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Edited by
Angeltripping17
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Sat 01/24/15 08:14 AM
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I agree on quite a few points Crystal ..well.put. Thanks for your reply.
This issue about nice guys has been around before. What i was thinking is...do you think nice girls finish last as well? of course... the meek will not inherit anything ... in the animal kingdom, is it the slow, nice non - confrontational male that gets the female? no, never, it's the big wild bull that fights for everything that gets the harem... Yes, but that's about men ... I don't think nice girls finish last per say. Depends on what you understand to be 'nice' and 'finishing'... I sometimes feel that, what I understand to be nice girls, end up in a relationship sooner. Difficult question, it's not black and white. I don't even know what I am myself. Part of me is a nice girl but I do come with a rather erm .. naughty side, and that is quite a substantial part of me. Biggest problem I experience in finding love is that I don't want a 100% nice man nor a 100% 'bad' man. |
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Nice guys simply lack the balls to go for what they want. However, a man who has kindness, humor, can and will get pissed and just deal, can forgive and ask for forgiveness, can embrace his own sexual nature and not feel taboo.......that kind of guy will get the girl he wants.......or the girl that surprises him will snag him. So phuck nice guys.
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Nice guys do finish last.
It is a courtesy to let the lady finish first. More than once, if you can manage it. |
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This issue about nice guys has been around before. What i was thinking is...do you think nice girls finish last as well? yes, in the short term at least. Especially around those who have very little insight. |
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A lifetime of being nice has only brought me disappoinments and frustration - I think there is something to that 'finishing last' idea. But you can't change things - I have tried and can't change myself so - have to suck it up. 
would you really want to be with someone who expects you to change? |
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Edited by
ridewytepony
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Sat 01/24/15 01:30 PM
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Nice guys simply lack the balls to go for what they want. However, a man who has kindness, humor, can and will get pissed and just deal, can forgive and ask for forgiveness, can embrace his own sexual nature and not feel taboo.......that kind of guy will get the girl he wants.......or the girl that surprises him will snag him. So phuck nice guys.
Have merci sir!..haven't nice guys taken it dry long enough? Yes your right!: Infamous qoute, "Azzholeism is not a destination but a life time Journey" ~Pony~ Yes woman like a chip or an edge. but you have to WANT to do it for you. Imfamous quote: "Whyever would one give woman hand when you were gifted two" ~Pony~ 
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Sat 01/24/15 01:32 PM
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Nice guys simply lack the balls to go for what they want. However, a man who has kindness, humor, can and will get pissed and just deal, can forgive and ask for forgiveness, can embrace his own sexual nature and not feel taboo.......that kind of guy will get the girl he wants.......or the girl that surprises him will snag him. So phuck nice guys.
Have merci sir!..haven't nice guys taken it dry long enough? Yes your right!: Infamous qoute, "Azzholeism is not a destination but a life time Journey" ~Pony~ Yes woman like a chip or an edge. but you have to WANT to do it for you. Imfamous quote: "Whyever would one give woman hand when you were gifted two" ~Pony~ My favorite quote is the azzholeism one because I like all things "ism" and because the other two were way over my head....Hiiiiiiiii Studley Sunshine Muffin!!    
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I think the whole idea that "nice guys/girls finish last" and everything associated with it is a bit more complicated than usually gets mentioned in a forum like this.
The most common observation, is that the word "nice" has a negative connotation to it, especially relative to males. It's very common for manipulative, petty, selfish, emotionally stunted males to declare themselves to be "nice," because they follow a series of calculated steps which they imagine will force their target woman to like them. They are often seen to wail or rant to the effect that they "did everything right" but got dumped anyway. They want to treat the world like a giant vending machine. In short, they aren't nice at all, they just lie and say that they are. The mess that's mentioned rarely if at all, is that the saying "nice guys finish last" is most commonly used as an excuse for rapacious people to act in an entirely selfish and callous manner, and blame their thoughtlessness and even cruelty on society at large. It is favored by cheaters, thieves, liars, scammers, and anyone else who wants to ignore the concept of honor. |
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Male or female.....its all about balance.....
Bit of nice.....bit of bad..... Bit of kind.....bit of tough..... Bit of gentle.....bit of rough..... Bit of good.....bit of naughty Bit of leading.....bit of following..... Meeting in the middle for a happy relationship..... 
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I prefer finishing together, but if not that I certainly want HER to finish first!
It's the type of nice guy I am.
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A lifetime of being nice has only brought me disappoinments and frustration - I think there is something to that 'finishing last' idea. But you can't change things - I have tried and can't change myself so - have to suck it up.
would you really want to be with someone who expects you to change? tried to change to be 'harder' for my own sake, Sweetest 
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A lifetime of being nice has only brought me disappoinments and frustration - I think there is something to that 'finishing last' idea. But you can't change things - I have tried and can't change myself so - have to suck it up.
would you really want to be with someone who expects you to change? tried to change to be 'harder' for my own sake, Sweetest
what was harder? now you've got my interest...... |
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I think the whole idea that "nice guys/girls finish last" and everything associated with it is a bit more complicated than usually gets mentioned in a forum like this. The most common observation, is that the word "nice" has a negative connotation to it, especially relative to males. It's very common for manipulative, petty, selfish, emotionally stunted males to declare themselves to be "nice," because they follow a series of calculated steps which they imagine will force their target woman to like them. They are often seen to wail or rant to the effect that they "did everything right" but got dumped anyway. They want to treat the world like a giant vending machine. In short, they aren't nice at all, they just lie and say that they are. The mess that's mentioned rarely if at all, is that the saying "nice guys finish last" is most commonly used as an excuse for rapacious people to act in an entirely selfish and callous manner, and blame their thoughtlessness and even cruelty on society at large. It is favored by cheaters, thieves, liars, scammers, and anyone else who wants to ignore the concept of honor. There's a whole lotta truth in that ... !!! |
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Edited by
Foursure
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Sat 01/24/15 02:51 PM
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I meant trying to be less likely to put the other person first - to 'not care' so much about them I guess. That's what I mean by me being nice - caring probably too much about the others in my life. |
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Brilliant ..totally agree. Life is all about balance.
Male or female.....its all about balance..... Bit of nice.....bit of bad..... Bit of kind.....bit of tough..... Bit of gentle.....bit of rough..... Bit of good.....bit of naughty Bit of leading.....bit of following..... Meeting in the middle for a happy relationship.....
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I'm just me! Bad guy when i need to be, but chilled out most of the time. My missus, 2 boys and my grandson, turn me into a big softie, but you wouldn't want to cross me if you were a guy, as i'm no fool!!
congratulations for your new little ones!
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Edited by
mightymoe
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Sat 01/24/15 04:35 PM
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when you hear this, start the sales pitch... |
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Nice is all a matter of p.o.v. Just because someone thinks of them self to be nice doesn't mean they are nice. Some nice guys finish last on purpose cause its not nice to leave their partner in that state.
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that which light the fire in her soul that does not quell be last, for it doth no sea first nor last, but these will many times be both first and last while they learn of the ways of the eternal flame.
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