Topic: Is Shared Laughter Important In Dating?
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Tue 08/02/16 10:40 AM



I gotta have laughter....and NOT the kind where she is the only one laughing, and its at me laugh


But Im always laughing at you Reb! Are you saying that our love don't stand a chance ?:tongue: laugh
Lol TouchΓ© Peggy....and you always stand a chance :wink:


I stand a chance with Reb! Woohooooooooo!!!! drinker drinker drinker

peggy122's photo
Tue 08/02/16 10:42 AM


Hey Krissy! You look stunning in your new pic flowerforyou

Im shocked that laughter isn't high on your priority. You tickle so many of us here. We look forward to your humor everyday happy

Ps: Good luck on the *****-cat feeding. MEOW!!!!bigsmile


Thank you, Pegs β™‘

That was just my pussycat's opinion. :laughing:


A little birdy told me that the puzzy cat is ALWAYS right :wink:

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Tue 08/02/16 10:42 AM


I gotta have laughter....and NOT the kind where she is the only one laughing, and its at me laugh


But Im always laughing at you Reb! Are you saying that our love doesn't stand a chance ? what :tongue: laugh

Well i think i will

peggy122's photo
Tue 08/02/16 10:45 AM

Hi My Peggy. flowerforyou
Nice post.:)
Laughter with friends releases endorphins, the brain's "feel-good" chemicals and can do so much more. It is important to me that i smile from time to time and make others smile too. :heart:
I always smile when i SEE you. :):heart:


Hi Lu waving

You make everybody smile . That's a gift flowerforyou

peggy122's photo
Tue 08/02/16 10:47 AM



I gotta have laughter....and NOT the kind where she is the only one laughing, and its at me laugh


But Im always laughing at you Reb! Are you saying that our love doesn't stand a chance ? what :tongue: laugh

Well i think i will


Im not sure what you will, but I hope it goes well for you :smile:

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Tue 08/02/16 10:54 AM
TOTALLY Important! I laugh at just about everything, including ME (although I DO know when to be serious) so if he doesn't have a funny bone, know how to let loose and have some knee slapping, belly aching laughter.. we won't click!

sadly.. lack of laughter in today's world is NOT conducive to a long, HAPPY, stress free life OR relationship.. IMO!

peggy122's photo
Tue 08/02/16 11:11 AM

TOTALLY Important! I laugh at just about everything, including ME (although I DO know when to be serious) so if he doesn't have a funny bone, know how to let loose and have some knee slapping, belly aching laughter.. we won't click!

sadly.. lack of laughter in today's world is NOT conducive to a long, HAPPY, stress free life OR relationship.. IMO!


Hi Zero Effected .

Based on a couple of the responses here, laughter in a relationship is not a priority for everyone once the person makes them smile.

But just like you , I actually feel incomplete if I don't have that laughter vibe going with my mate. Not that a couple will be laughing all of the time, but I certainly look forward to those moments :smile:

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Tue 08/02/16 11:23 AM


TOTALLY Important! I laugh at just about everything, including ME (although I DO know when to be serious) so if he doesn't have a funny bone, know how to let loose and have some knee slapping, belly aching laughter.. we won't click!

sadly.. lack of laughter in today's world is NOT conducive to a long, HAPPY, stress free life OR relationship.. IMO!


Hi Zero Effected .

Based on a couple of the responses here, laughter in a relationship is not a priority for everyone once the person makes them smile.

