Through the minds of cheaters? How can they tell one person that they love them and tell other people that they are single at the same time?

Cheaters have minds? I always thought they were pretty brainless, myself.

No idea.......Ive never cheated....

cheaters have deviate minds.....it's heart that they lack...at least that is the case with my ex!

think you defined it well dawnette

Nothing goes through the minds of cheaters besides their libido. That's the problem. They don't think about the consequences of their actions or how it would affect those around them.

they think with their dingle dangles????

same thing that goes through the mind of the monkey stuck in the monkey trap!

from the urban dictionary:



1. monkey trap
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1. A trap to capture various monkeys used around the world which consists of a staked container with a hole cut into it just wide enough for a monkey to stick it's empty hand into. The container is baited with something attractive to the monkey. Monkey reaches for bait and then will not release the bait and cannot pull it's hand out of the trap with bait in hand. It is then captured. 2. Any women's purse that is too small to contain everything the women wants to carry but is stuffed full nonetheless. When the women tries to pull something out of the purse she wrestles exhaustively yet will not pull the desired object out and she won't give up trying (empting the purse first makes too much sense). 3. Metaphor for greed.

1. That monkey really like it's banana's. It wouldn't let go of the banana I baited my monkey trap with now it's head adorns my library wall. Suhweet !! 2. Jenny's been trying to pull her cell phone out of her monkey trap for five minutes now. 3. The lure of collecting millions from the insurance settlement was my monkey trap leading to me to whack my business partner.



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a trap designed to catch animals too smart to fall for an ordinary trap i.e. monkeys and people. It works by appealing to their greed such as a job that sucks but pays to well to let go of, or a relationship which is empty or destructive but offers certain perks which make it hard to escape.
The original monkey trap involves a hollow coconut chained to a stake and baited with food. It has a hole large enough for the monkey to put its hand into, but too small to remove its hand while holding the bait. The monkey needs only to let go to escape, but gets caught because it refuses to let go in its panic to keep its precious find.

I hate this job, but it pays too well for me to quit and get a straight job. What a monkey trap.

I dont even try to figure them out.
then you get to thinking like them & its not healthy

Do they really think at all? I think they just like attention. I just don't see how some people can sit there and tell one person that they love them while they are sitting here and acting like they have no one. I don't like cheaters or liars..to me they are heartless and very selfish people.
Just remember, sooner or later they do get caught!!

'Filling up'....on others.

Poor self esteem...because they are unable to be self sustaining.

Lazy...greedy...shallow... and yes desperate for recognition and attention...needy...

All sorts of reasons...

Unhealthy.

Those are all good answers.

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me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..
me..me..enough about me, so what about..me..me..me..
me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..
me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..
me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..me..

principally the two strongest motivators of human behavior:

FEAR and GREED...

Hello you......memememememememememememmee

I figure it's similar to the sort of thing I used to go through during my... addiction.

What you said or did didn't matter, all that matters is getting what you crave. You may regret it afterwards, but darn if that is gonna stop you! Some of these men may love who they are with, but at the same time want sex so much that they will lie to a perfect stranger, knowing they wouldn't be interested if THEY knew he was with someone.

It's sad, but I think in some cases , the do actually love their mates, but cannot control their personal demons.

Just clearing my throat

How does a cheating singer practice

Do Ray "Me" Pha-Q & you & you & you......

Hummm can ya THINK RABBIT lol


All they are after is a good time they really dont want to be with anyone most of the time

then there are those that just want an back up in case they need it lol

I thought we were gonna sing a dooodooodooduet..