and it's still a thread full of beautiful people

Ah, the truth finally comes out.

how can somebody that loves me!.
possibly be unattractive... I mean! to love me, is to know me.. and if you know me!.. you know I don't do ugly..lol.. and as far as being attracted to a jerk...hmm.. it takes one, to know one..

I'd say something in here, but I'll be told I'm wrong. So what would be the point?! I said something.

I will never understand why people ask for advice, then proceed to argue with any advice that doesn't support the way they've always done things....

They say Crazy is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result....

NONE??? Hey now...lol...what about the rest of us? I think we are good looking too!!!

fortunately, when I was younger, I realized I could actually become 'attracted' physically to someone by becoming attracted to their personality

I probably cant do repulsive,,,but I don't require the potential model or movie star if I interact with them regularly and find that they are an amazing person,,

Very sweet, and well said Ms Harmony, and I feel the same way, beauty is only skin deep and I am not blessed with movie star looks, If I fall in love with someone then they are beautiful to me.

Extremely physically attractive people intimidate me...

So, nobody knows what I mean..
A person can look good and be charming but after a while they reveal the truth and they aren't good. Really nobody has ever fallen for this scam other than me?

I think you misunderstand... You may be oversimplifying by equating one with another....

People generally like projecting desirable qualities onto others, especially if we're searching for those attributes. Since physical attributes are already obvious, we tend to do it on other aspects of the person.

On the flip side of the matter, we also generally would like to present ourselves in a certain way to others, depending on how we want others to see us.

Sometimes we just happen to find ourselves disappointed (mildly or extremely) that our expectations and the other person's representation of themselves, do not necessarily match as each one gets to know the other more...

I don't know why I keep on believing you need me
When you've proved so many times that it ain't true
And I can't find one good reason for staying
Maybe by leaving would be the best for you

But these rose colored glasses
That I'm looking through
Show only the beauty
'Cause they hide all the truth

And they let me hold on to the good times, good lines
The ones I used to hear when I held you
And they keep me from feeling so cheated, defeated
When reflections in your eyes show me a fool

These rose colored glasses
That I'm looking through
Show only the beauty
'Cause they hide all the truth

So I just keep on hopin', believing
That maybe by counting the many times, I've tried
You'll believe me when I say, I love you
And I'll lay these rose colored glasses aside

These rose colored glasses
That I'm looking through
Show only the beauty
'Cause they hide all the truth

Songwriters
CONLEE, JOHN W/BABER, GEORGE F.

I think (by reading your posts) that you are basing the above statement on your current situation... not the entire picture. You judge mankind..., by one guy... and no one knows what his side of the story is.

There are many fish in the sea, Estelle.

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the data is in,,, the number one reason most people cheat is because

they do not feel appreciated its not sex,,,there is nothing more

attractive then feeling wanted,important, appreciated, and we make a

difference...one of the biggest problems couples have is they give

the other what the need emotionaly they do not realize that boys and

girls are raised to handle there emotions very

differently....instant misunderstanding........

Everyone knows what you mean, it's just that most think that the world view you have because of it is incorrect.

because of my past experiences, I could say that all attractive women have no desire to be independent, and they believe because of their looks that all men should cater to them, take care of them, and they shouldn't have to do anything for the man, because the man should be happy for the privilege of being in their presence.


equating a personlity trait with a group of people based solely on the fact that that they are seen as attractive....and in your case I'd bet it isn't based off one man, I'd bet it's based two.....is ludicrous

You're so hilarious with this one always David.

You're so hilarious with this one always David.



i wonder what Bubbles would say...?

Oh! C'mon. Jack don't said that about you! I think you're a nice, polite and gentleman, any woman will be happy to have somebody like you with a good heart for others! Is the way I see you.

Pansytilly,I apologize for intimidating you.



How about if I don my mechanical "Human" suit. It isn't intimidating.