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If a couple has a disagreement here and there, but they always work it out (never go to be angry), then I feel the relationship would be better and healthier. Now, if a couple argues all the damn time, starts throwing crap and breaking stuff, or it gets physical then of course it isn't healthy.
I will state that make up sex is damn fun, and couples definitely benefit from that. 
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Topic: Is arguing a natural part of every relationship? Yes.. and women always win.  
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Define Win
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Define Win You get to sleep in your own bed, eat supper and enjoy an evening of quiet. |
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I think that the goal of the people involved, might be the real key. When people with differences start "discussing" or "arguing" or "debating" those differences, and the goal of one or both is to WIN, the results usually have a negative impact on the relationship. When instead, the participants are both dedicated to finding ways to get along, the exact same [whatevers] tend to have very positive results. well said! I couldn't agree more about the key being in the 'goal' or motive.. my ex had only winning in mind, always(no exaggeration of the word) had to be right.. I call it his 'Jekyll / Hyde' personality.. if I disagreed, the monster appeared.. personally, I'd rather find ways/solutions to any given issue.. there's enough strife in the world and I feel the home should be a haven.. and that a couple should be able to navigate through their conflicting opinions with open communication.. so again agree, that 'finding ways to get along' does tend to result in a positive way... |
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I would agree with you.
But than we would both be wrong. |
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of course it is
you argued with your siblings, your parents and your friends at one time or another so of course, you will at some point come to a point of disagreement with the one you are in a relationship with two minds, two distinct personalities are bound to differ at some point along the way |
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isn't really helping in the relationship?
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Number aap
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Edited by
Funzy65
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Wed 03/15/17 04:46 AM
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Topic: Is arguing a natural part of every relationship? Yes.. and women always win. ************************************** My best chance to get to know you better  Bring it on lady Okay, by now I think I have seen few women warriors on the loose. Fighting 4 nothing, just to WIN nothing, but lose BIG in the long run. Like in most social competitive sports, there is an old LOGO. WINNING IS NOT ALL, LASTING THE DISTANCE IS WHEN ONE GETS THE MEDAL IN THE END. Betcha that cat wishes to kill me now 
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Edited by
Funzy65
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Wed 03/15/17 05:43 AM
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Can you genuinely remove arguing from a relationship or do you believe arguing is a natural part of a healthy relationship? What happens if you find arguing detrimental but your partner finds it natural? What’s the difference between an argument and a debate? ************************************************ I don't like arguments, and EASILY AVOID at all costs such interactions . How I do it ??..SIMPLE...I PLAY the DEAF TRICK.  I become on the spot and/or remotely DEAF ....That will upset the opposition more till he/she gets to the boiling point, where either GIVE UP, or continue to the next level called FIGHT... Study the behaviour and the ball is in your hand... Either fight to the last breath, or walk away before he/she may kill you. PS:...The DEAF TRICK works better & best with women. Specially when they almost finish raging about it, just ask them calmly ...WHAT WAS IT DID YOU SAID DEAR ?? CAN YOU REPEAT IT TO ME ??....Be very careful tho, make sure there are no guns, or plates around the scenes. ..." As a general rule, women's like you to listen to everything they are raving on about it "...Silly things included ...If you didn't hear them, or what they said, that's when they get really MAD and you hold the points on your favour.. MAKE SURE YOU CAN HAVE SOME WITNESS ??..IT HELPS LATER IN COURT ....Just in case . Me ?? ..I don't argue even if I'm right . I always make sure I have built my dog's house fully equipped with a bar-fridge & lots of beer, a comfy hammock and an alarm clock before I move in with her.  |
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Answer her arguments after she leaves or fall asleep and when she comes home or wake up with the same argument just say you answered it already, not your problem anymore if she hadn't heard it....
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Answer her arguments after she leaves or fall asleep and when she comes home or wake up with the same argument just say you answered it already, not your problem anymore if she hadn't heard it.... **************************************** ..Never done that.. Thanks for inspiring my funny bone. Next time I get my chances I WILL SURE GIVE IT A GO.
