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Sat 01/31/09 09:56 PM


¿Go karts?



How are you getting the question marks upside down?



huh


It's an ancient Hispanic secret.

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Sat 01/31/09 09:51 PM
¿Go karts?

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Sat 01/31/09 09:49 PM

Okay... so there is foudu'ing seafood, comedy show.... hhhmmmmm...... what else? Only have part of friday, all day saturday and part of sunday!

Hey! You aren't going to have to work that weekend?


ummmm

We could go to the zoo.

spock

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Sat 01/31/09 09:39 PM


If you all really want you can still buy some Mencia tickets and maybe join us there.


Ok, where is this happening???????


Emerald Queen Casino

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Sat 01/31/09 09:36 PM


If you all really want you can still buy some Mencia tickets and maybe join us there.


That's an idea. The website said that there were tickets still available for Feb 27th. :smile:


They just won't be VIP tickets, which I have.tongue2

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Sat 01/31/09 09:33 PM
If you all really want you can still buy some Mencia tickets and maybe join us there.

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Sat 01/31/09 09:24 PM


We should have some fondu.

¿Or would you prefer seafood?


Can't we fondu seafood? Why not both! :smile:


¡Actually, yes we can!

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Sat 01/31/09 09:22 PM
We should have some fondu.

¿Or would you prefer seafood?

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Sat 01/31/09 09:18 PM
¿Are we talking about me?

winking

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Wed 10/22/08 04:13 PM

laugh
Boys suck too....


Not as hard as you.

:tongue:

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Wed 10/22/08 04:09 PM
No good can come from staying with normal people.

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Thu 08/14/08 10:06 AM
I'm going to be flying to Savannah, GA for a week to attend a conference and I was hoping some of you may be able to recommend some good places to eat and sight see.

glasses

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Sun 08/03/08 08:12 PM




I don't care what people that like to rain on other people's parades say... I still can't wait to be married someday flowerforyou


¿You don't fear the possibility of a divorce?

You cant go into a relationshipthinking of the possibility of the break up, the end, a divorce, its doomed from the start if thats the case..JMO


Exactly. If you're starting out a relationship already thinking of the possible ending.. what's the point?


I think of it as merely being open minded, facing reality, and accepting the fact of what could happen. A couple could have plans for their lives together five years down the road but what's to say that in that time they instead end up growing apart?

Pray for the best, prepare for the worst.

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Sun 08/03/08 08:45 AM

Be careful, they are going to call you bitter now. Your Father was a real Man, when it came to his Family.glasses


laugh

They can call me whatever they'd like, it won't change anything.

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Sun 08/03/08 08:39 AM

First how can a gal that stays at home, raises the children, save "her own" money when she doesnt work?

Second, If its a rainy day fund, why wouldnt it be used to go on a vacation or fix the broken dryer? A responsible couple will and should have savings anyway. But I digress from original post. For most people marriage is that smart and safe protective way to cover their a$$. For both Men and women if its done properly. JMO:wink:


"If" is the operative word.

Another truth of the world is that situations vary from couple to couple. If someone is smart like my dad they'll have multiple caches of money stored up, he's saved up for his vacations, my sister's college, my brother's college, my sister's car, renovating the house, it keeps going. He's got everything planned out, unfortunately not everyone is as smart.

And I don't see as many couples nowadays where the woman isn't working, they just make use of daycares, babysitters, and family. And if she did not prepare herself for the worst isn't that her own fault? Being married might protect her but what about the husband?

¿I don't suppose you wouldn't by any chance be familiar with Tom Leykis? He frequently states on his show that marriage does not benefit a man at all and challenges anyone to prove him wrong. I've yet to hear it happen.

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Sun 08/03/08 08:22 AM
Edited by CaptainSpaz on Sun 08/03/08 08:24 AM

I'd find it hard to enjoy life if I was constantly worrying that something might happen.


Risks must be taken in order to fully enjoy life but also keep in mind that life is about moderation. I will pick and choose my risks as I see fit, this is my life and is thus my prerogative to be as picky as I want.

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Sun 08/03/08 08:13 AM


I think you are looking at it onee sided. Two people should be responsible for raising thier child.
Of course its not ok to walk away from your responsibilities.
Its not just about money.
But, if you dont look out for yourself. If it means putting some money away without your spouse knowing, then fine. You may have good reason for not being able to tell them.
If you are going to be a Family, you must take care of each other.
But, dont forget to take care of yourself.
I am not smat enough to say it any betterflowers


So, what happens when your spouse finds out? Are you going to say "oh.. i was just saving up in case we got divorced."



I would call it the "Rainy Day Fund."

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Sun 08/03/08 08:10 AM

Ahhh I see now, keep secrets from your partner. Hummm, isnt that a form of lying? OK, lets get married and lie to each other from the begining. And are you truly telling me that if your child is walked away from that you wouldnt want the other person held responsible for his or her actions? IE leaving the child behind that they created together? Should your child be the only one to raise that child and use up all his or her financial hidden savings? Cause this is only about money? True?

:wink:


Someone I know once posed the question, "If money doesn't buy happiness then why are people so miserable when they don't have enough of it?" An unfortunate truth of our world is that so much of our lives is ruled by money. ¿Is it about money? No...but that money holds our lives together and helps secure the future of our children (I don't have any but maybe one day). Look at the number of single parents out there, marriage obviously isn't doing that fantastic of a job of keeping parents together. If people want to walk out they're going to walk out.



Are you going to stop doing things because you fear there is a possibility of something happening?


Some things yes, I need to take care of myself above all others. Better safe than sorry.

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Sun 08/03/08 04:26 AM

Letting guys know up front that you want a long term relationship or eventually marriage isn't desperate... it's honest and realistic.

Why do so many people criticize people for that?


Because guys don't want to hear "I want to get married and have kids" on the first date or even the second. It's to soon to be thinking of committing ourselves.

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Sun 08/03/08 04:23 AM

I don't care what people that like to rain on other people's parades say... I still can't wait to be married someday flowerforyou


¿You don't fear the possibility of a divorce?

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