Does it ever work? Will you always have to have boundaries? How do you tell your spouse?

He should already know...you know....communication....
tough call bringing a third party into a relationship...
so no I don't think it will work..

I have lots of girlfriends.
Never had sex with any of them.
So, tis the sex you are after?
Rather than with your spouse?

The boundaries ship has sailed.

Sometimes it works...But only if you both OK it before you make it official....And be prepared...Once the boundaries are down, they're down for everyone...

For clarification, do you mind telling us whether your spouse is male or female? It doesn't have much to do with answering the question, but it has a little bit.

Isn't that cheating?

Ok Am I to understand that you are married to a man and now you have found yourself a girl friend with whom you are enjoying your bi-sexual side, meaning you may be bi-curious?

In my experience I have always found whenever a female partner of mine has ever suggested we have a threesome it has always been FFM and not MMF (although I would have imagined this is what most woman would naturally want). After giving much thought to this matter i concluded woman cannot have casual sex with another man . If a married woman must have sexual interaction with another person in the casual sense (and not in revenge or in spite or to get affirmation only) , they can only do this with another female not male. As I said these are only my personal understanding .

Lol....dude you need to get out more often & see whats happening in the world....
What you stated there is not entirely correct

It seems to be that way, being we don't have much time together. (Circumstances) But it seems " selfish"?

Thank you

My spouse is male.

What if you've hinted before and didn't get a bad reaction?

and youre cheating on him with a female??
Kinky

Sort of, yes

Thank you

In what way?

Thats coz hes also craving for that other a s s.......the same a s s you cheating on him with

Haven't went all the way yet!

Hmmm...