish and adore as he offers her what she really needs wants and desires and can therefore reciprocate fully.

romantic movies for sure, seeing happy ending then I view my life romance . I promise not crying now.
seeing the reality of life . some people are evil. :(

Men cry when they have reached a emotional and stressful barrier. Your a 46 year old woman...nails your sandles to the floor and talks point blank with you and I won't put chocolate on it either. I have lived in your neck of the woods and I would rather have a iced cold bottle of San Miguel or Coke with a Tanduy ESQ Rum or a pitcher of MOJO but I am past that era of my life. Men that don't cry are hard liners or from countries like Japan where you would be lucky to get a tear because of their self discipline. So there are alot of reasons for and against. Men don't typically do so in every day life unless a emotional barrier has been breached, and heaven help you if they do. JMO V/r Frank

Men and women are all the same. We are humans with feelings or emotions. Men are mostly tough but it melts my heart to see a man who cries and never feel ashamed to show his vulnerability. I have seen my ex cry over a sad movie, an unfortunate man or woman on a show talking about his/her hard life, he feels for other people so much, street children and beggars, when he makes me upset and I just keep quiet and won't talk to him. Men are actually more emotional than women, especially when they talk about their personal problems they pour their heart out to you. I saw my father cry and got very emotional in front of us when we sometimes have family forum just expressing each of our feelings. Men are like girls too, soft, gentle and vulnerable and for that, I admire a man with a good heart

san miguel beer and tanduay that kinda rings a bell lol...sometimes when guys have more than a few of these they do cry too with a matching heartbreaking story

do you guys control yourselves and choose who you can or want to show your vulnerability to?' or is it a sensitive guy will always be a sensitive guy regardless of who they are with?

To a Goddess in tight black leather is the first choice.

The answer to that can't be too difficult. Even us girls control ourselves and choose who we show our vulnerable side. And men have been reared with "boys/men don't cry" so for them that sensation will be stronger.
Even most girls/women have been told off at several points in life for crying. Either by mother, at school, or later on as an adult at work or by an ex. Being scolded when we're most vulnerable does stick.
If we can't express it freely, while it is easier for us to show emotions, it's kinda logical men have more difficulty with this: They were brainwashed more when young, plus they get judged real bad when they do cry.

I also don't think a woman expressing she finds it endearing or cute when he cries is going to help a man. In front of his woman he doesn't want to feel emasculated. I think the best to do is to respectfully let him be. In other words, not become all motherly like "Owww... come here!" and hug him like he's a 4 yr old who chafed his knee when he fell off his bike.