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I do admire people out there who would patiently wait and do marriage before sex,and I do believe in that kind of perspective,because that what the Lord commanded us,and somehow someday ,their will be a man who would perfectly fit into my life that the Lord God will provide for me...
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Hi my dear my name is Ibrahim Samuel from Sierra Leone but presently leaving in Gambia for now. I really want a full friendship between us which we lead us to marriage
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This is how I understand God's gift to us: Sex
I have sinned greatly in my past, done things I regret, asked for forgiveness countless of times. I am still fighting this battle of sin to this day. But what I have learned from my experiences is that people are driven by lust and desire. The excitement is addictive. However, I felt this each and every time with a women before we had sex. Like it was meant to be that girl. Our temptations break the rule and we end up having sex. It begins as just that one time, then slowly it becomes more constant. Kissing starts getting less, and more sexual desires come at play as the love actually fades. I think its a way that God is warning me or punishing me, because I fell out of love every time I had sex with my partner. Like literally, no feelings. I believe that sex is for after marriage, because once you marry that person, your soul becomes one with them and together you shall be one and praise God after death. Marriage is that promise one makes, and it should actually give couples a slight fear, because it a promise to God after all. Therefore he blessed us with sex. And with God at your side, true love will always prosper and that sex drive will always be full of love and never fade. This is all achievable with the right mindset, and by trusting God. Perhaps this sounds a bit confusing, but its how I feel about this. |
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NO sex before "I do"?
We can't have sex before you do? 
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How many of you make a pact to wait till you say "I do"? I'm separated and about to jump into the dating world and this is what I desire for my new relationship(s). Are there men out there actually willing to wait? Honouring the Lord with our soul and body is non negotiable in our Christain journey. would definitely be wise to wait in all ways possible.... 1 Corinthians 6:9 9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, Adultery = voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man and someone other than his wife or between a married woman and someone other than her husband Fornication = consensual sexual intercourse between two persons not married to each other Very well stated "biblically", however Many Christians fall into error in this Situation. |
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I strongly advocate for sex after mariage. It might be the most difficult thing to do but it is worth it. I understand its most difficult for the men I hear. But if the lady is able to help the man hold on to self control then what an amazing wedding night. I look foreward to that.
for this to happen do not stire up love when it is not ripe.. |
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This is how I understand God's gift to us: Sex I have sinned greatly in my past, done things I regret, asked for forgiveness countless of times. I am still fighting this battle of sin to this day. But what I have learned from my experiences is that people are driven by lust and desire. The excitement is addictive. However, I felt this each and every time with a women before we had sex. Like it was meant to be that girl. Our temptations break the rule and we end up having sex. It begins as just that one time, then slowly it becomes more constant. Kissing starts getting less, and more sexual desires come at play as the love actually fades. I think its a way that God is warning me or punishing me, because I fell out of love every time I had sex with my partner. Like literally, no feelings. I believe that sex is for after marriage, because once you marry that person, your soul becomes one with them and together you shall be one and praise God after death. Marriage is that promise one makes, and it should actually give couples a slight fear, because it a promise to God after all. Therefore he blessed us with sex. And with God at your side, true love will always prosper and that sex drive will always be full of love and never fade. This is all achievable with the right mindset, and by trusting God. Perhaps this sounds a bit confusing, but its how I feel about this. It is not confusing to me at all. I understand clearly. I agree most of the times we fall into sexual sin is because we give in to the lust of the eye, then comes foreplay then on and on and before u know it all u are left with is regret. I hope and pray God helps you and restore your desire for the one he has choosing for u while giving u the grace to exercise selfcontrol |
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