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Topic: A little tip for all the men around here
mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Wed 07/09/14 12:23 PM
hey wanna have relation Dude really!!!!!

Jaxxxxxxxxx Joined Mon 01/20/14 Posts: 56	Wed 07/09/14 12:26 PM
hey wanna have relation PERFECT TIMING!!!!

BiancaNeve84 Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 17	Wed 07/09/14 12:28 PM
hey wanna have relation As all the famous tv show lawyers like to say..."I rest my case"... lol Oh, dear...See what I mean? :) Earlier I had a direct proposition, assuring me "our children would look good"... If anything, I am having such a hearty laugh on here, that it almost trumps the annoyance.

stan_147 Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 3441	Wed 07/09/14 12:33 PM
hey wanna have relation Look! It's yet another aspiring rocket surgeon!!

Hightrek Joined Mon 05/05/08 Posts: 415	Wed 07/09/14 12:40 PM
So I suppose a bj is out of the question?

Criollo99 Joined Thu 05/09/13 Posts: 1676	Wed 07/09/14 12:40 PM
It is overbearing, patronizing, disrespectful, unprofessional... pick one: they are all bad!

BiancaNeve84 Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 17	Wed 07/09/14 12:40 PM
Thank you, All. :) Perhaps I should take part in this forum more,it seems here one is able to interact with nice, normal, genuine people, for a change. Also, this is an international site, it is the context of its very name, yet it seems to me that I am predominantly being contacted by Indian men. Before anyone says anything - I am NOT racist, nor discriminative here, but simply wonder why that is - I would prefer if I was able to interact with ALL the rest of the nationalities. Thanks again for the nice comments! I agree, I think every man in India is on this site and they must have lots of time on their hands. They must wake up every morning and wonder what to do for the day, then it hits them "Contact women on Mingle2" LOL I agree. Maybe it is a cultural difference, perhaps that is how they have been raised - to openly go for whatever they want, no matter the means and methods. It clashes with the unspoken "rule" of subtlety, of taking things slow, of approaching with care and respect. Instead, they are jumping right in the deep end of the pool. :)

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Wed 07/09/14 12:45 PM
Thank you, All. :) Perhaps I should take part in this forum more,it seems here one is able to interact with nice, normal, genuine people, for a change. Also, this is an international site, it is the context of its very name, yet it seems to me that I am predominantly being contacted by Indian men. Before anyone says anything - I am NOT racist, nor discriminative here, but simply wonder why that is - I would prefer if I was able to interact with ALL the rest of the nationalities. Thanks again for the nice comments! I agree, I think every man in India is on this site and they must have lots of time on their hands. They must wake up every morning and wonder what to do for the day, then it hits them "Contact women on Mingle2" LOL I agree. Maybe it is a cultural difference, perhaps that is how they have been raised - to openly go for whatever they want, no matter the means and methods. It clashes with the unspoken "rule" of subtlety, of taking things slow, of approaching with care and respect. Instead, they are jumping right in the deep end of the pool. :) And drowning not waving

premierblue Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 361	Wed 07/09/14 12:48 PM
hey wanna have relation PERFECT TIMING!!!! That's what I thought too!

Mrberlean Joined Wed 12/18/13 Posts: 53	Wed 07/09/14 12:51 PM
Yes so make it your post then instead of copying and pasting my work and giving you two liners to it. It . Stating I must be not aware. Oh really ? Did I not mention this in my writing? Read , take your time and think.

Mrberlean Joined Wed 12/18/13 Posts: 53	Wed 07/09/14 12:51 PM
Agree :) How ever , maybe it is you who triggers this? If you look sweet , many people will call you sweetheart. I admit it can be creepy if a stranger calls you this way,but it is all based on given situation. I have had many times woman on the street, or in a store asking me:" Sweetheart - Darling - honey , can you please reach this for me?" I somehow do not feel offended by it. I never upon placing a compliment call any woman that I do not know this way. Just common sense. If you have any of the man here, calling you those sweet names, and it is not vibrating with your nature, then just do not respond. You do not have to react to it. Blocking is not necessary right away. If some one gets on your nerves, then you block and that is it , you move on. We are all of different nature here, some man think it is a nice gesture , some man do not take it serious.... So you filter out who is. I for example am annoyed by your young fellow girls (18-26 years of age) that are promoting their sexual content on third party websites, acting as if they want to meet, but referring to third media websites and asking or giving emails. So what I am going to do? I posted a question to others, but hey, I filter those girls out, do not respond to them and move on. So we man deal with other things on here. (Like Web-cam Girls that collect emails) Do not feel to bed. We all just move on. But it was nice to read what you have explained to us man. Some of us know already , some will learn and some of us still do not care, and there is those other man, that never learn :) You must not be aware: the world culture generally preys on women and caters to men. Some men try to insist its equal even tho evidence points the other way. women will respond differently to the same treatment because of their position in the world. Yes so make it your post then instead of copying and pasting my work and giving you two liners to it. It . Stating I must be not aware. Oh really ? Did I not mention this in my writing? Read , take your time and think.

