Rapunzel .... :)

AND ?? people ask me why I play hockey ?... pretty much for this exact reason ... gives me a chance to recharge emotionally, and better focus on whatI am hearing from people, for the concentration of the sport makes this happen ....

secondly ...gives me a chance to work on my slapshot AND loose some of MY frustrations .... :)

sometimes you just have to let some people go... its hard but it can be done. if you think you can easily help someone then do it, but if its going to put overwhelming strains on you, then i would advise to have someone help you help them or have someone who can help them better than you could help them by themselves. but sadly, there are just some people who cant be helped

Stop, empty your will for a while.......focus on nothing but your best memories of your best moments that no one fully comprehended.......find the clarity in the one singular thread to all that............then give thanks to the LORD for having shared with your willfulness his care for another through you.... That should recharge your batteries and bring back perspective in even the most trying time!

A bottle of red and a good night's sleep always works for me.

Sending hugs and shiny happy thoughts your way.

M

All of you wonderful people are just so loving
and so kind and supportive...
Thanks so for being there for me...

I've been feeling like this for a while,
but I didn't want to seem,
like Peter crying wolf...

Someone asked what tree you feel like...
I feel like a big old weeping willow tree today...

Or a wanna be swimmer...struggling...
but going down for the third time.....

My dear friend ...
No psychos please Ken....
told me that when I feel down,
to just reach out to my online friends
who are so kind and caring and who are way
better than many real life people I know
who seem to have little if any heart or soul...

I love you all so much...



Thank you sooo very much...

I have lots of posts to read and I love all of your suggestions...You are all so cute and so sweet....
Much love and affection....
Thanks for jump starting my heart again.

And I have to agree with Cory, if people are just taking, taking, taking without giving anything in return, it's just sometimes better to let them go, painful as it may be. Friendship's a two-way street, it's not always equal all the time, but there comes a time when you might realize they're using your good-nature and caring and kindness and have no intention of returning any of it. Then, you have to think of what's best for you.

so what is the problem? what has got you so blue

Thank you everyone I do love you so...


"But Tombraider...
You seem to be braiding and
intertwining yourself
rather seamlessly into these posts...

Part of my blueness is
your very very blue expressionless picture...

I have trouble enough pouring my heart out
to someone in person
and it is tough enough online to the whole world ...
not to forget ...
to a faceless entity who asks me personal questions...

Can't you see I am trying to be patient
and to rationalize with you
and help you understand some things
without rejecting you....
But you need to get more with the program here..please..."


The other part of my Blueness ...

is that there are too many Blue Meanies in the world...
Even one blue meanie is bad enough....

You remember the Beatles Movie
Yellow Submarine....
The blue meanies stomped love and music
and put everyone into a state of suspended animation...

till the Beatles came and saved the people,
restoring love, butterflies
and music to their fair land.

but what you dont understand that some of these faces may not be the real person anyone can post a picture it doesnt mean that its them anyone can post a profile it doesnt mean its them any one can say anything but it may not be who they are, if you read todays aol news you would see what im telling you is true ...sorry that i voiced any concern ..i promise you that where you are concerned that wont happen again . i show no picture because of trust issues ..basically after what ive been through i trust no one let alone posted pictures on the internet ..i hope you understand

Sorry you are feeling this way. A lot of my friends turn to me because I am strong. But I have my moments too when I just want to be held so I can cry. I know you don't know me, but my hand is there for you if you need it.

Just takes repunzel and gives her a big huge warm embrace.....I heart ya girly.....

Dear Twitch..
Oh, thank you so very much...
I appreciate your love and concern..

Feral Cat Lady... .
You are a source of love & strength
I feel it through the air waves...!!!
thank you too..




Tombraider...I really want to feel comfortable with you, Man...
I have lots of friends I would like you to be one of them..

But, I'm thinking...you say you have trust issues!!!

Yes, well, welcome to the club....

But it is oftentimes the women who have more reason
to have trust issues...we are the weaker gender physically
for the most part and the more vulnerable physically .
.
There are all kinds of reasons for no photos or anonymity
but I don't have any of them...
except my location...
but I don't have to even place a profile to have stalkers...
just riding my bike around town brings them out!

well, anyway...you can give all the excuses you want as to no photo but I am thinking that if you have those intense trust issues with people online here, why is it that you here?

and put yourself in our place...
what reason do we have to want to trust you with anything?
especially our personal affairs....?

Helloooooo!!!

If you bake us some cookies to go with out cuppas, we will tell you more

u r being loved and supported by ur friends dear

Oh, & thank you everyone else who posted such nice messages...
I will get back with each of you personally when I get back...

Love
and thanks again....

whether a person post a picture does not indicate to me whether that person can be trusted after all what does it matter what a person looks like when it comes to trust ....nothing its what lies inside as far as some people are concerned how do you know who your looking at is really who they are.read the news posted today it talks about pictures on dating sites ..hellooooooo,,i am here because i want to be and the last time i looked it didnt say i have to post a picture and if you cant accept my answer as the truth than thats not my problem ........did you ever watch the dating game or was that before your time well they picked their date by the responses they gave to questions that were asked without ever seeing the person ....physical beauty fades ..inner beauty last forever ...if you have chosen not to be my "friend"over the fact that i havent posted a picture that is youre choosing and unlike you i will believe that is your reason..but how many people do you trust when you first got on line...trust to me is earned not given to a picture

Well for Rapunzel .. I agree with others. Everyone needs time to recharge themselves. And looks like you've done a good job of that. You chose to come where others know and love you and let THEM help YOU. Wise girl.


As to tombraiders remarks on photos .. just wondered when the last time was you talked to a faceless person in r/l. It's just easier for people to talk to someone they can envision. And sure trust is part of it, & altho the pic may not be them, the percentage of that really isn't that high.

how many just show pictures of animals or other things why just single me out

all i did was try and show some concern for Rapunzels troubles in thinking maybe i could help maybe i could make her feel better by making a joke i guess it should say those of you who remain faceless should remain speechless

what exactly is it that you can't express hun?