So the question is on the subject which is pretty true, I can't seem to meet a guy that wants to get to know my brain all I meet is guys that want sex it's disheartening, are there actually any guys out there that like to court a girl, I swear I should of been born in the 1920s where men respected women and were gentlemen. Men of my generation certainly a lot of them are not gentlemen anymore. Pretty sad really what the world has come to.

I know what you mean sazzle. It will take time, but I am sure there are still a few real men who want relationships out here. I hope, at least 1 for me and 1 for you.

Those Bastards!!!!..most all men here are like that.. except me. So don't even waste your time with them.. waste it with me

Actually, I suspect men weren't much different in the twenties. It just seems that way, because until recently, rude and lascivious people weren't allowed to publish their "exploits."

I can say for certain, being ancient, that males were exactly the same when I was young: the majority were caught up in lust games almost exclusively, until they were in their thirties or older.

And the ones who wanted more serious lives, and marriage, tended to commit themselves fairly early, such that the only thing left available WERE the horn-dog squads.

Another thing to watch out for. It could be referred to as "the front of the crowd effect." The sex-only people tend to push eagerly to the front of the line, so to speak, and to make the most "noise," so that after a while, you don't even notice the polite and patient ones.

Best bet for the Online world, is to find the ones you like yourself, and contact them directly. When you wait to be sought after, the ones most likely to do so, will be the ones you don't want.

Topic: Why is I keep meeting men that just want sex

Where are you meeting them?

I can understand what your saying. I'm on a few dating sites and I would say it would be very close to the top of complains women have about men on dating sites.

I think in todays world where house prices have gone through the roof that many people (men) have decided not to get into a relationship and play the field instead.

My way of thinking is that the more attractive a woman the more attention she gets. I tend not to contact beautiful women like yourself because I know I would have no chance as there are men out there in a much better financial position than myself, which seems to be what most women are looking for. I'm honest and genuine but that doesn't seem to count much. I get very few women even viewing my profile let alone actually contacting me.. except the scammers that is.

I think you should look for the guy YOU like rather than pay much attention to guys contacting you unless you get the odd nice guy.

Good luck.. Laurie

its because a lot of men think with their little head, not their big one..

There is a lot of truth in that as well Rusty..

As a lot of women say.. men don't bother reading profiles as they aren't interested in that side of a woman.. just wanting one thing. In the end they are spoiling it for the genuine guys as women will gradually turn off.. and maybe look for another woman.

this has been going on since the caveman days and it will be going long as long as man is on the earth'

Any surprises here?.. you don't think Hercules and his pals were looking to get l**d.. really"

Or our founding fathers... do you really think they were writing laws 24/7? ...

What is the A number 1 thing that has brought the most powerful of men down

sex

Humans are animals, no different then any other. And as animals they have built in instances. One being.. sex.

The male as the hunter.. the female as the hunted

Since day one

Because we are on top of the food chain does not change what is genetically built in.

Pretty sad really what the world has come to.
We must push on and navigate many ridiculous obstacles life has to bombard us with this day and age of the world. Society

I keep on meeting the same type of men.
I really need to start avoiding prison.

Maybe effect of global warming in 1920s global warming was much lesser than now. Well try to ignore them and you will be fine. Good luck.

not all men

You are 29 years old, Attractive and Female.

What you want is a Monk.

Good luck with that.

Most men, If they are breathing are interested in sex. Men with respect for women wait until she is ready for that step. Then oblige.

Other men that think of women as conquests or trophies will not respect you and try to push you into a decision you are not ready to make purely for their benefit.

Any good relationship has a maturity about it that includes sex and discussions of sex ... eventually.

Don't let a few (or Many) bad apples destroy your search. Just weed them out and keep on looking.

Well, you're blond, you have a good vibe and some of your pictures are too revealing/challenging (what's the right word, someone help me out pls) for a dating site.
It's a learning curve, we all want to show of our best sides and assets, literally, and then find out that by doing that we attract what we don't want.

Stick to less revealing photos, and no they're not really too revealing, nothing wrong with them.
But for many men on dating sites, that kind of stuff is too much to handle. They see a bit of cleavage, legs, or an @$$, and they're off.
Sad but True (Metallica).
Tone it down a tad, and you may find you fare better online. You'll get enough attention as it is because you got long blond hair.

Yup gotta agree with that, especially the first three sentences.

Similar reason to why men keep meeting women that only want to be made to laugh and have the same dude commit to a life time of serving

Hi dear how r u do u want to meet with me

There are some good guys on hear that are actually interested in courting like myself but you usaly find more guys that are only interested in one thing those guys just give most guys a bad name.

Personally I go for personality over looks or sex and I am hear to find someone for who they are.

it may take a while to find a nice guy but hope you find what your looking for.
Del

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Perhaps you should use my lawyer the next time.