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Topic: Dating Someone With A Kid
Wiitard's photo
Sat 10/27/07 10:06 AM
Any advice? What about more than 1 kid?

CaptainSpaz's photo
Sat 10/27/07 10:20 AM
It all depends if you're willing to accept an instant family.

DaveyB's photo
Sat 10/27/07 10:22 AM
I married a family, and still glad I did. I still have my step kids. It can actually be a good thing if you're ready for it.

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Sat 10/27/07 10:22 AM
perhaps ask HER where she wants you in the relationship with the kids.. at least THEN you'd know where you stand and what's being asked OF you.. good luck flowerforyou

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Sat 10/27/07 10:23 AM
When I was younger and foolisher, I tried it a few times --eventually figured out that I don't have a parental or paternal bone in my body, and I would not do it again.

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Sat 10/27/07 10:26 AM
like zero said

Wiitard's photo
Sat 10/27/07 10:37 AM
I had asked her, and she said she didn't really know.

Should it be a red flag that she's about my age with 5 kids (with different guys)?

CaptainSpaz's photo
Sat 10/27/07 10:41 AM
huh

CaptainSpaz's photo
Sat 10/27/07 10:48 AM
It's hard to help you out...

In one hand a fellow man might say, "Get out of there!"
¿Ever listen to Tom Leykis? According to him just one kid is too much.

In the other hand...
The only reason some people stay together is love. If somewhere, sometime, you find that you really love her and kids then it doesn't matter.

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Sat 10/27/07 10:51 AM
hmmmmmmmmm... that's a tough one.. but if you're asking yourself ANY questions about the relationship.. perhaps you're NOT yet ready??

personally?? I'm feelin RED FLAGS!!! noway

DaveyB's photo
Sat 10/27/07 10:55 AM
Ok 5 kids at 25, is probably not good. Nothing definite of course everyone's circumstances are different. I wouldn't say get out of there, I don't know her circumstances, but be careful.

David

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Sat 10/27/07 11:07 AM
I dated someone with a kid once. It was difficult.

nu2topcat's photo
Sat 10/27/07 11:12 AM
25=5 kids=differant fathers

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Sat 10/27/07 11:13 AM
There's a challenge for ya! Yikes!

nu2topcat's photo
Sat 10/27/07 11:13 AM
=she really doesn't know=red flag

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Sat 10/27/07 11:13 AM
The little boy of the guy I dated was a perfect angel, but the whole thing with the ex and visiting days and all that made it really hard.

nu2topcat's photo
Sat 10/27/07 11:14 AM
if she was nascar we would stop the race!!!

nu2topcat's photo
Sat 10/27/07 11:15 AM
dealing with ex's really sucks most of the time

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Sat 10/27/07 11:18 AM
yeah.. ONE is bad enOUGH.. imagine FIVE????????????
noway

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Sat 10/27/07 11:25 AM
Wii....I think if you have sex w/ her you should DEFINATELY wear a condom.....JMO!! I wouldn't leave the birth control in her handsnoway noway

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