And I am a little irratated about it. I was actually on this site before, and on here for awhile too, something like six or seven months with no replies, no responces, or I'd only get responces from men old enough to be my father. Then, after polietely, I am sorry, thanks but no thanks, turning them down, I was repeatedly called *****, whore (how the hell does that work when you tell someone you do NOT want to have intercourse with them?) and other various things. So An entirely bad experiance. Then I found Mingle2, I loved it! It was a great site with wonderful people who were nice and did not insult me or try to staulk me for turning them down. So, here I am on JSH, again, and wondering if I should actually stick around in a hope of picking out people from Mingle2, or if I should just move on now before the horror begins again.

I do not need protection, hell, I can take care of myself just fine. I am just irratated by the whole thing. Not too mention I found out by trying to get into Mingle2 and was sent here. I thought my computer had broke and was thorwing up old bookmarks into my new ones.

Awwww now I have been a long timeer here have no horror storie to tell have met alot of great people here and have many friends as well.

Stick it out and see what happens besides they give ya any slack send them my way I need a new toy to play with

Welcome to the site!!!

HNB,
Hang in there. I think if you remain optimistic about the merge, you'll find that both groups have wonderful people.

Best of Luck... and if all else fails, you have klc to protect you.

the doors are wide open.
the options is yours.
freaks are everywhere, is up to each one of us what experience we make where we are.

Harmony, sorry your previous experiences weren't so great.

Sometimes sudden changes can be uncomfortable.

My understanding, is your friends from Mingle will be here too, maybe that will help buffer the concerns.

Whatever you decide, may you have come to you, that, which you require.

Welcome HarmonyBlues, I've been here a year and have never had that problem, but then again, I am not a big emailer! They are always so damn lame (my emails) anyway.

Sorry about the freaks. We do have a block user and also a report abuse button. Use them, they work!

Good luck and stay around a while. Any from Mingle, will have to at least come here.

I HAVE HAD ONE NOT SO GOOD EXPERIENCE ON HERE BUT IT WAS HIS FAULT FOR NOT READING MY PROFILE AND YES HE GAVE ME A CURSING BUT HE'S THE IDIOT SO TAKE THE GOOD WITH THE BAD AND MOVE ON.....LIFE IS WHAT YOU MAKE IT....IT'S TOO SHORT....LIVE,LOVE AND LAUGH OFTEN.

Sorry, I don't understand anybody cussing or name calling anybody for saying no thanks!!!!

But then again, I only perv the profiles and very rarely IM anybody. I certinaly wouldn't ask something stupid !

That is so damn rude!


O'well

Let someone send you a dirty message!

I'll tell them what they can do

with their hand to man relationship

and some battery acid!

Ah hell, this place ain't so bad....I kinda like to just hide under the couch and poke at people's toes from time to time. One thing I learned along the journey is you get back what you put out there. Be happy and cheerful and people will respond in kind. Of course, you're gonna have the assholes....but they're here to remind you that you're better than that and never to settle. So suck it up and press on...it's worth it.

Taking a piranha out of the river and setting him in a fish tank won't make him any less likely to bite your finger off. In other words, men online are going to be just like men on the street... you don't blame the street for the man who catcalls you on the construction site or the aggressive driver that flips you off, do you?

The hard reality of this site and any other is that you'll get out of it what you put into it... with a side helping of crap because that's how LIFE works. If you're not getting many replies or emails, maybe think about changing your profile. Sometimes a small change in the wording or the photos will increase traffic. I've noticed that when I change my picture I get responses from many of the same people I heard from before (didn't recognize me???), but also from new people who maybe didn't connect visually with the other picture very well.

Give it a little time. Mingle2 was great, but the mastermind behind that site is here at JSH and ready to work with his new teammates to deliver an awesome experience for you. Keep giving CONSTRUCTIVE feedback and posting concerns. This will help them to make adjustments when necessary and feasible. Oh, and don't hesitate to block someone. If someone is being aggressive with you, the best thing to do is ignore them. As happens in real life, the person will get bored if you fail to respond.

Fighting online is like yelling into a well... what's the point?