Topic: Why is it so hard to find the right guy?
nicklondonien's photo
Thu 06/16/16 10:49 PM
love

RonnaGrace's photo
Fri 06/17/16 08:17 AM
Exactly...

TMommy's photo
Fri 06/17/16 08:20 AM
pfft should be easy

lemme think now


guy should be within two years of my age
in as good as shape as I am
but not better

he should love to cook cause frankly
I am sick of it

he should have most of his teeth and some hair at least
a brain and know how to use it

employed
but not so devoted to his job he is never home
after all...ahem...when I tap my foot and snap my fingers...

he should never pester me for sex
unless I wanna
in which case he best be ready at a moment's notice

Pyxxy's photo
Fri 06/17/16 05:22 PM
Maybe looking for perfection? There are flaws in everyone.

no1phD's photo
Fri 06/17/16 05:44 PM

Maybe looking for perfection? There are flaws in everyone.
..Ummm. not everyone..lol

msharmony's photo
Fri 06/17/16 09:42 PM
the right guy is hiding from all the women looking for himdrinker drinker

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Fri 06/17/16 10:40 PM
Every time I look in the mirror I see the right guy...

rofl rofl rofl rofl



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Sat 06/18/16 10:42 AM

I didn't put up those kind of things in my profile..I'm not looking for Mr. Perfect..just looking for the right guy for me..and no I don't want a Brad Pitt, far from it..u don't even know what kind of guy I'm looking for..so stop assuming and generalizing things on all women..

I wouldn't worry too much about his snide comment, it say's more about him than you.

All the best and by the way Mr Perfect 'for you' will be out there somewhere.

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Sat 06/18/16 10:50 AM

the right guy is hiding from all the women looking for himdrinker drinker



shades

Rooster35's photo
Sat 06/18/16 01:28 PM
I don't know why you wouldn't find the right guy for you. Perhaps you're not looking in all the right places and perhaps you're not looking hard enough or perhaps putting the ideal before reality just doesn't work.

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Sat 06/18/16 10:20 PM
Maybe i am to picky what am i doing wrong any one want to inform me I want a guy i am atracted to who can talk intelectual stuff with me who is not shorter than me is a christian who is in the us oh and who is respectful i am offended when i receive a message with a jjnt at sendjng a pic please get to the point and dont send me just the word picture. Jf the first message ask for a picture and doesnt even say hi jt makes me wonder jf the guy has maners oh and i dont belive in sex before marrige and dont drive but can get almost anywhere by other methods of transportation but once i find someone and get married i hope my husband acts out of love as i would to him

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Sat 06/18/16 10:20 PM
Maybe i am to picky what am i doing wrong any one want to inform me I want a guy i am atracted to who can talk intelectual stuff with me who is not shorter than me is a christian who is in the us oh and who is respectful i am offended when i receive a message with a jjnt at sendjng a pic please get to the point and dont send me just the word picture. Jf the first message ask for a picture and doesnt even say hi jt makes me wonder jf the guy has maners oh and i dont belive in sex before marrige and dont drive but can get almost anywhere by other methods of transportation but once i find someone and get married i hope my husband acts out of love as i would to him

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Sat 06/18/16 10:25 PM
Sorry cant tpye or qrjte well due to a stroke at dout i ahoukdnt of survjved no that doesnt mean j have brain damage other than seizures and issues comunicatjng on paper/typing mechanism and sometime once in a blue moon whike speakinh yes i speak english no i am not a scamer or and for the post above as long as the guy is legally an adumt or up to 10 yrs older than me up to 14 years older of varry well matchwd or verry atractive for those cutious that means 18-30 or 18-34 if he is a good match or I fimd him extra intresting

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Sat 06/18/16 10:25 PM
Edited by ambitiouswomanofGod on Sat 06/18/16 10:26 PM
Sorry another double post i cant figure out how to fix

Bernard2020's photo
Sun 06/19/16 01:56 AM
Well.....am here single calm and waiting on you woman who will take me for who Ian not for anything else.
Please come and find me

davilet42's photo
Sun 06/19/16 09:10 AM
You hit the nail on the head. I feel exactly the same way you do

Odane1738's photo
Wed 06/22/16 09:26 PM
Finding a good man is easy ladies the.reason why it seems so hard is simply because you are not giving the guys who would treat you like a queen a chance instead you give it to the savages...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 06/24/16 09:18 AM
Why is it so hard to find the right guy?

Why? Cos they're taken. Either that or they're not interested in anything serious, just play the field cos everyone wants them.

Seriously ... every bloody time I see a photo of a guy that looks happy, lively, young at heart, and still has a sparkle in his eyes, he's MARRIED!!! In spite of that he's on dating sites, so playing the field.

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 06/24/16 09:25 AM

Why is it so hard to find the right guy?

Why? Cos they're taken. Either that or they're not interested in anything serious, just play the field cos everyone wants them.

Seriously ... every bloody time I see a photo of a guy that looks happy, lively, young at heart, and still has a sparkle in his eyes, he's MARRIED!!! In spite of that he's on dating sites, so playing the field.


Hey! I am NOT taken, and I am NOT playing the field. :angry:

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 06/24/16 09:27 AM
I honestly think the harder we look for something the more we can't see it.

So my advice is to relax let things come naturally..

As far as the "right" guy well that is subjective.
What is right for you may not be right for me vice a versa.


Do we all deserve to be happy of course we do and we are responsible for that happiness not another person..

Best wishes in your search