or you could just kick em in the nuts,,,,

dats odd
so all he wanted was to hear your voice?

CBG, if you can't say anything nice, don't say it at all. All I did was GENERALIZE and I can EMPATHIZE with Sugar without saying I would do this and that to the guy who stood her up after she drove all that way. I don't recall specifically pointing you out in my original post. She deserved better as do I, you and the rest of us on here. I specifically put in my profile that I didn't have or want to play games and some guys took that as being "open season" on jerking me around. All I want (as well as Sugar and lots of other women and men on this and other sites) is for someone who is as serious as I/we am/are about finding someone nice to spend time with and possibly even out lives together. Is that so wrong? So, do you do you feel better by calling me hypocritical and negative and that I write BS? I only write the truth, as did Sugar and the other women on here.

you better tell that mother fu**er to give you gas money. what a ****. makes me want to kick him in the a**!!!!. oh well hopefully the next one wont fu** with you. hey did you meet that a**hole on here? who is he?

I think it was something he was not honest about and yeah what a pig bastard but just know it was not you- it was something with him that he probably feels prety crappy about-
I spoke with a guy for a month and a 1/2 and he made up all kinds of things about himself and sent pics and what not then when the meeting was fianlly going to happen he called and unloaded his bomb- he was very large was not a body builder type of body- lived at home with his parents and worked at wendy's - I was going to try to be his friend but in the end I was so angry that he lied and used so many personal things to rope me in - it crushed me and now I am gonna tell you that I am much more skeptical and less likely to fall for crap online.. I have many more war stories but those will come out later as I post -
Just keep your chin up and do not give up hope hun- and make the next one come to you- (((hugs)))

M.

Awwww, Sugar, what a back of suck.

Normally, I'm not too vindictive, but you need to post him on the don't date him girl site.

I wish I had words of wisdom for you or some nice cliches to make you feel better, but they have all been done.

Hugs and sunshine to you. Email me if you need a shoulder to lean on.

M

PS-You, too, my Coco girlfirend!

WHAT A D!CKWAD
SORRY TO HEAR THAT HAPPENED TO YOU

dang girl im so sorry...maybe something came up i dunno but i wish you the best...Good luck to ya

wow--- that was not right
you do not allow someone to drive 9 hours
without meeting them!!
there is no excuse-- he knew you were on the road
for 9 hours if something "came up" he could take
5 mins to call.

Think you should just post a note asking if anyone has seen him.
NOTHING bad, just a question, that way warns others who he is.

I'm sorry that you were put thru that. Nervy of him to talk to you for 7 hrs and never say you know.. i dont think its a good idea... What a cowardly ass. They are out there, but we do have to believe that there are good guys too... I dont like to generalize that men are the only pigs out there, because from the war stories that some men have said.. there are women that are in the same class... Luckily I am not associated with them lol.

I guess, and I've learned this the hard way too.. If they want to meet you... you meet half way, or they come to you. I was talking to one guy, he told me he wanted to meet me.. so we planned on meeting half way and spending a couple days. When I had taken the week off, and was getting ready to go, and find a place to stay... he im's me and says I gotta work I'll be back in a couple days.. Couple days turned into a month. And then he was there for a few days.. we made plans again.. and he bailed.. I haven't heard from him since... I think he was married..

But it is their loss.. because they could possibly have the best relationship, if they just told the truth and what not... So don't let this one thing break your spirit.. because... he was the loser, and you will find someone better!!

thanks for the advice!

update: thats sorry bastard had the nerve to call me and kinda unload his lies on me, first, he is married, second he had the nerve to ask me to forgive him, because his wife found out and has now left his sorry azz....what the hell??? anyways his name is jason, and he is from georgia...so if anyone talks to a guy named jason from georgia...watch yourself....was told not to list his " user name" on here or id be deactivated, so just following directons...anyways be careful you all...some real crazies on here, and please if you are married, just say so....dont hurt others in the process just to get your kicks, some of us have children involved, and the last thing we want to do is waste time on someone who is here just for games

karma is a beautiful thing..glad he got his lol

that burnzzzzzzzzzzz my azzzzzzzzz!!!!!!

People who play with others feelings....I hope his wife kicks him to the curb!!!

Wow-what a horrible thing to do to someone! Don't give up sugar-hopefully they're not all complete jerks! Hey-email me his name!!

Just saw your post-let's all steer clear of him!

What a jerk! Sorry you had to waste gas and time on such a loser. Boo to him!

To the OP, firstly, that sucks...but more importantly, why would you do all the work and drive to him?


If there is a 9 hour drive time each way, between you, why I wonder, didn't you set up a midway meet, and save half the cost of fuel?

To me, I am seeing red flags everywhere.

Irrespective of married or otherwise.

Wow. I'm really sorry. One time a guy drove 4 hours to see me, but that was without my permission, he just came. I avoided him the entire day, and finally just decided to hangout with him. I don't think I could live with myself if I had someone drive for so long just to see me, and completely blow them off.

Again, I'm so sorry, and I hope you realize that you actually are very pretty, so there is definitely something wrong with him, not you.

Sorry to hear that, I think you deserve much better! I wish you well, next time around!