I really want to know if I am fussy, I have sooo many of them. Will you list yours to give me an idea of whats normal?

Mine is really short.........he MUST be respectful. That being said, respectful covers a long list of requirements. If he respects himself and me then he won't cheat, abuse, lie or take advantage of me or mine....he will not be lazy or unkempt and will treat me as I treat him. Am I too fussy?

Chronic drunkeness.

PPL who wine about something over and over and over,,gets so old !

aww come on. I just thought you weren't paying attention. if you answered me I wouldn't have to repeat it. why doesn't anyone listen to me?


jk

Deal breakers? Easy.

Dishonesty
Disrespectful
Constant nagging
Lack of patience
Drug and alcohol abuse
Arrogance
Willful ignorance
Lack of tolerance for different opinions

I have others, but those are the big ones.

Anyone below 1.5 metres tall , more than 150 Kilos in weight, and wears a wig is off my list, whether it's normal or not.

^^^shallow people like this are a red flag for me, beauty is from within!

The lists will likely tell you what any sane person wouldn't want in a relationship. No one wants a cheater, liar, disrespectful, aggressive etc. etc. a-hole for a partner.
Because no one wants this, it's pointless to put all these negatives in your profile (most ppl do! It only repels), it's rather self-explanatory.

If you have an enormous list, apart from the obvious, yes, you are too fussy. Having some red flags, fair enough. We all have a past. But if you've become rigid, it may be time to work on old issues.

Because I think a turn-off for most, is a woman (or man) who's got a list a mile long of 'don't wants'. It indicates you got a lot of hangups from the past. And that is on the list of the obvious that no one wants in a partner.

So .. by being too rigid and fussy, you make yourself the someone no one wants...

One, just don't try to change me.
I'm capable of changing and adapting IF I choose to.

Women who have too many deal breakers is my deal breaker

wasnt ther another thread like this?????


1.vulgarity outside of the bed is a turn off

2.distant and unattached from family is red flag

3.dependent and too attached to friends is a red flag

4.paranoia about political/social conspiracy is a red flag

5.disbelief in God or the bible are red flags

6.older than thirty and still speaking mainly in slang and/or wearing droopy pants is a red flag

7. Obama hater is a red flag, or any other bigoted attitude politically, (anti conservative/liberal, anti republican/democrat)

8. lack of empathy/caring for others especially coupled with constant judgmentalism and negativity towards others,,,

Repeat as many times as necessary...

Does that mean you wouldn't date Ms Harmony?

did you say some thing dear?????

Attraction is key for me. After that, I take it by ear. If I worried about every red flag in a man, I'd never go out.

crabby b*****.ness
.... doesn't know how to give a proper.
Hmm...hmm.. foot massage yeah that's it a foot massage..
..... and she has no sense of humor.
.. thinks sexual in Da windows..
. are immature...lmao..
..

lol,,,I forgot,, someone who takes issue with how I raise my kids, is obviously a deal breaker,,lol