thank you unsure..wise words

I am sorry that happened to you. A little over a year ago I went through the same thing. Quit my job; Stuffed everything I could get into my car and it lasted for about two weeks. I was smart enough to keep my dog. She told me there was the front door and she had her son help pack my car back up. Man it sure was a bummer. I had worked all day and drove for another day. I was exhausted when I got there. We had talked for a year and I shared with her the most intimate details of my life. I had to learn the hard way that one should always have a contingency plan. It really educated me and tried my faith but made me stronger. I found that not everything that glitters is gold. Kind of like fool's gold. Live and learn I guess.

wow sugar..what an inconsiderate jerk he was. i am sorry he did that to you..and no, it's not because you're ugly, because you're not...he's just a jerk, plain and simple. and it sucks that he never even took your feelings into consideration...i agree with unusre, hun u can do way better than that..and he doesn't deserve you. i wish you the best hun!
Becca

Wow, that is the worst. I can't believe someone would do that to another person. Makes me wonder if the whole dating thing is even worth it.

Awwwwwwwwww....

What a poopyhead-thing to do.....

sorry sugar his loss!!! please both sexes get some balls tell us you dont want anything to do with us..dont just f**k with our heads were adults

sounds like the wife or girlfriend was home.So sorry...

sugar and spice sorry to hear that happened to you, but like all the others have said its his lose not yours, good luck to you.

CBD said "what a coward i would have found his place f***up his car, apartment and takin my chances of going to jail what an asshole".

Look at the pot calling the kettle black here. Talk about being carried away! At least I wouldn't resort to violence and destruction of personal property!

CBD also said "dont get carried away tigress just as many scandolous girls for sure".

In my experience, I've only broken a meeting ONCE - this was several years ago when my mother wasn't doing well (she has since passed) and I emailed the guy 5 hours before the appointed time to meet to let him know that I couldn't make it because of the aforementioned. I didn't even have a phone number to call him at, so I was hoping for the best. I got a nasty-gram email from him later a few days later when he said that he waited for me for 2 hours and I never showed up. Then he mentioned that he didn't have his own personal computer and was using the one at work to communicate. How was I supposed to know that since he never bothered to mention that before. Needless to say, I told him that if he bothered to look at the time stamp, then he could see that I tried to be COURTEOUS and to let him know that I couldn't make it. I've NEVER stood anyone up no matter what, but there have been times where I WISH I had.

NINE hour drive? What a jerk. I don't believe I'd drive that far in the first place, and I agree with Unsure, he should have been the one to make the long drive the first time. How inconsiderate and selfish. I'd be really pissed!

what a creep for doing that to you.

coco i'm sorry this happened to you too ((coco))

tigress i am glad you correlate all men as one and that all women act as you. very ignorant to say the least and it was a joke what i said i would take my lumps and move on. get a life you jaded girl and that is what you are a jaded negative person. i am sure your a blast.

CBD, thanks for showing all of us women on here what type of guy you really are...the type that likes to call women names. Classy!

what names beside jaded and negative did i call you. By your posts i think that speaks for itself if i was not classy i would call you out for what i really think you are i was just pointing out your illogical hypocritical B.S.

sns, please do not let this jerk destroy your ability to trust.
eventually you will need to trust again - do so even knowing
this experience. your trust will be valued in the end and in
the beginning of a truer and worthy relationship at last.....

hey sugar,, ditch the loser and find ya a real fella wont dont play games

So sorry.....kick the jerk to the curb!!