Dear friends please share the reason for your divorce.
It will be help full for other singles.

simply put, infidelity, death threats

Because after we were married, I could not wholeheartedly accept her the way she was thus she always fell short of my expectations and was incapable of fitting the bill. Having realized stay and inability to accept her, I felt that divorce was a better option than trying to force her to be someone she could not. Of course, that being the major thing, it also impacted my attitude in a negative way, also causing a string of a lot of little problems along the way as well.

Long story short, one day I woke up and consciously decided to be an a$$hole...

Hope this helps!

Whatttt all of them?????

Only the one with the best story!

Hmmmm......shes still in that Siberian jail......maybe the one that ran off with with........or the one that didn't like kinky blood letting on her white sheets......ohooh I forgot this is public.

now there's an argument for sex before marriage. Gidday Franky.

Good one Franky

Gidday Mikey

I have my moments, occasionaly

WTF, death threats? I guess her boyfriend did threaten to kill me, he was a tattoo motorcycle gang punk, he and his friend both back off when they saw I was getting pissed. She said she was tired of being a responsible mother and I guess a motorcycle gang is more exciting than me.

aww, you married a maniac too?

I wanted more sex with her. She wanted more sex with someone else. We came to a happy medium.

All kinds of abuse

Always wonder why the heck people ask this question? How does that effect someone else that is not involved?

The common sense thing would be something was not working so people faced facts and decided that living alone would be preferable.

Would think the better question would be why would you want to change your life now that you are single?

I've been married? Since when? Why no memo? :O

Actually, I've never been married. Does being engaged count?


Was engaged twice. The first guy I got engaged to, and we were together twelve years. We broke up because he was turning weird on me. Meaning he was becoming angry, and hiding alcohol in the house.

The second guy I was engaged to, we were together for eight years. We broke up because he didn't want to commit anymore. He wanted to sleep around.

I'm okay, really. It doesn't affect me these days. I use humor to rise above anything that causes misery.

No need to describe the ending of marriage. The end is always ugly. It needs some ugly facts to understand that this is the end. Important is to forgive and to release each other.

Never been....but have been looking for an ex-wife.

Thomas27:
That is some really mature and inciteful self actualisation. I am impressed.
For me: I couldn't see that when I wanted him to man-up like my Dad, it was demasculanising the poor guy.
By the time I realised that relationship was more important than what I wanted that day, and I asked him to forgive me- he couldn't.