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I gotta have laughter....and NOT the kind where she is the only one laughing, and its at me But Im always laughing at you Reb! Are you saying that our love don't stand a chance ? I stand a chance with Reb! Woohooooooooo!!!! |
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Hey Krissy! You look stunning in your new pic Im shocked that laughter isn't high on your priority. You tickle so many of us here. We look forward to your humor everyday Ps: Good luck on the *****-cat feeding. MEOW!!!! Thank you, Pegs β‘ That was just my pussycat's opinion. A little birdy told me that the puzzy cat is ALWAYS right |
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I gotta have laughter....and NOT the kind where she is the only one laughing, and its at me But Im always laughing at you Reb! Are you saying that our love doesn't stand a chance ? Well i think i will |
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Hi My Peggy. Nice post.:) Laughter with friends releases endorphins, the brain's "feel-good" chemicals and can do so much more. It is important to me that i smile from time to time and make others smile too. I always smile when i SEE you. :) Hi Lu You make everybody smile . That's a gift |
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I gotta have laughter....and NOT the kind where she is the only one laughing, and its at me But Im always laughing at you Reb! Are you saying that our love doesn't stand a chance ? Well i think i will Im not sure what you will, but I hope it goes well for you |
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TOTALLY Important! I laugh at just about everything, including ME (although I DO know when to be serious) so if he doesn't have a funny bone, know how to let loose and have some knee slapping, belly aching laughter.. we won't click!
sadly.. lack of laughter in today's world is NOT conducive to a long, HAPPY, stress free life OR relationship.. IMO! |
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TOTALLY Important! I laugh at just about everything, including ME (although I DO know when to be serious) so if he doesn't have a funny bone, know how to let loose and have some knee slapping, belly aching laughter.. we won't click! sadly.. lack of laughter in today's world is NOT conducive to a long, HAPPY, stress free life OR relationship.. IMO! Hi Zero Effected . Based on a couple of the responses here, laughter in a relationship is not a priority for everyone once the person makes them smile. But just like you , I actually feel incomplete if I don't have that laughter vibe going with my mate. Not that a couple will be laughing all of the time, but I certainly look forward to those moments |
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TOTALLY Important! I laugh at just about everything, including ME (although I DO know when to be serious) so if he doesn't have a funny bone, know how to let loose and have some knee slapping, belly aching laughter.. we won't click! sadly.. lack of laughter in today's world is NOT conducive to a long, HAPPY, stress free life OR relationship.. IMO! Hi Zero Effected . Based on a couple of the responses here, laughter in a relationship is not a priority for everyone once the person makes them smile. But just like you , I actually feel incomplete if I don't have that laughter vibe going with my mate. Not that a couple will be laughing all of the time, but I certainly look forward to those moments that's true Peggy.. it's not EVERYone's idea of a relationship breaker.. like I said though.. I laugh at just about everything.. I (like I'm sure many others) have had a lot of rough times to get thru.. and found the only thing that kept me sane was finding the funny in any given situation.. so if I was around someone who didn't know how/when to laugh OR didn't find most silly things funny.. we'd not get along.. and I'd be my eyes till I couldn't take it any longer cheers on a side note.. feel free to call me Zee.. |
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Thanks Zee. I agree with everything you said :)
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Hi Pegs,
Laughter is very essential in a relationship, coz if you can laugh at each other whether it be a joke or not, share funny stories, and just have fun time together then it means you both jive and definitely you can get along quite well...without laughter a relationship will die out and it will be so boring that either of you would want to jump off in the sea instead....lolzzzz |
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Hey Twin! Long time no see
Your response resembles soufie's wisdom , in that for many people, shared laughter can be a reflection of a couple being on the same frequency somewhat. It's not everything, but its a big part of the bonding process for a lot of people |
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Hey Twin! Long time no see Your response resembles soufie's wisdom , in that for many people, shared laughter can be a reflection of a couple being on the same frequency somewhat. It's not everything, but its a big part of the bonding process for a lot of people Yeah missed you guys here, I have just been travelling here and there...and doing a lot of preparations in here...Missed having some fun time here in the forums...Lolzzz...but glad to see ya all here still on the go.... |
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If you meet a date with some wonderful attributes eg attractiveness, intelligence, kindness etc, but neither of you feel inspired to joke and laugh when you are together, does it affect your level of attraction for the person? In other words, you both smile, engage fully, and converse, but you seldom inspire each other to LAUGH ,how much does that affect your desire to date them? Is "Laughter chemistry" important to YOU? Yes definitely, I can be serious at times, but there's nothing like a giggle to lighten the load. The very lucky girl who ends up with me will think her life has become a real life romantic comedy |
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Nah
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Nah Dissident |
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..Is "Laughter chemistry" important to YOU? VERY. Important. Here is why..when you share humor you also share a 'kinship' of understanding. They make you laugh because you 'get' it (them.) And vice versa. If it is consistent, you are in the groove with that person. Nothing better :-) ^^^^^ This It's very important. NOt unlike getting a language. You do not really get a language until you get the humour in that language. Same with a partner. If you don't get each other's humour, you don't really get each other. You're on different wavelengths. Don't want that with a partner. |
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Nah Dissident Not really. The blatant obviousness to my sensibilities sent me sardonic. (Not that it is not great question and subject) I'm sure there are very pragmatic people out there who don't put as much a value as (I think) most of us do. I wouldn't want to hang out with them though. |
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If you meet a date with some wonderful attributes eg attractiveness, intelligence, kindness etc, but neither of you feel inspired to joke and laugh when you are together, does it affect your level of attraction for the person? In other words, you both smile, engage fully, and converse, but you seldom inspire each other to LAUGH ,how much does that affect your desire to date them? Is "Laughter chemistry" important to YOU? "Laughter is vital to life... period... So if I can't laugh with the person I am with then there is no chemistry... This thang called chemistry to me is made up of so many different components, that is really isn't describable.... |
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Soufie Why are you so damn wise all the time? Can't you be wrong and stupid for ONCE, like us mere mortals??? ! Gee, no pressure there.. |
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