Topic: Do guys dont really cry? | |
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Edited by
Tom4Uhere
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Fri 06/23/17 07:08 AM
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Emotional extremes.
Long periods without blinking. Foreign objects in the eyes. Certain gasses in concentration. I express my emotions as they occur. If the emotion causes tears, I let them out. I am secure in my manhood enough that I can embrace emotions without a feeling of shame. I cried at the theater while watching Godzilla (2014). I had tears streaming down my face. It was because I was so intent on the film that I failed to blink enough to keep my eyes moist. I cried at the end of The Notebook. It impacted my memory of my life experiences too closely and caused an emotional release. The woman I was with said it made me human. I have re-watched the film and not cried. Not because the association was different but because I had already embraced that emotion. I've cooked a dinner for a lady before and cried while cutting up a potent onion. She asked me what was wrong. When I told her it was the onions she thought I was hiding something that was sad. It took a lot of talking to change her per-conceived notion. Not because I was ashamed of crying but because she had it all wrong. I cried when I realized my marriage was ending. I cried for my loss when it finally did. I cried for my children and my unborn grandchildren that they would never know "Grandpa and Grandma" as a loving couple. I don't cry about those things anymore because those emotions have been released. I cry tears of joy when my children and grandchildren drive all the way down here to visit me. When my disability check arrived with my settlement I cried with joy when I saw the amount and at the relief of debt that was going to happen. I cry whenever the emotion needs to be released. There are many reasons why I cry. I'm human and humans have emotions - I embrace them and let them play out so I can regain my contentment. Edit to change "the" to "they" because it didn't read right after I posted. |
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Romantic movies. Very good chocolate. And very old whiskey. Come on, now. You needed a hankie with that corned beef on rye. It was the horse radish.. |
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When I was a young kid, I had a few operations that left me in extreme fear of hospitals and doctors. When I was older and married and had to get a minor operation and I was in a panic. My husband was no help. I went into myself and thought of my movies and thought, ok what would Rambo or Clint Eastwood do. I got really tough and that was the only thing that got me through it.
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I cry when I get ready to go see a movie, spend the time getting ready and getting everything set. Fighting traffic, standing in line and then realizing the movie is going to be terrible and the tears stream. Or if I go through the check out line with a few items and the person in front seems to test the limits of human endurance with asking every question known to man as if it is a social gathering, or if I stub my toe on the side of the bed.
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You are so sweet, I bet your not single? you nearly made me cry
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Not much... Maybe a solid kick in the balls... I got no more tears to give.
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Hello
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Not much... Maybe a solid kick in the balls... I got no more tears to give. That's so sad! |
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ok
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Edited by
Piscesmoon02
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Mon 06/26/17 01:07 PM
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I've seen men cry, they are human beings with emotions, just as women are. We all cry for different reasons.
I guess for me, it's not so important what makes a man cry. What I am more interested in is how a man would like me to respond if and when he cries? I suppose it depends on the man. |
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What can make you tear up then? Just curious? |
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Man or Woman, if you want to cry,then cry.
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Not much... Maybe a solid kick in the balls... I got no more tears to give. That's so sad! I guess I asked for it. I was so stupid! |
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Men cry when their car has been dented 100X !!! Of course some other times also. |
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When I punch myself in the face,,,real hard!
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When I punch myself in the face,,,real hard! |
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Not much... Maybe a solid kick in the balls... I got no more tears to give. That's so sad! I guess I asked for it. I was so stupid! I was referring to the part where you said you have no more tears to give. If the other happened, well, that's just wrong...even if you were stupid. |
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LOL! I was referring to that, too... FYI my balls are fine - Well, unhurt I mean
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LOL! I was referring to that, too... FYI my balls are fine - Well, unhurt I mean |
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LOL! I was referring to that, too... FYI my balls are fine - Well, unhurt I mean LOL Rooster, you are the MAN!!! |
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