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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you?
They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers.... |
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It can be both. Some are actors.
But sometimes the image we have formed in our mind is just way wrong. |
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Happened last month ... Trying to get over it... He tried to contact me after calling it quits... He was always unstable and losing his cool without understanding things
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I just wonder if this is an individual basis behavior or are they like this with everyone they are in contact with...
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can we add on skype for a chatting
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can we add on skype for a chatting 1+ you = no |
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It's really easy to lie online then in person.
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers.... |
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Yes online is easier to deceive someone there are so many ways to disguise yourself...but it's sad when people resort to this type of behavior...
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After seven years of marriage I woke up one morning and looked at my now ex-wife and asked "who is this person"? Took me a while to get over how drastically someone you love that much can change. I know we all evolve but her transformation was one day "she was totally in love with me" to the next day of "don't touch me". Once I got over it and learned from it I just accept people for who they are. If they all of a sudden go bi-polar on me then I just make my exit. Life is too short and way too much fun to allow someone to effect it like that yo.
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I have known women, and a few men, who often start taking on the characteristics of the strongest personality they hang around.
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers.... in hindsight, I think its more a habit of wanting to elaborate and embellish the things we like,, in the beginning, to a point that actually blinds us to the things we might not like once that initial courtship/emotional embellishment wanes down, is when the 'who are you?' begins to surface in reality, I think there are usually signs and clues , but we just are too determined to feel the good stuff to aknowledge the potentially troublesome |
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers.... in hindsight, I think its more a habit of wanting to elaborate and embellish the things we like,, in the beginning, to a point that actually blinds us to the things we might not like once that initial courtship/emotional embellishment wanes down, is when the 'who are you?' begins to surface in reality, I think there are usually signs and clues , but we just are too determined to feel the good stuff to aknowledge the potentially troublesome This is why I always try to fart on the first date |
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you?y They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers.... in hindsight, I think its more a habit of wanting to elaborate and embellish the things we like,, in the beginning, to a point that actually blinds us to the things we might not like once that initial courtship/emotional embellishment wanes down, is when the 'who are you?' begins to surface in reality, I think there are usually signs and clues , but we just are too determined to feel the good stuff to aknowledge the potentially troublesome This is why I always try to fart on the first date |
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Happened many times after heavy partying.
Wake up, look over and ask," Who the hell are you and were are my clothes?" |
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Women are always trying to make a mountain out of a molehill. They hold things against you and when you're least expecting it they let you have it. Pure evil.
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers.... in hindsight, I think its more a habit of wanting to elaborate and embellish the things we like,, in the beginning, to a point that actually blinds us to the things we might not like once that initial courtship/emotional embellishment wanes down, is when the 'who are you?' begins to surface in reality, I think there are usually signs and clues , but we just are too determined to feel the good stuff to aknowledge the potentially troublesome This is why I always try to fart on the first date |
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Happened many times after heavy partying. Wake up, look over and ask," Who the hell are you and were are my clothes?" Been there and done that and where are my shoes... |
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers.... I would have to blame myself. I mean she told me she was an alcoholic to begin with. I still love her but we had to part ways. Man, did I turn into the worst enabler. Like so many enablers I guess I thought I could fix her. I found out through the grapevine that she is getting a handle on it after she got away from me. I hope that is true. I was told that she is actually getting married. I am so happy for her if that is true. That was my last relationship. I wouldn't call either one of us a loser. While it lasted it was awesome I think back in hindsight. There were some wonderful times but it was like this fantasy. I really wished we could have made it work. |
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Have you ever met,dated,or been in a relationship and you were like....Who the hell are you? They play a role for a bit then you start catching wind that the person is a phony, fake,and dishonest... Do you blame yourself for not being so perceptive or do you blame them for been a bona fide loser? Enjoy Minglers.... I would have to blame myself. I mean she told me she was an alcoholic to begin with. I still love her but we had to part ways. Man, did I turn into the worst enabler. Like so many enablers I guess I thought I could fix her. I found out through the grapevine that she is getting a handle on it after she got away from me. I hope that is true. I was told that she is actually getting married. I am so happy for her if that is true. That was my last relationship. I wouldn't call either one of us a loser. While it lasted it was awesome I think back in hindsight. There were some wonderful times but it was like this fantasy. I really wished we could have made it work. That's so sad and so sweet at the same time...I think people need to figure out what they are willing to accept and what they won't....I learned I have to have certain qualities in a man and if they don't have them I'm easy to let them go and find that in someone else... |
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