Topic: Is it okay for a lady to ask a guy out?
karisoro's photo
Mon 04/06/15 06:02 PM
Almost all dating experts agree, if a man is interested, he will ask you out.

karisoro's photo
Mon 04/06/15 06:05 PM
I agree! laugh

yellowrose10's photo
Mon 04/06/15 06:09 PM
Of course it's ok for a woman to ask a guy out. I have no problem with doing that

karisoro's photo
Mon 04/06/15 06:09 PM
Edited by karisoro on Mon 04/06/15 06:12 PM
haha I just can't do it !! flowers slaphead

dnewnew's photo
Mon 04/06/15 07:25 PM
To the OP: congratulations on FINDING a guy you think you might possibly maybe trying to get the nerve up to ask out to start with

:smile:

Valeris's photo
Mon 04/06/15 10:29 PM
Edited by Valeris on Mon 04/06/15 10:32 PM

Normally its the guys who ask girls on a date.. but I wanna know, as a lady, can you make the first move?
As for me, I can't! cos if I do, and he rejects me, I'm not sure I'll be normal again :D



Sure it is & why not?;} Here's an ice-breaker invite that can't be ignored;}
rofl


no photo
Mon 04/06/15 10:40 PM
normally it's the guys who ask girls for a date

Valeris's photo
Mon 04/06/15 11:28 PM

normally it's the guys who ask girls for a date


Quite true, but where are "The Prizes & Medals" that are being given out in being: *Normal*?laugh
Might as well, "Go For it"!; nothing ventured/nothing gained;}

xASH18x's photo
Tue 04/07/15 09:34 AM
Of course they can. I'd love it if all the responsibility didn't fall on me to start something or pursue the girl. I don't like rejection as much everyone else does.

paulclean's photo
Tue 04/07/15 10:38 AM
Life has too many things in its place if you feel as a female you like taking a step that's good but it depends on the guys mentality,well for me is. Noting and its cool,is good that girls start making a good start but is good a guy take a girl out is normal.

Kaustuv1's photo
Tue 04/07/15 10:42 AM
There are several households all over the globe, where a 'mother' has taken up much more responsibilities than a 'father' (financial & otherwise). If this phenomenon is considered to be 'natural/normal' then there shouldn't be a single eyebrow raised toward 'a girl asking a guy out on date'!drinker

Pope4u's photo
Tue 11/24/15 05:03 PM
You know, there is nothing new, nothing special under the heaven. This is the matter of choice, as you clearly know what good for you, that is also normal. However, there is a way of doing it, as a woman, they have different skills, different tricks they use it may be either their body motion or otherwise.

Obviously it's somehow inappropriate for a woman to show part of her body just by notifying a guy that you are available....I think this is not good enough.
Enjoy your day.

VioletTigress's photo
Tue 11/24/15 11:22 PM
Of course. There’s nothing wrong with that.

mikey5360's photo
Tue 11/24/15 11:46 PM
Its 2015....lets get with the program people...
Young women these days know what they want and go for it...
drinker

tripledigits69's photo
Tue 11/24/15 11:52 PM
hell ya

Annierooroo's photo
Wed 11/25/15 12:14 AM
No not for me
I asked once not doing it again.

Only recently too.

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Wed 11/25/15 05:53 AM
Of course it is :) I'd rather know the result, than never ask him.

RustyKitty's photo
Wed 11/25/15 11:56 AM

i say go for it. but if you are just going to entice him to ask. remember this... us neanderthals usually don't get subtle:tongue: so your hint should be along the lines of ... would this dress look good enough when you take me to dinner:wink:


Thanks! I am going to steal that line "will this dress be ok for you to take me out for dinner"
blushing

no photo
Sun 11/29/15 02:24 PM

I do not know a single, single guy who
would not be thrilled to be asked out.

They tell me they get turned down about
9 times out of 10.

I cannot imagine that either.

How hard that is, especially doing it
over and over again.

I think this evens out the child birth thingy.

Lol that thingy is a problem for sure. Some should not ever breed just saying . Don't be a fool wrap the tool . Child support is no joke $$$

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Sun 11/29/15 02:38 PM
I've had a few women ask me out over the summer it was different for sure . Because I always did the asking with a 50/50 chance of the words thanks. But I'm seeing someone . Which is a good line knowing better . But rejection isn't the end of the world move on and smile she wasn't right for you to begin with .