ok, I just have to say this; maybe some of you ladies can relate :) Here are the things I hate:

1. guys that only want to talk Sunday through Wednesday. Thursday through Saturday night is reserved for going out with the guys and picking up new women

2. guys that give me their numbers, with no intention of answering their phones - what's that about? Is it an ego boost for the guy to get a lot of calls from women or what? I'm still old school - I like the guy to call me, at least until we get to know each other

3. guys that say they want a long term relationship or are looking for one, only to get what they want, then magically, after they've had their "fun" they change their minds - "I'm not ready for a one-woman relationship"

4. guys that don't read my profile - just look at my pic. I put divorced, kids, yes they live with me for a reason - it's TRUE :) I'm a mom, and yes, oh my god, my kids live with me

5. guys that want me to drive 3 hours one way and pay all the gas, and the guy doesn't pay for anything. if I ask for gas money, I'm the asshole, and if I get gas money, it's 15.00.

6. the middle of the night text messages - ex: "hey, I just found your number again, what are you up to?"

7. the guy that wouldn't respond when you said you liked his profile and wanted to get to know him better, but now, on Thursday afternoon, he wants your number to go out Friday - when you give it to him, he says, "thanks for the digits," then never calls you

8. guys that immediately launch into so, what positions do you like? have you even done a threesome before? bit you look great naked, etc. I like to flirt, but not in the first email

9. guys that say "I can't wait to see you," but every time you suggest a meeting, there are a thousand reasons they can't do it that weekend

10. guys that say they love kids but don't have any and don't know how to act around your kids; don't take an interest in them

11. when a guy tells you he's going to do something and then doesn't; like an idiot, you forgive him, and think ok, I'll give him this one - then he tells you he's going to do something else, and he doesn't.

12. A guy that says "looks aren't that important," but then all he talks about is how you look, or wants to see more pics of you before he tells you much more about himself, even though you've posted 6 pics on your profile

13. Guys that are MARRIED that go to a club or bar, wearing their wedding rings and have the balls to hit on you, and even worse, their friends encourage it

14. Guys that say they're separated, but no one has filed for divorce, and then the wife starts digging through the email and starts emailing you, wanting to know everything the two of you talked about

15. and probably one of the worst things - ignoring the fact that there are red flags about a guy, or overlooking things that bother you, letting down your guard, starting to like a guy, and then he acts like the ass you knew he was in the beginning.

that's it for right now, but I have more.

any thoughts ladies, or gentlemen?

You're preaching to the choir!

Oh, the joys of online social networking!

You hit the nail on the head!!

Damn, you just hangin with the wrong guys....


Next time you a guy that ask you out and you don't want to go out with him, That's the guy you should go out with...Of copurse this means the next time you want to go out with the guy, DON"T.

Preach

AMEN!!!

You been dating my ex too? I think we all hear ya and have lived at least some of what you're talking about. For me, I lived a lot of that in the last few months, the rest of it in the last 5 years!

Wow, it was like you were talking about the men I've met. Were you? LOL

to begin with, you have to have self love, self worth and above all self respect. you know why? because you are damned well worth it!!! go into a relationship, not an affair. you need to find a new attitude about life and what it really is about. the quicker you learn this, youll be on your way to finding the king who will treat you like a queen that you really are! believe it or not, you are very special. there is a purpose for you in this life. and its not just to work and raise your children. and speaking of children, you should never bring any men around them. do you know what you are subjecting them to? date a man a good year to even begin to know him. and then, if you do think you know him and want him in your life,then, introduce hm to your children.but never ever trust anyone around them.even real fathers abuse their own babies!!! please, be careful. darlin, find the class and be the lady you really are. hold you head up high and cop the attitude you need to have. i say all this because its true and........ you are damned well worth it and then some.... all my goofd intentions to you, Eloise

Which site was that at?? I only see 1 pic in your profile. Sorry you are having bad experinces. Maybe you need to screen them more thourghly?

Welcome to the net house!!!

net=nut

Geeez...I dont want what you caught....I hope there's a vaccine available.

Yikes>??

Have you tried writing a positive thing for every negative???

i can explain each of these "problems" with humorous examples regarding
communications problems and male/fem perspective differences....



but i better NOT...

I know exactly how you feel girl. I just can't figure out why men look at me as a sex object. I'm tired of them having conversations with my breasts and not me! I am more than the sum of my parts and not a piece of meat. I just don't understand why men treat me that way.

LHB, you win!!!!


You are a nut and crowned as the biggest nut on JBH!!!

LMAO---------JSH too!!!

I mean I can't help the way I was born can I? Woe is me. Because I'm beautiful noone really loves me for me. I think I will marry a nerd with lots of money. No wait I will marry an old fart who can't get it up anymore who has money and one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel.

I love you. now please finish untying the string...please i *urge* you!