Topic: on first date...
AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:29 PM
I'd say your mother raised you well!

tsw123's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:29 PM
Thumper, you seem like a fine young man. I'm sure that you treat your lady right, no doubt!:smile:

thumper95's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:30 PM
i dont want anyone to support me, i was raised to be self sufficent. thats why i know how to cook, clean, do everything for myself. but my ex wife took advantage of that,so i did everything, including worked, while she sat around smoking all day and watching tv

mry's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:30 PM
We love Thumper! Women will respect you for it!

thumper95's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:32 PM
i can do anything around the house, but wont be someones maid, butler, housekeeper or anything like that, if they cant take care of themselves, then i aint doing it, i have a 4 year old, and i aint raising a grown child

tsw123's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:35 PM
Thumper, I think we are all in agreement on that one!!

mry's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:35 PM
Aparently your X used you. I have no problem doing house work. I do it better than any man can anyhow. LOL I would never let a man do my laundry! Scary thought!!laugh

thumper95's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:38 PM
i do pretty decent for a single 28 y/o man,, and i bet i can cook just as well as you, if not better

glitterybee's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:39 PM
you go thumper! drinker don't ever let anybody take advantage of you again. because believe me, us women appreciate a guy who does his fair share of housekeeping and cooking as much as anything. its rarer than gold! flowerforyou

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:39 PM
I bet ALL of you can cook better than me. When my kids got lives of their own I quit cooking. The Chinese place recognizes my number on the caller ID.

thumper95's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:40 PM
im nothing special, im just me, and thats all i will ever be.

Totage's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:41 PM
I always pay, atleast at the begining, if she feels the urge to pay her half, she can after we've been dating for a while, but I'd rather pay for both always.

glitterybee's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:42 PM
just being yourself is special enough.

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:42 PM
Careful thumper those are fightin words.

mry's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:42 PM
Oh baby, another REAL man!!

thumper95's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:43 PM
well,, if anyone of yall show up to the gathering, you will get to taste my cooking,,, hehehe, dont be on a diet when you come though

thumper95's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:43 PM
biker,,, what you talkin bout willis?????huh

neonchaos's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:44 PM
I am like Thumper too. I will bend over backwards but don't take advantage of it either. I like treating whoever is with me like a queen just cause she is putting up with me smooched

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:47 PM
neon, that's the first time I've heard a man admit that!

JaymeStephens84a0lc's photo
Fri 10/19/07 06:48 PM
depends on who asks whom out... I will let a guy pay if he says he's going to, but I always take money just in case I decide there aren't any sparks and don't want to take advantage in that case.