I want to be on the list....:( Ok now I sound like I am whining.

I met a guy from here. He was great and exactly what he said but we have a 2 hour drive and it was just to much for the both of us. If we were closer it would have been a different story. He is the only one I have met and I would not have changed the experience.

Thank you for your kind words. :)

I just wanted to thank everyone again for there advice. I have spent the last day in the hospital. I ended up having a miscarriage. I guess God works in mysterious ways. I do appreciate everyone's advice it did help me deal with things a lot that I was going through. If anything this whole situation has really shown me to wake up and be more careful of the people I date and really know them before I sleep with them.

Thank you again.

Have a great day!

To answer the question about his medical background. Yes I do know it. We were dating off and on for a few months. Plus I am a nurse and I pay attention to things like that. As far as giving him a chance to be a part of the child's life I did and he said he chooses not to. So I figure I can not make him but I will keep anything about him for my child. As far as the courts go I do not see them making him pay support when I make more than he does. I know they take that in to consideration. I guess what ever it would be is better than nothing. Then that would keep some kind of contact with him and that would be better for the child. Just a lot of things to think about. Thanks again for everyone's input. :)

I will of course keep everything I have on him. My problem is the stuff I have I am sure will change over the next several years. He has already made no contact with me since I told him and I have a feeling that will not change. Thank you again for your advice.

I really appreciate everyone's input. I just see my kids hurt every day because there father does not see them much and I would hate to do that for this baby. I guess one step at a time it is still very early in the ball game.....

Hi. Hope all is well with everyone. I just need some input and thought this would be a good place to get it. I have posted on the boards before but never the parenting board. So here is my question women or men whoever would like to answer I need some input. I just found out that I was pregnant a few days ago. Very unexpected! I was seeing this guy off and on nothing serious and well you know the rest of the story. Any way I am going to the doctor's today to confirm the pregnancy but I went ahead and called the guy and he totally freaked on me. Basically he said he did not have time for another child in his life or money for one. I know I can do this on my own. I have a great job I am a nurse and I have three other children from my ex-husband that I was married ten years to. I basically raised them by myself even though at the time I was married.

My question is I am thinking since this man does not want to be a part of this child's life I should just tell him to walk away and lose my number. Is that crazy? I know it would be hard to explain to a child years down the road but he does not want the child. I feel like I am also protecting the child in this case to.

Do you feel this is right or wrong?

sure do

Cooking dinner for my kids and parents.

I have never got on an airplane.

I love a romantic man....

shoot the breeze

I am single but hate it.:(

I did this at one time and it didn't work out. I would if it was love.

I would have to say a cat also....

all

Well I know in my case I have ended up with a cheater and a wife beater. Both times when there true colors showed I got out. I truly want a genuine nice guy but can't seem to find one. They all want to play and not settle down.

I think if both parties truly want to remain friends it can work. It has in my past relationships.

Playing a sport you like. It has worked for me. I play co ed softball and I have met some nice guys and made some great friends. No keepers yet.