Oh I agree with you lhb - we are all doing it to each other.

That one statement that I quoted of yours just rang of so much blatant truth as good advice (for anyone)... thanks for the laugh in any case. =D

But you're not my type bearbait. You're an over the road trucker and we know ALL over the road truckers are out there sleeping around with lot lizard prostitutes and preying on defenseless divorced women because I believe everything I've ever been told. And I've heard that they ALL have illigetimate children in all the places that they travel! Aint that right?

I had a woman ask me that once and I just shook my head and walked away.

I think I vented out. Whew feel better again.

A good man is not going to tell you he's a good man, he has pride, he knows you will see it in his actions.

this question reminds me about the women who say they want an average down to earth guy, only to be star struck by the bad boy. Life is a parodox.

there is some men that do play games but on the other hand there is alot of good men out there that doesnt play games u just have to be careful and u can always tell if they are a game player and i have met a few here that are very nice guys just dont let one bad apple hurt u from meeting a good man because not all plays games as same as there is some females out there that likes to play games with men so it does work both ways but just dont let one bad apple hurt you from meeting that special person

Well, it seems that the theme here is that women want to find where the nice guys are. Wow! I mean, seriously, open your damn eyes. It's not like we don't exist.

I read from an earlier post where one woman asked for a guy (in this thread) to explain what a nice guy does. Well, simply put, a nice guy is a few things. First of all, he is real. He is who he says he is, and nothing more or nothing less. Beerbait hit the nail on the head when he said that "Prince Charming" is not 6ft. tall with long black hair and money out the ying yang. However, I don't feel most women are looking for that. I could be wrong, but I feel that women just want a man to accept them for who they are, love them unconditionally, and work with them to build a relationship. I hate it when people talk about money. Look, I'm sorry ladies, but if you are looking for a guy with a nice bankroll, then you are not looking for "Mr. Nice Guy". But, economics is a whole other subject, so we will stay away from that for now.

Look. Ladies, the "nice" guys are not hard to find. Seems that a majority of you have given up that they exist. Or, if you do meet one, for some reason, you either (a) think that the guy is not the one, even though he treats you good and all, (b) keep thinking it is a dream, and convince yourself that he will turn into the devil eventually, so you run, or (c) you have a wall up and you refuse to accept that a guy could genuinely be into you (and is the nice guy you have been waiting for).

Oh. And the topic of "drama" has been brought up too. Look, if a guy tells you that he doesn't want any drama in his life, well then that just means he has more than enough of his own and that he can't stand having to deal with yours. Personally, I think the "drama" line is played out way too much. I know if a woman says she doesn't want any drama from her man's life, that the red flag goes off and I kindly leave. Fact is, every single one of us has drama in our lives. But here is the kicker. If you find that someone that really interests you, then maybe they can help you with all your drama. Maybe, because now you have someone to lean on and can hold you as you vent, maybe that is just that much better and is worth it to deal with there drama too. Just a thought. But, my point is this. WE ALL HAVE FREAKING DRAMA IN OUR LIVES! Stop acting like you don't or that your time is way to valuable to deal with someone else's. Cause, if you want to get involved with someone, you will inherit there drama. Nuff said.

Drama?????

I'll stay single thanks....I can get all the drama I would never want right here in the comfort of my own home, just reading the threads...

You just haven't talk to this Southern Gentleman yet. No games nonsense is my rule of thumb. I can't speak for the rest, only for myself. Have a great day!

games can be fun

as long as both parts of a couple are playing!

lets just put it out there society does not except people that are nice or good if you are not out to get one over on the world you are called a fool or left behind, abusive relationships are the norm at least from what i have seen so if you are nice it is unfamiler to some I said some before someone attacks my post and people dont like un-familer they are allways trying to find something bad in you if you are nice. So if you really want to find a nice guy or good guy its easy he is not the one trying to get one over on the world he has honest dreams and a heart that does get hurt so be prepared for a nice guy they speak from the heart they care about what you say, and many are just tired of being taken advantage of or left behind. sorry for the rant

Every one plays games sometimes...men, women,,,,,almost all animals that have thumbs.

i love playing games!!!!!
VIDEO GAMES!!!!
<3

DAMN you biker, my secrets out no one was suppose to know i was a lot liza.......... oops you say i was messin with them

Certain things catch your eye,
But pursue only those
that capture your heart.

Let me start off by saying that there will always be an exception to everything there is, including men. Most men might seem like they are only after the game and women point the finger at them. This generalization is completely wrong of all men. Also keep that it takes two both and a woman is choosing the man who she spends time with etc. so yes there will be ass***** but woman are the ones choosing them.