too bad u didnt live closer to me gc

You know as prevously stated by biker, this subject does get brought up at least once a week. And as previously stated by biker. Quit living in Disneyland ladies. Prince charming is not 6' with black hair and a **** load of cash. Nor is prince charming slender, skinny or whatever.

Hell for all you know prince charming may just be your fat ass co worker. Everyone claims they do not judge a book by its' cover. THAT'S JUST PLAIN OLD BS I have sat on here and seen some of these posts to the fact that they would love to meet in person etc,etc,etc. But if you look at me and ummm lets say joshyfox, we are not the most wanted prize at the county fair know what I mean.

So if you want a good guy who is gonna treat you right. READ THE WHOLE FRIGGIN BOOK PEOPLE NOT JUST THE DAMNED COVER

You GO Bearbait!!! You are going to find that everyONE in one way or another is deficiant. It's a matter of acceptance!

Ummmmmm.......no.

Hmmmm. Real men who don't play games? I don't spend a dime on revlon or clairol. But someone is. Their quarterly profits are up by billions. Someones buying it. I've got a system that works for me- everytime. Men try this. The more vocal she is or the more makeup she wears the less I trust her. The more bumper stickers she has on the back of her car, the greater chances there are that she's a lesbian. And if you are ever being seduced by a woman keep this in mind. Before you insert your penis stop for a second and ask yourself "am I ready to have my life completely and utterly destroyed by this person?" if the answer is yes continue your inserting penis. If the answer is no and you can picture that person doing evil unimaginable things to destroy your life and livelyhood stop right there, put it back in your pants and leave. Picture her living in your house you paid for. Picture her new boy toy riding your new harley she got in the divorce decree. Picture an unreasonable alimony settlement and a cheap suit lawyer barking in your face how he's gonna get you good. That keeps my pecker in my pants every time. Whose playing games here and who is being dilusional?

People have traded reasonable and sensible for new and immproved. Or now and instant. Quit it.

well i agree there are both men and women that play games, but after my little experience i had this morning, i am a little ticked off..i have been talking to this guy here locally, gave him my number, etc etc...well his WIFE calls me this morning..the wife he told me nothing about..she was asking me questions, which i happily answered for her..i am kinda glad she did call, because it seems like her stupid husband was trying to play us both for a fool..makes me really mad, and now i feel really stupid...
Becca

Speak your mind. Not your anger. Yeh honesty. You say you want it but your actions say otherwise. Quit it. Does anyone check their expectations anymore? Waaaaa. Waaaaa. Change my diaper.

Yeh becca. Sorry to hear that. I've had that happen too. Oh my husbands expecting me home by 1 am. I do background checks now for anyone I date. I've had more than my share of liars and psychos. It works well. No more surprises! I had one woman ask me out and upon further review found out she had not one, not two, but five outstanding warrants for her arrest. Hit n run, dwi, felony evade, drunk and disorderly, and felony assault. Nice! Quality dating material there. Then she's upset because I found out? Uh huh. You come near me I call the cops. Then I have other woman who get upset because I do background checks. Good. If its a problem, you are not worth my time. I got better things to do than dig through your skeletons in your closet. So many it resembles a graveyard. I have better things to do. Like obtainable goals and dreams. I have real people who through no fault of their own could use a helping hand. I have real love to share. And I have to protect myself and my family and freinds.

sorry to hear that becca..... just remember not everybody is like that... keep your chin up

thanks biker and buttons...from now on, i am gonna check people out before i get involved with them. i feel really sorry for his poor wife..i hope she gives him hell!!

Its a two way street folks is all I am saying. Quit being dilusional. Be honest with yourself. Be honest with others. Check your expectations. And get out more. Do nice things for yourself and become involved with your community. Change your life. Become positive. I'm sick to death of this "poor me". Gonna whine or ya gonna do something about it. Waaaa, waaaaa, why do men lie? Waaaa, waaaa, where are all the good men. Waaaa, waaa, are there any men who don't play games?

it's like i said before, i don't think it's fair to say that onl;y men play games..women do too..

When are all you selfish, self serving, lying, self righteous, delusional, psychotic, neurotic, insecure women gonna quit playing games with me? Can I get an amen?

"oh he's playing games with me. He did a background check on me. Can you believe it?" "no shirley I can't. What kind of man would do that to you!" "I don't know but I'm mad as hell and I'm not gonna take it! No mans gonna treat me like that sue and get away with it! Why do men have to play these games all the time?"

"And if you are ever being seduced by a woman keep this in mind. Before you insert your penis stop for a second and ask yourself "am I ready to have my life completely and utterly destroyed by this person?" if the answer is yes continue your inserting penis. If the answer is no and you can picture that person doing evil unimaginable things to destroy your life and livelihood stop right there, put it back in your pants and leave."

...classic. =D

It works for me. It might not work for everyone. I am not bitter. Life is life. I've met many great people on here. Many great women who are real and understand I am just clowning around. Women who I would like to spend time with and enjoy their company not play games with. But I have also had the displeasure of meeting some very vocal women who have shown their true selves on here and they were not very nice. They say they are looking for a good man and that they are not shallow. But then they give me every excuse they can grab. I'm not attractive enough, I'm not wealthy enough, you're not my type, you're not what I'm looking for. You're too old. Or worse they just never message back. And some of these same women post these pity threads! If it wasn't for the fact I'd be banned I'd call their bluff. I'd name these hypocrites by name. Thing is word gets around. They're being ignored. Just as well. Bottom line? Skunk smells his own hole first.

Don't forget the classic "I just want to be friends" never to hear from them again

Keep bringing it up. I love to beat a dead horse. Its hard to ride a dead horse. Ya gotta keep an ear to the ground.

ok up one more :D