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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers.... 
I would have to blame myself. I mean she told me she was an alcoholic to begin with. I still love her but we had to part ways. Man, did I turn into the worst enabler. Like so many enablers I guess I thought I could fix her. I found out through the grapevine that she is getting a handle on it after she got away from me. I hope that is true. I was told that she is actually getting married. I am so happy for her if that is true. That was my last relationship. I wouldn't call either one of us a loser. While it lasted it was awesome I think back in hindsight. There were some wonderful times but it was like this fantasy. I really wished we could have made it work. That's so sad and so sweet at the same time...I think people need to figure out what they are willing to accept and what they won't....I learned I have to have certain qualities in a man and if they don't have them I'm easy to let them go and find that in someone else... That is some real strength there. Nip it in the bud can save you a lot of heart ache. Plus, you don't feel like you are wasting your time. Or taking time away from a relationship that has real potential. It doesn't always have to be no pain no gain. Love shouldn't have to hurt. I have been told if it hurts then you aren't doing it right. 
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers....
Yes, it happened to me. Met this cute looking Pilot, sitting there looking like Tom Cruise, glass of wine and all that. Then one of the other girls from our flight warned me to stay away, she said he had been through half the company. So I took her advice and it turns out she was right. later she admitted that she had slept with him and she didn't want me making the same mistake. Eventually I realised he was a complete a'''e hole and me and that girl have stayed friends, I was lucky |
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Edited by
Tanzy14
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Fri 07/11/14 05:36 PM
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers....
Yes, it happened to me. Met this cute looking Pilot, sitting there looking like Tom Cruise, glass of wine and all that. Then one of the other girls from our flight warned me to stay away, she said he had been through half the company. So I took her advice and it turns out she was right. later she admitted that she had slept with him and she didn't want me making the same mistake. Eventually I realised he was a complete a'''e hole and me and that girl have stayed friends, I was lucky Wow Kudos to you Bemma isn't it great when another woman can be a sister to you and just have your best interest in mind.....that's a great story...and now a friendship has flourished out of it..... 
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers....
Yes, it happened to me. Met this cute looking Pilot, sitting there looking like Tom Cruise, glass of wine and all that. Then one of the other girls from our flight warned me to stay away, she said he had been through half the company. So I took her advice and it turns out she was right. later she admitted that she had slept with him and she didn't want me making the same mistake. Eventually I realised he was a complete a'''e hole and me and that girl have stayed friends, I was lucky Wow Kudos to you Bemma isn't it great when another woman can be a sister to you and just have your best interest in mind.....that's a great story...and now a friendship has flourished out of it.....
I was lucky, I was about to be another of his conquests but thankfully this girl put me right. We had a good laugh about it the next time I met her and she said he was a total disappointment anyway lol |
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Edited by
no1phD
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Fri 07/11/14 05:51 PM
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Hmmmm...hmmmmm.yes..No.but yes.
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Edited by
no1phD
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Fri 07/11/14 05:52 PM
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Edited by
Jaxxxxxxxxx
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Fri 07/11/14 06:42 PM
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Happened many times after heavy partying. Wake up, look over and ask," Who the hell are you and were are my clothes?" Heavy partying leads to many question the morning after...Where am I and how did I get here??? |
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There are many people who put others to the test and go along with another person's game until they give them enough space to show their true self.
If we are being our self without playing games, a person who is true to themself will also recognize that. But even that won't guarantee the attraction being strong or mutual. Better luck next time. |
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There are many people who put others to the test and go along with another person's game until they give them enough space to show their true self. If we are being our self without playing games, a person who is true to themself will also recognize that. But even that won't guarantee the attraction being strong or mutual. Better luck next time. Blondey
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Yeah i wont waste my time on a phony person it took about a week tops and realized what i was dealing with......
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Edited by
dreamerana
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Sat 07/12/14 04:49 PM
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There are many people who put others to the test and go along with another person's game until they give them enough space to show their true self. If we are being our self without playing games, a person who is true to themself will also recognize that. But even that won't guarantee the attraction being strong or mutual. Better luck next time. After reading through many of the forums because I have timenon my hands while I'm babysitting today; I have to ask myself who tried to fool whom? If one presents themselves as loose and easy, then gets approached by people interested in that, do they have any reason to complain? It seems people treat us by how we put ourselves out there. |
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Happened many times after heavy partying. Wake up, look over and ask," Who the hell are you and were are my clothes?" men out there, do not take this for a joke, drunk girl says yes to fornication, the next morning you come up on rape charges! |
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There are many people who put others to the test and go along with another person's game until they give them enough space to show their true self. If we are being our self without playing games, a person who is true to themself will also recognize that. But even that won't guarantee the attraction being strong or mutual. Better luck next time. After reading through many of the forums because I have timenon my hands while I'm babysitting today; I have to ask myself who tried to fool whom? If one presents themselves as loose and easy, then gets approached by people interested in that, do they have any reason to complain? It seems people treat us by how we put ourselves out there. I am not sure what you mean but this subject was about character....and even if a woman likes to look sexy doesnt mean that its an excuse for others to mistreat her.... |
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers....
Nah, I'm usually so busy studying her chest that it never enters my mind to ask her who the hell she is. |
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