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alex

have actually had #14 happened, buti just told her how pretty she is and the blonde fell for it and changed the topic...( she really is blonde)

Hi Alex!

LivingByBeats - I hope the tail end of your comment wasn't directed at me. Yeah, I'm disgusted, but that was the point of the post - to vent. I'm not so emotionally retarded that I need to stop dating and "heal myself" first; please - I just wanted to see if my lady friends felt the same, and maybe get some feedback from some of the guys. No one is "drama free" what ever that means - most of us try to learn from our mistakes and move on, but every once in a while - you just want to know you're not the only one running into these things.

right... so if you keep running into "these things" then you're doing things the same way. you know... same methods, same results...
change HOW you do things, and your results will change....

most of what you wrote anyone with a little bit of life experience can see coming with the crack of dawn in the morning. it should be a red flag for the next time. if a person falls for the same thing over and over again instantly it is no longer the "other person" it instantly becomes the person who is falling for those same things over and over again....

its simple,
if you stab yourself with a knife and it hurts... how many times are you going to stab yourself with a knife to know it hurts? 30? 50? 150? 39954? i mean really....

don't kid yourself, men run into the same problems, but i can tell you personally, i see the first flag, i click delete, block and move on. why bother waiting for the next flag, and then the next flag after that?

i'm not a masochist, so if you're running into these same issues perpetualy, there simply comes a point in your reality where you have to stop, look, stop blaming "men" and realize siht! i'm running into the same crap over and over again what am I DOING WRONG that I NEED TO CHANGE.

accountability vs denial

chinese proverb says:

fool me once shame on you.
fool me twice shame on me.
period.

on a specific notation....
you drive cross country to meet guys....
ahhh date guys with cars. if he isn't going to drive to meet you do you really want a guy that can't be bothered? or doesn't think you're worth the trip?

and then

you get all indignant when dumb a$$ lazy guy who didn't want to drive to meet you didn't give you gas money? duh!

and then

cuz the first lesson wasn't something to put in the
"note to self: do not drive to meet guys" little book of "what did i learn today" you go and do it again?
so that "one time you got $15 for gas"

uh... why don't you add up all the gas money you spent, and figure out just as a random ballpark how much money you're spending to NOT learn that it is a bad idea to drive across country to meet the guy? hmmmmmm?

the truth may really bite to hear it, but i think that maybe you need to hear it.

women have the same equal rights as men, BUT men should still ACT LIKE men and do what is right and honorable. Any woman that drives to meet a man, isn't meeting a man, she's meeting a little boy that won't grow up that is about to take her for a ride and she deserves what she gets because she has just told the entire world that "i'm not good enough or worth enough so that a man finds me valuable to stop what he's doing and desire to travel to see me."
period.

what people think of themselves, is how they'll be treated. period.

Just because I didn't want him to have the last word (LBB) - thanks everybody for the input. I have vented and I feel better. I'm not bitter, just wiser.

thanks :)