Topic: Dating Someone With A Kid | |
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Any advice? What about more than 1 kid?
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It all depends if you're willing to accept an instant family.
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I married a family, and still glad I did. I still have my step kids. It can actually be a good thing if you're ready for it.
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perhaps ask HER where she wants you in the relationship with the kids.. at least THEN you'd know where you stand and what's being asked OF you.. good luck
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When I was younger and foolisher, I tried it a few times --eventually figured out that I don't have a parental or paternal bone in my body, and I would not do it again.
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like zero said
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I had asked her, and she said she didn't really know.
Should it be a red flag that she's about my age with 5 kids (with different guys)? |
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It's hard to help you out...
In one hand a fellow man might say, "Get out of there!" ¿Ever listen to Tom Leykis? According to him just one kid is too much. In the other hand... The only reason some people stay together is love. If somewhere, sometime, you find that you really love her and kids then it doesn't matter. |
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hmmmmmmmmm... that's a tough one.. but if you're asking yourself ANY questions about the relationship.. perhaps you're NOT yet ready??
personally?? I'm feelin RED FLAGS!!! |
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Ok 5 kids at 25, is probably not good. Nothing definite of course everyone's circumstances are different. I wouldn't say get out of there, I don't know her circumstances, but be careful.
David |
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I dated someone with a kid once. It was difficult.
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25=5 kids=differant fathers
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There's a challenge for ya! Yikes!
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=she really doesn't know=red flag
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The little boy of the guy I dated was a perfect angel, but the whole thing with the ex and visiting days and all that made it really hard.
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if she was nascar we would stop the race!!!
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dealing with ex's really sucks most of the time
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yeah.. ONE is bad enOUGH.. imagine FIVE????????????
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Wii....I think if you have sex w/ her you should DEFINATELY wear a condom.....JMO!! I wouldn't leave the birth control in her hands
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