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You're so hilarious with this one always David.  
i wonder what Bubbles would say...? 
Bubbles is too busy to say anything. He is trying to avoid being bitten in the rump by dogs. 
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Edited by
Pansytilly
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Thu 02/19/15 12:50 PM
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Extremely physically attractive people intimidate me... 
Pansytilly,I apologize for intimidating you. 
How about if I don my mechanical "Human" suit. It isn't intimidating. 
Aww... I don't mind being intimidated a little now and then
Although, I do find Bubbles quite appealing sometimes...  
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What would you do if the person who loved you was unattractive and the person you were attracted to was a total jerk? This is not gender related, it goes for both men and women. the data is in,,, the number one reason most people cheat is because they do not feel appreciated its not sex,,,there is nothing more attractive then feeling wanted,important, appreciated, and we make a difference...one of the biggest problems couples have is they give the other what the need emotionaly they do not realize that boys and girls are raised to handle there emotions very differently....instant misunderstanding........ I don't have any idea what this means. I have no brothers. But I agree anyway. |
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I don't know why I keep on believing you need me When you've proved so many times that it ain't true And I can't find one good reason for staying Maybe by leaving would be the best for you But these rose colored glasses That I'm looking through Show only the beauty 'Cause they hide all the truth And they let me hold on to the good times, good lines The ones I used to hear when I held you And they keep me from feeling so cheated, defeated When reflections in your eyes show me a fool These rose colored glasses That I'm looking through Show only the beauty 'Cause they hide all the truth So I just keep on hopin', believing That maybe by counting the many times, I've tried You'll believe me when I say, I love you And I'll lay these rose colored glasses aside These rose colored glasses That I'm looking through Show only the beauty 'Cause they hide all the truth Songwriters CONLEE, JOHN W/BABER, GEORGE F.
That's so sad right now. |
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What would you do if the person who loved you was unattractive and the person you were attracted to was a total jerk? This is not gender related, it goes for both men and women. If the person who loved me was unattractive to me, I would tell him so that he could move on...If I was attracted to a total jerk, I would try to figure out and fix what was wrong with ME.... Yes on the first part and no on the second. I don't need to fix anything if I'm not the jerk. |
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It's a controversial issue. On one hand I'd prefer a girl to be attractive. I'm not too sure how to react if a someone I personally find physically unattractive were to ask me out, because on one hand they look unattractive to me, but on the other hand I'm no <insert whoever you think is attractive here> myself, so it may be hypocritical of me to judge others by their looks?
There is such a thing as objective attractiveness, I think scientists proved it depends on proportions and symmetry. Keep in mind it's hardly a researched on subject. Not to mention there are a lot of people who purposefully choose to go for asymmetry as well. This is most expressed in hair style. And some people find heterochromia to be attractive. (fun fact, spellcheck doesn't acknowledge the existence of heterochromia because it keeps telling me I spelt "petrochemical" wrong) |
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Mark it down as an experience & in the words of The Wiz, "Ease-on down the path..." lmao!
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The question seems wrong
How one can be attracted to a jerk? |
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The question seems wrong How one can be attracted to a jerk? It's easy. Here is how it starts. Woman: "That guy is a jerk. However, he is outwardly attractive, he can give me the kind of lifestyle that I want, and I know that I can change him. So, I will date him." A few weeks later ... Woman: "My boyfriend is a jerk (which I knew before I chose to date him), and now he wants me to have sex with him. Well, he is outwardly attractive, he can give me the kind of lifestyle that I want, and I know that I can change him. So, I will have sex with him." A few more weeks later ... Woman: "My boyfriend dumped me after he learned that I was pregnant with his baby. All men are jerks!" Thankfully, not all women are like that. |
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What is worse then unattractive people is unattractive couples who look so awkward together
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What is worse then unattractive people is unattractive couples who look so awkward together I don't exactly agree with what I think Estelle was saying, but what exactly does this have to do with anything that has been said here? 
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To the op: w/out the physical attraction, sex would be difficult or impossible, no? Therefore w/out the sex the "love" this person has for you is only that of friendship - not a full partners relationship. As for being attracted to the wrong person: after the initial physical attraction dies down (however long it takes to get bored from having sex with them), since there was no mental/emotional bond, again, it's not a full relationship.
I agree completely that it is very difficult to find someone who attracts both the physical AND emotional/mental sides of oneself. When you "settle" for one or the other, you will not be satisfied & the relationship is doomed from the start. I honestly don't believe it is possible to "become" physically attracted to someone you find unattractive physically, no matter how nice they are to you, or how much you have in common with them. The only instance I can think of involves this person saving your life somehow in an adrenalin fueled emergency situation...then the hormones come into play & can actually change your emotional state. In everyday ordinary life, this doesn't happen. |
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To the op: w/out the physical attraction, sex would be difficult or impossible, no? Well...arranged marriages have existed for a helluva long time and still does. In such arrangements, appearance may or may not be a factor, but it is common for the two to eventually learn to love each other, and we definitely know they've had sex because they have children. Psychology plays a huge part. |
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To the op: w/out the physical attraction, sex would be difficult or impossible, no? Well...arranged marriages have existed for a helluva long time and still does. In such arrangements, appearance may or may not be a factor, but it is common for the two to eventually learn to love each other, and we definitely know they've had sex because they have children. Psychology plays a huge part. Exactly... I think a lot of this is the social conditioning that we go through as children and we try and live up the acceptable society norm. The truth is, people can learn to bond in many different ways, and if you could look past the outside for more than a few weeks, you might see a completely different response. I've seen in many cases, strong manly men cower in a situation that most women would expect because of his physical appearance he should be able to overcome, and seen the small ugly man stand up and face the same challenge without breaking a sweat. It's really a lot of conditioning that we go through. Think about it like this... Do you care if the guy or girl who just saved you, your mom or your kids is ugly? No, I bet you're thankful and love them either way. Experience will always overcome our shallow views. True happiness will come when we can stop looking at just the outside and learn to appreciate the beauty and truth of what someone is genuinely. |
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What is worse then unattractive people is unattractive couples who look so awkward together   
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REAL LOVE IS BLIND
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id go shopping,,it destresses me..
and probably meet someone new while shopping.. happens everytime i go to the mall browsing around |
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What would you do if the person who loved you was unattractive and the person you were attracted to was a total jerk? This is not gender related, it goes for both men and women. If the person who loved me was unattractive to me, I would tell him so that he could move on...If I was attracted to a total jerk, I would try to figure out and fix what was wrong with ME.... wow... I can not believe what you just said ...seriously ... he is s total jerk and you would try and fix yourself to be with him ... I am just surprised you would do that ... you always seemed so confident and would not settle ... for a total jerk ... |
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Estelle seems to be the Omarosa of this group.
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