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| Topic: Is it okay for a lady to ask a guy out? | |
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move?
As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D |
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Those from venus can not change so much ...so fast..naturally
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I can't see why not, in this day and age with everyone wanting to be equal.
I think if your friends before asking him and you ask in a loving sort of way and he is the gentleman type, and refuses you, I'm sure he won't hold it against you... I know I wouldn't, I'd be flattered. Put it down to experience if he refuses you, it's all part of the learning curve. Good Luck.. Laurie. |
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D And you think a guy won't feel that way? For them it's just as scary as it is for us to do such a thing. And yes, it is okay for a girl to ask a guy. If you really don't want to do that, make sure the guy you like knows that you are into him (body language, flirt, smile, look him in the eyes etc), so it's less freaky for him to make the first move. |
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Well to me, its for a lady to say her mind, that just dying in pretence or nurturing feelings .........if you know what you want and you are convince, there is no crime letting the cat out of the bag........who knows if the guy in question is also dying for you but can't tell you probably because you are more pretty or wealthy!!!
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I'm shy....so yea it's OK for a girl to ask a guy out
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To be honest, it has never worked for me. Wasted energy.
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I gotta admit, sometimes its nice to have a woman make the first move......
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=LHuOzb9ezjY&itct=CDkQpDAYACITCL3e1b-QmcQCFQprfgoddXkA7lIWZ2F6ZWxsZSBydW5zIGludG8gdHJlZQ%3D%3D&client=mv-google&gl=US&hl=en |
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D Welcome to our world, where rejection sits around every corner!! 
Now to answer your question. Absolutely you can ask a man out!! Hell, me personally, I prefer it. I say, if you like the guy, and he's not taking the hint, then the best way to find out where you stand is to ask. |
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D Normal? What exactly is NORMAL?... |
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D Normal? What exactly is NORMAL?... Kind of Shutter Island-ish 
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D And you think a guy won't feel that way? For them it's just as scary as it is for us to do such a thing. And yes, it is okay for a girl to ask a guy. If you really don't want to do that, make sure the guy you like knows that you are into him (body language, flirt, smile, look him in the eyes etc), so it's less freaky for him to make the first move. 
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Edited by
Kaustuv1
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Sun 03/08/15 10:39 AM
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Considering the 'acute paucity' of 'real men' (men who treat women with 'respect') nowadays, it's okay for a 'lady' to ask a 'lad' out on a date, as long as 'she' is well-versed in the field of 'martial' (not 'marital') arts.
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I don't see anything wrong with a woman asking a man out....it's happend to me & i liked it coz im kinda shy in real .....
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Either way is fine for me. I've been asked out quite a few times. Nothing wrong with it. I like a woman who knows what she wants. Especially when its me.
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D ask me, lets see... so guys are mentally tougher than women? we hear no at least 50% of the time, but yet we still seem to be "normal", whatever that may be... |
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It could work in some case, not so much in others.
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Yes, it's ok for a woman to ask a man out. I can't believe how many never really answered the question. It's yes or no.
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Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move? As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D Normal? What exactly is NORMAL?... nice pic |
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I do not know a single, single guy who
would not be thrilled to be asked out. They tell me they get turned down about 9 times out of 10. I cannot imagine that either. How hard that is, especially doing it over and over again. I think this evens out the child birth thingy. |
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