I have respected his feelings. I love my husband, i never want to become a cheater.
What if I start to have regret? What if I look back, and I feel I should have done it? Do I bring it up again? I just want that intimacy. That's why I figured if it was to happen, it would be with a female. Guess I just didn't consider that as a form of "really" cheating.

I see your point

That went..... He suddenly had an opinion! The answer was "no"

Thanks!

He knows. At first, when the feeling arrived, I just hinted around the subject of me having a female lover. His response was accepting. I got on this site and the reality of it.... I think he may have thought I wasn't genuine. I have spoken to a female from the site, but since I'm feeling a little resistance on his part, I wasn't sure to persist on. So I spoke to him again, this time saying exactly what it is I want. It still was a "If that's what you want to do" reaction. I didn't know how to process that, so I'm continuing my search. I feel if its not something he's okay with, it should have come up already. I don't want to be classified as a cheater, I love me husband. We just don't get much time together because of his work.
I simply am confused and sexually frustrated.

That's what in the back of my mind!

Hmmm...

Haven't went all the way yet!

In what way?

Thank you

Sort of, yes

What if you've hinted before and didn't get a bad reaction?

My spouse is male.

Thank you

It seems to be that way, being we don't have much time together. (Circumstances) But it seems " selfish"?

Does it ever work? Will you always have to have boundaries? How do you tell your spouse?

Does it ever work? Will you always have to have boundaries? How do you tell your spouse?

Has anyone had true success on this site