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Topic: Why is it so hard to find the right guy?
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Fri 06/24/16 09:32 AM

It shouldn't be this hard..either he is in the states and I'm not looking for long distance relationship, or he has a job that takes him away from home all the time which means travelling all the time for work, or he is too young, or he just wants one thing etc..it's always something..
I'm looking for the right guy for me..my true love..my life partner..I know what I been through and I know I deserve a great guy..it's time for my happiness..I guess it's as they say, when u want something u won't get..
Rina

its not that hard. every chick on here could find somebody if they werent so busy playing games all the time nobody on here is serious

pinkrose2808's photo
Sat 06/25/16 08:14 AM
It's interesting what you just shared. I personally believe that you cannot be looking for Mr. nor Mrs. Right. You have to be happy with who you are first and be content with what you have and with those around you. Love will find each one of us when you least suspect it! That is when you are ready! In order to be happy in this journey of life, you cannot live worrying and being anxious about where love could be found? Live and enjoy the ride you are in and just like me , love will come.

Manturkey1's photo
Sat 06/25/16 08:20 AM


It shouldn't be this hard..either he is in the states and I'm not looking for long distance relationship, or he has a job that takes him away from home all the time which means travelling all the time for work, or he is too young, or he just wants one thing etc..it's always something..
I'm looking for the right guy for me..my true love..my life partner..I know what I been through and I know I deserve a great guy..it's time for my happiness..I guess it's as they say, when u want something u won't get..
Rina

its not that hard. every chick on here could find somebody if they werent so busy playing games all the time nobody on here is serious


I would conclude that elexpains your profile pix .

Some are here just to pass the time.

msharmony's photo
Sat 06/25/16 12:00 PM
I concur with pinkrose

looking for someone to 'complete' us is a fools errand,, who would want someone who isn't completed yet?...lol

I think the struggle is being happy with our own company so we can be enjoyable company to someone else,, and they in turn doing the same

clinginess and neediness can be draining,,,

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Sat 06/25/16 10:47 PM
Why is it so hard to find the right guy?

Stop looking in the RAT HOLESexplode explode

wizardary's photo
Sun 06/26/16 11:30 AM
Because there has to be a buzz and if there isn,t and you choose wrong there will be an explosion =one of emotions which will have you spinning like the big wheel at the fairground.

RustyKitty's photo
Sun 06/26/16 04:20 PM
yes, us girls have to kiss a lot of frogs to find our prince, as the old phrase goes.
a good man is hard to find, and a hard man is good to find.
ok I'll stop now..smokin

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Sun 06/26/16 04:55 PM
It's a numbers game. There are 7.4 billion people on this planet. Of that, approximately 5 billion are men. How many men have you met? Right!

It takes a ton of work to find the right person for each of us. You don't do that behind a computer screen. You have to get out and meet people by joining clubs, etc, etc, etc. AND..... you have to be emotionally available when doing so.

OR

You compromise and settle

OR

You get extremely lucky

OR

You are forced to marry and make the best out of it

Our grandparents / great grandparents were driving together out of necessity. That necessity no longer exists. In developed countries, people can easily support themselves.

I kind of think we ALL have become spoiled with what we think we deserve and should be able to get. The older we get the less we are willing to settle.

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