But just like you , I actually feel incomplete if I don't have that laughter vibe going with my mate. Not that a couple will be laughing all of the time, but I certainly look forward to those moments :smile:


that's true Peggy.. it's not EVERYone's idea of a relationship breaker..
like I said though.. I laugh at just about everything.. I (like I'm sure many others) have had a lot of rough times to get thru.. and found the only thing that kept me sane was finding the funny in any given situation.. so if I was around someone who didn't know how/when to laugh OR didn't find most silly things funny.. we'd not get along.. and I'd be whoa my eyes till I couldn't take it any longer laugh
cheers drinker

on a side note.. feel free to call me Zee.. flowerforyou

peggy122's photo
Tue 08/02/16 11:35 AM
Thanks Zee. I agree with everything you said :)

Twintidbits24's photo
Tue 08/02/16 11:43 AM
Hi Pegs,

Laughter is very essential in a relationship, coz if you can laugh at each other whether it be a joke or not, share funny stories, and just have fun time together then it means you both jive and definitely you can get along quite well...without laughter a relationship will die out and it will be so boring that either of you would want to jump off in the sea instead....lolzzzz happy

peggy122's photo
Tue 08/02/16 11:51 AM
Hey Twin! Long time no see waving

Your response resembles soufie's wisdom , in that for many people, shared laughter can be a reflection of a couple being on the same frequency somewhat. It's not everything, but its a big part of the bonding process for a lot of people :thumbsup:

Twintidbits24's photo
Tue 08/02/16 12:14 PM

Hey Twin! Long time no see waving

Your response resembles soufie's wisdom , in that for many people, shared laughter can be a reflection of a couple being on the same frequency somewhat. It's not everything, but its a big part of the bonding process for a lot of people :thumbsup:


Yeah missed you guys here, I have just been travelling here and there...and doing a lot of preparations in here...Missed having some fun time here in the forums...Lolzzz...but glad to see ya all here still on the go....:wink: flowerforyou

peggy122's photo
Tue 08/02/16 12:44 PM
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Tue 08/02/16 12:52 PM

If you meet a date with some wonderful attributes eg attractiveness, intelligence, kindness etc, but neither of you feel inspired to joke and laugh when you are together, does it affect your level of attraction for the person?

In other words, you both smile, engage fully, and converse, but you seldom inspire each other to LAUGH ,how much does that affect your desire to date them?

Is "Laughter chemistry" important to YOU?



Yes definitely, I can be serious at times, but there's nothing like a giggle to lighten the load.

The very lucky girl who ends up with me will think her life has become a real life romantic comedy ohwell

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 08/02/16 12:58 PM
Nah

Seakolony's photo
Tue 08/02/16 01:59 PM

Nah

Dissident

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Tue 08/02/16 02:13 PM


..Is "Laughter chemistry" important to YOU?

VERY. Important.
Here is why..when you share humor you also share
a 'kinship' of understanding.

They make you laugh because you 'get' it (them.)
And vice versa.
If it is consistent, you are in the groove with that person.
Nothing better :-)

^^^^^ This
It's very important. NOt unlike getting a language. You do not really get a language until you get the humour in that language.
Same with a partner. If you don't get each other's humour, you don't really get each other. You're on different wavelengths. Don't want that with a partner.

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 08/02/16 02:24 PM


Nah

Dissident


laugh Not really. The blatant obviousness to my sensibilities sent me sardonic. (Not that it is not great question and subject)

I'm sure there are very pragmatic people out there who don't put as much a value as (I think) most of us do. I wouldn't want to hang out with them though.

SitkaRains's photo
Tue 08/02/16 02:27 PM

If you meet a date with some wonderful attributes eg attractiveness, intelligence, kindness etc, but neither of you feel inspired to joke and laugh when you are together, does it affect your level of attraction for the person?

In other words, you both smile, engage fully, and converse, but you seldom inspire each other to LAUGH ,how much does that affect your desire to date them?

Is "Laughter chemistry" important to YOU?




"Laughter is vital to life... period...

So if I can't laugh with the person I am with then there is no chemistry...

This thang called chemistry to me is made up of so many different components, that is really isn't describable....

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Tue 08/02/16 02:35 PM

Soufie
Why are you so damn wise all the time?
Can't you be wrong and stupid for ONCE, like us mere mortals??? !:heart: :heart:flowerforyou happy

Gee, no pressure there..