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Topic: Unattractive People
Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 02/18/15 09:53 AM
What would you do if the person who loved you was unattractive and the person you were attracted to was a total jerk? This is not gender related, it goes for both men and women. I'll put it like this,first of all why not say,if the person was not attractive to YOU,and either way,you shouldn't have to be a genius to figure out that one,wouldn't ya say?Secondly,if you're"attracted to the jerk",then you're going to be with the jerk and hope that he changes,no matter what anyone says,now tell me,am I hot or cold??

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Wed 02/18/15 11:25 AM
...what is that when mutual attraction and respect are seriously hard to find...maybe impossible.. This is the biggest mystery ever! The other mystery is why the grapes are sour.

anote Joined Mon 12/09/13 Posts: 1715	Wed 02/18/15 11:29 AM
What would you do if the person who loved you was unattractive and the person you were attracted to was a total jerk? This is not gender related, it goes for both men and women. If the person who loved me was unattractive to me, I would tell him so that he could move on...If I was attracted to a total jerk, I would try to figure out and fix what was wrong with ME.... Nice statement

Kasia7 Joined Sun 01/18/15 Posts: 2	Wed 02/18/15 11:30 AM
My grandmother used to say- every monster can find an amatour. Personally I hate use words like unatractive or ugly, fat or other negative words. This what I may think is negative someone else could find very attractive. Keep searching.....

Pinkbunny43 Joined Sun 05/12/13 Posts: 26547	Wed 02/18/15 11:34 AM
Damn.....here I thought, finally a thread I can relate to "unattractive people" , but all I see are beautiful people.......sigh

MadDog1974 Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 5942	Wed 02/18/15 12:54 PM
Damn.....here I thought, finally a thread I can relate to "unattractive people" , but all I see are beautiful people.......sigh None more than you!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 02/18/15 01:02 PM
Everyone is attractive in their own way

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Wed 02/18/15 01:07 PM
"Unattractive" people....well that is an objective thing. Ugly people, there is no mistaking.

joethebricky Joined Sat 08/04/12 Posts: 12740	Wed 02/18/15 01:08 PM
Move on. Here's me thinking you would just put a bag over their head

TBRich Joined Fri 11/07/08 Posts: 8232	Wed 02/18/15 01:10 PM
I have learned to live with what I can't rise above

tealbreeze Joined Sun 02/08/15 Posts: 2279	Wed 02/18/15 01:22 PM
Move on. Here's me thinking you would just put a bag over their head No. Now I explained this all in another thread, joe.... and beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyways.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Wed 02/18/15 01:30 PM
"Unattractive" people....well that is an objective thing. Ugly people, there is no mistaking.

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Wed 02/18/15 01:48 PM
There is such a thing as objective attractiveness, I think scientists proved it depends on proportions and symmetry. But there's subjective beauty as well. I meant objective. People who are arrogant care a lot about their looks, people who look good can become arrogant. People who are more humble care less about their looks, people who don't look that good are more humble. So, it's either arrogant but good looking and charismatic or humble unattractive with no game. The winners and the losers. It's hard to find someone who can be a winner in the looks and charm area and a loser in that he is truly humble and sweet in other words.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Wed 02/18/15 01:50 PM
There is such a thing as objective attractiveness, I think scientists proved it depends on proportions and symmetry. But there's subjective beauty as well. I meant objective. People who are arrogant care a lot about their looks, people who look good can become arrogant. People who are more humble care less about their looks, people who don't look that good are more humble. So, it's either arrogant but good looking and charismatic or humble unattractive with no game. The winners and the losers. It's hard to find someone who can be a winner in the looks and charm area and a loser in that he is truly humble and sweet in other words. There are good looking people who are not arrogant at all.

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Wed 02/18/15 01:55 PM
Society really builds s up about our looks, so it would be hard not to get carried away about it since a young age, but I guess if this guy leads a sheltered life...a country boy or something..

Estelle79 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 1452	Wed 02/18/15 01:57 PM
What would you do if the person who loved you was unattractive and the person you were attracted to was a total jerk? This is not gender related, it goes for both men and women. I'll put it like this,first of all why not say,if the person was not attractive to YOU,and either way,you shouldn't have to be a genius to figure out that one,wouldn't ya say?Secondly,if you're"attracted to the jerk",then you're going to be with the jerk and hope that he changes,no matter what anyone says,now tell me,am I hot or cold?? It's so easy to ignore he's a jerk because he looks so good and if he's looking at me and only me, I guess it's all over. I need to stop that.

CallMeMB Joined Mon 01/05/15 Posts: 262	Wed 02/18/15 02:13 PM


Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 02/18/15 02:32 PM
What would you do if the person who loved you was unattractive and the person you were attracted to was a total jerk? This is not gender related, it goes for both men and women. I'll put it like this,first of all why not say,if the person was not attractive to YOU,and either way,you shouldn't have to be a genius to figure out that one,wouldn't ya say?Secondly,if you're"attracted to the jerk",then you're going to be with the jerk and hope that he changes,no matter what anyone says,now tell me,am I hot or cold?? It's so easy to ignore he's a jerk because he looks so good and if he's looking at me and only me, I guess it's all over. I need to stop that. You a mess!

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Wed 02/18/15 02:33 PM Edited by Awatersign on Wed 02/18/15 03:20 PM
DP

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 02/18/15 03:34 PM
Damn.....here I thought, finally a thread I can relate to "unattractive people" , but all I see are beautiful people.......sigh Sorry Pink, you're in the beautiful people club, not the ugly people club. ;)