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Topic: on first date...
neonchaos Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 62	Fri 10/19/07 06:49 PM
it's true. it is so hard to find someone and when you do you have to be grateful that she picked you and is willing to stick around. so just take the time to show her your gratitude. true story

tsw123 Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 380	Fri 10/19/07 06:50 PM
Bravo! very well said!!

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Fri 10/19/07 06:50 PM
i expect nothing from someone if i do something for them, thats not how it works. if i do something for you,, even if there is no sparks, then you got a freebie,, but dont expect me to save ya everytime

saturnswirls Joined Fri 10/12/07 Posts: 312	Fri 10/19/07 06:51 PM
I would expect whoever invited pays, I'm an old fashioned girl. With that said, you shouldn't take advantage just because someone else is paying. I'm not going to order 2 lobsters and a bottle of champagne. Unless you tell me to

neonchaos Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 62	Fri 10/19/07 06:52 PM
that's why I would take your ass to the local sizzler

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Fri 10/19/07 06:53 PM
arbys anyone???

avrageJoe Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 271	Fri 10/19/07 06:55 PM
LOBSTER YUCK...its like eating a deep fried beetle..

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Fri 10/19/07 06:57 PM
i always offer to pay for mine but never any takers, if i didn't think it went well i drop the tip on the table really fast.

glitterybee Joined Tue 09/18/07 Posts: 147	Fri 10/19/07 06:57 PM
neonchaos, your cool in my book too.

kojack Joined Mon 12/25/06 Posts: 16382	Fri 10/19/07 06:58 PM
I sort of agree with bgeorge, all depends on how date went if well I'll pay if not it is dutch

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Fri 10/19/07 06:58 PM
average, maybe it's cause you deep fry them...b

avrageJoe Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 271	Fri 10/19/07 06:59 PM
would any of you try the bathroom sneak out trick? Or have you?

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Fri 10/19/07 06:59 PM
hey watch it with the deep frying,, i do that alot,, but to chicken and turkey

AllSmilesInTulsa Joined Mon 05/28/07 Posts: 1903	Fri 10/19/07 07:00 PM
Kojack do you make that deal at the time you ask them out or is it a surprise to your date?

bgeorge Joined Fri 09/14/07 Posts: 7850	Fri 10/19/07 07:01 PM
i have a deep fryer...deep fried just about anything, but lobster??? lol snuck out once when the guy asked if i liked to be tied up and we hadn't even had our first drink yet..yikes

avrageJoe Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 271	Fri 10/19/07 07:02 PM
I know they are droped in boiling water alive, I dont eat em so could care less how they are cooked...Surprised the fish and game activist are not all over how those bug looking things are cooked...Tell me how can you look at that and be hungry..

tsw123 Joined Wed 10/10/07 Posts: 380	Fri 10/19/07 07:03 PM
Kojack, what if she thinks it went well, but you don't?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Fri 10/19/07 07:03 PM
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh the man has the pay or this isnt a date...besides if he asked me then he has to. Its in the rule book in my mind, lol

neonchaos Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 62	Fri 10/19/07 07:05 PM
glitterybee you are a bit of the alright yourself

avrageJoe Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 271	Fri 10/19/07 07:07 PM
of course the man should pay for the first date and probably the next one too, just dont get carried away with paying all the time though or its trouble..Had that prob once..