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Answer her arguments after she leaves or fall asleep and when she comes home or wake up with the same argument just say you answered it already, not your problem anymore if she hadn't heard it.... **************************************** ..Never done that.. Thanks for inspiring my funny bone. Next time I get my chances I WILL SURE GIVE IT A GO. Yeah sure do....and prepare yourself for another argument.....but then you already know what to do, same thing, wouldn't it be peaceful??
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Answer her arguments after she leaves or fall asleep and when she comes home or wake up with the same argument just say you answered it already, not your problem anymore if she hadn't heard it.... **************************************** ..Never done that.. Thanks for inspiring my funny bone. Next time I get my chances I WILL SURE GIVE IT A GO. By the way funzy....You got a real long pofile statement in there but it has a lot of intelligence and humor...I never stopped to read until the end....Great Wisdom!!! 
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I think that a debate would be more of an objective stance on a matter, as apposed to an argument which can be, and is mostly derived and composed of, emotionally charged energy. I believe an unhealthy argument eould be when emotions mind over rule rational mind and reactions are based on this (emotional charge).
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Can you genuinely remove arguing from a relationship or do you believe arguing is a natural part of a healthy relationship? What happens if you find arguing detrimental but your partner finds it natural? What’s the difference between an argument and a debate? If you and your partner argue in your relationship maybe you are incompatible, I guess it all depends on what you find to argue about and how often you argue. However, building a 'mancave' is usually all that is needed to remove these things from the relationship, good luck. |
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Answer her arguments after she leaves or fall asleep and when she comes home or wake up with the same argument just say you answered it already, not your problem anymore if she hadn't heard it.... **************************************** ..Never done that.. Thanks for inspiring my funny bone. Next time I get my chances I WILL SURE GIVE IT A GO. By the way funzy....You got a real long pofile statement in there but it has a lot of intelligence and humor...I never stopped to read until the end....Great Wisdom!!! **************************************************** Thanks gorgeous  I have an old saying..NOT ALWAYS WHAT WE WANT IS WHAT WE NEED. If one knows what he/she NEEDS, the rest is easy and set in stone. HONESTLY ..At my age, geo position , timing, condition/s etc etc I ASK MYSELF..Not what I WANT anymore, but WHAT I NEED FIRST. The TRUTH from inner heart says ..Pauly, you need FRIENDS FIRST. What can happen next, is the FOLLOWING CHAPTER. Finally I can jump in the jet and meet face 2 face starting from there with the chemistry, compatibility and the rest TIME is my ARROW, and the BOW is my PATIENCE.  Cheers..See you |
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Edited by
Piscesmoon02
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Thu 03/16/17 04:01 AM
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Can you genuinely remove arguing from a relationship or do you believe arguing is a natural part of a healthy relationship? What happens if you find arguing detrimental but your partner finds it natural? What’s the difference between an argument and a debate? ************************************************ I don't like arguments, and EASILY AVOID at all costs such interactions . How I do it ??..SIMPLE...I PLAY the DEAF TRICK. I become on the spot and/or remotely DEAF ....That will upset the opposition more till he/she gets to the boiling point, where either GIVE UP, or continue to the next level called FIGHT... Study the behaviour and the ball is in your hand... Either fight to the last breath, or walk away before he/she may kill you. PS:...The DEAF TRICK works better & best with women. Specially when they almost finish raging about it, just ask them calmly ...WHAT WAS IT DID YOU SAID DEAR ?? CAN YOU REPEAT IT TO ME ??....Be very careful tho, make sure there are no guns, or plates around the scenes. ..." As a general rule, women's like you to listen to everything they are raving on about it "...Silly things included ...If you didn't hear them, or what they said, that's when they get really MAD and you hold the points on your favour.. MAKE SURE YOU CAN HAVE SOME WITNESS ??..IT HELPS LATER IN COURT ....Just in case . Me ?? ..I don't argue even if I'm right . I always make sure I have built my dog's house fully equipped with a bar-fridge & lots of beer, a comfy hammock and an alarm clock before I move in with her. I do this with my sister all the time she loves to argue and debate/ fight. I refuse to engage, don't like arguing with anyone. It works...she goes in the house and continues her rant by herself
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Is arguing a natural part of every relationship?
___________________________________________________________________ It is , but when the arguing gets to be constant and too much. You end up here ;) |
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