Topic: NO sex before "I do"
SamsaraSuperluv's photo
Sat 09/30/17 03:31 AM
It is the main reason I am single. Most refuse to wait.

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Sun 10/01/17 02:04 PM

It is the main reason I am single. Most refuse to wait.


Is very though my sister. God will see us through.

Benjyzus411's photo
Sun 10/01/17 11:24 PM
Without the holy spirit, you can not abstain from sex or romance when you're in same room with someone dear to your heart

Jdsfam's photo
Mon 10/02/17 12:59 AM
Good too see people across the globe still talk or consider talking about such topics.

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Mon 10/02/17 06:01 AM

Without the holy spirit, you can not abstain from sex or romance when you're in same room with someone dear to your heart



You are right that is why we need spirit filled partner as we are. Two can't work accept they agree. If two people put the issue in prayer, God will help them by His Holy Spirit. Am looking forward to see my God sent.

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Mon 10/09/17 09:52 AM
you guys and girls are sooooooooooo amazing and this is so refreshing for someone who has been on her own for years (me) and felt i'm the only one left on earth....add to this that in my country (Egypt)no single christians are left anymore!! I'm bombarded with proposals from muslim men (very nice and everything)but till now,it is out of the question...tough life here :(

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Mon 10/09/17 09:52 AM
you guys and girls are sooooooooooo amazing and this is so refreshing for someone who has been on her own for years (me) and felt i'm the only one left on earth....add to this that in my country (Egypt)no single christians are left anymore!! I'm bombarded with proposals from muslim men (very nice and everything)but till now,it is out of the question...tough life here :(

Godsfriend10's photo
Tue 10/10/17 08:20 PM
You are on point.

Godsfriend10's photo
Tue 10/10/17 08:35 PM

Without the holy spirit, you can not abstain from sex or romance when you're in same room with someone dear to your heart
You are right. The Holy Spirit helps us maintain sexual purity. It is advisable a couple avoids protracted courtship-if you have found the right person. Just marry.

Carlisto1980's photo
Thu 10/12/17 08:43 AM
I agree

ohhhpam's photo
Wed 11/01/17 10:12 PM
im a true Christian..im following the law written in the bible..NO PMS..

im not forcing anyone to believe,but believe me weather u like it or not..there are still few women :thumbsup::raised_hand::raised_hand::raised_hand:

malcom111's photo
Thu 11/02/17 03:18 AM
you are very correct

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Thu 11/02/17 04:58 AM

It is the main reason I am single. Most refuse to wait.


Likewise.

Narlycarnk's photo
Fri 11/24/17 02:06 PM
I also sign onto the pact. God has shown me in my life how meaningless connections are sad, as he also said in Matthew 5:28 " but I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body and for your whole body to be thrown into Hell." I did grieve. But I do have connection to the warm community, enough common understanding with women to know that a meaningful connection would be possible should it be sent, and trust that the human race is in good hands - I feel no need to cast my ballot into the gene pool unless I am called.

Davisgirl89's photo
Sun 11/26/17 07:18 PM
This is a hard journey. Especially for someone who has experienced the weakness of the old man, flesh. I admit just earlier this year, I was allowing my flesh to do the leading. But, sometime before spring, if not early spring, I decided to stand strong in the weakness of the old man and pray. At first, I was weak and indulged in a lot of self pleasure, but through a lot of pray and scripture reading, I am no longer a victim of my desire. I found strength in God's will. My next time will be after the 'I Do'.
It has taken me to sitting in the middle of a bathroom floor crying to know that all intimacy is not good intimacy. And indulging in any type of desire, driven by the flesh, the old man, is a price that does have negative consequences. So for those of you who are going through, and feel weak, pray. When the desire of the old man, rise and you feel the pressure building, pray, draw closer to the Lord. It worked for me. And I use to think I was addicated.

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Sun 11/26/17 08:16 PM
I can wait, contact me asap

Eboniequin's photo
Mon 12/11/17 10:41 PM


How many of you make a pact to wait till you say "I do"? I'm separated and about to jump into the dating world and this is what I desire for my new relationship(s). Are there men out there actually willing to wait?


I was wondering the same question for women lol >.<. Hope you find a man that stands true to this :)
what is your own stand? would you agree to this rule in your relationship?

Eboniequin's photo
Mon 12/11/17 10:42 PM


How many of you make a pact to wait till you say "I do"? I'm separated and about to jump into the dating world and this is what I desire for my new relationship(s). Are there men out there actually willing to wait?


I was wondering the same question for women lol >.<. Hope you find a man that stands true to this :)
what is your own stand? would you agree to this rule in your relationship?

Eboniequin's photo
Mon 12/11/17 10:44 PM

These days it is difficult to find an alleged "Christian" woman who is willing to wait until marriage.
that is true, but there are still those who will wait

spiceduplifestyle's photo
Wed 12/13/17 06:11 PM
on what day do most people go to church . just curious