BiancaNeve84 Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 17	Wed 07/09/14 12:51 PM
Thank you, All. :) Perhaps I should take part in this forum more,it seems here one is able to interact with nice, normal, genuine people, for a change. Also, this is an international site, it is the context of its very name, yet it seems to me that I am predominantly being contacted by Indian men. Before anyone says anything - I am NOT racist, nor discriminative here, but simply wonder why that is - I would prefer if I was able to interact with ALL the rest of the nationalities. Thanks again for the nice comments! I agree, I think every man in India is on this site and they must have lots of time on their hands. They must wake up every morning and wonder what to do for the day, then it hits them "Contact women on Mingle2" LOL I agree. Maybe it is a cultural difference, perhaps that is how they have been raised - to openly go for whatever they want, no matter the means and methods. It clashes with the unspoken "rule" of subtlety, of taking things slow, of approaching with care and respect. Instead, they are jumping right in the deep end of the pool. :) they were raised to beleive that indian women are pure so they cant approach them. They have MTV, tho, and assume the rest of the planets women are totally different from indian women. bimbos. So they act according to their ignorance. You have a point there. That same also applies for men of muslim beliefs and generally men raised in a strictly religious and patriarchal societies - the hypocritical "rule" that women must be respected and treated like delicate flowers, but only "their" women, the rest are fair game. Pun intended.

bemma1989 Joined Fri 07/04/14 Posts: 114	Wed 07/09/14 12:54 PM
hey wanna have relation you forgot to add either of, babe, dear, sweetie, cutie or honey

premierblue Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 361	Wed 07/09/14 01:00 PM Edited by premierblue on Wed 07/09/14 01:07 PM


Hightrek Joined Mon 05/05/08 Posts: 415	Wed 07/09/14 01:04 PM
I also must add .. The more handsome the man is .. The more tolerable I am to his use of endearments .. Just being honest If I think he is attractive ., his use of endearments does not offend me .. If on the other hand I find him repulsive .. He best not call me anything other than blondey .. Lmao :-) Good point Doll.

premierblue Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 361	Wed 07/09/14 01:08 PM Edited by premierblue on Wed 07/09/14 02:07 PM
hey wanna have relation Look! It's yet another aspiring rocket surgeon!! Did you mean brain surgeon or rocket engineer? If it's the latter, Piiilease, that's an insult to us current and former aerospace engineers!!! Lol!

BiancaNeve84 Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 17	Wed 07/09/14 01:12 PM
I also must add .. The more handsome the man is .. The more tolerable I am to his use of endearments .. Just being honest If I think he is attractive ., his use of endearments does not offend me .. If on the other hand I find him repulsive .. He best not call me anything other than blondey .. Lmao :-) Well at least you are honest, Blondey... To me it's irrelevant of his appearance. Yes, if a man is not my cup of tea, and he is openly lecherous, that would repulse me, but it is not like I expect anything better anyway. But it is somehow more disappointing when it comes from a decent looking man with a relatively well written summary, and then he goes out and blurts something like "hi hun, wanna have a chat to see your ****".

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 07/09/14 01:22 PM
Agree :) How ever , maybe it is you who triggers this? If you look sweet , many people will call you sweetheart. I admit it can be creepy if a stranger calls you this way,but it is all based on given situation. I have had many times woman on the street, or in a store asking me:" Sweetheart - Darling - honey , can you please reach this for me?" I somehow do not feel offended by it. I never upon placing a compliment call any woman that I do not know this way. Just common sense. If you have any of the man here, calling you those sweet names, and it is not vibrating with your nature, then just do not respond. You do not have to react to it. Blocking is not necessary right away. If some one gets on your nerves, then you block and that is it , you move on. We are all of different nature here, some man think it is a nice gesture , some man do not take it serious.... So you filter out who is. I for example am annoyed by your young fellow girls (18-26 years of age) that are promoting their sexual content on third party websites, acting as if they want to meet, but referring to third media websites and asking or giving emails. So what I am going to do? I posted a question to others, but hey, I filter those girls out, do not respond to them and move on. So we man deal with other things on here. (Like Web-cam Girls that collect emails) Do not feel to bed. We all just move on. But it was nice to read what you have explained to us man. Some of us know already , some will learn and some of us still do not care, and there is those other man, that never learn :) You must not be aware: the world culture generally preys on women and caters to men. Some men try to insist its equal even tho evidence points the other way. women will respond differently to the same treatment because of their position in the world. Yes so make it your post then instead of copying and pasting my work and giving you two liners to it. It . Stating I must be not aware. Oh really ? Did I not mention this in my writing? Read , take your time and think. klc didn't copy and paste your work. She quoted you since she was responding to you, sort of like how you quoted her just to be a jerk.

AlaskanNoob Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 1	Wed 07/09/14 01:24 PM
Probably not. I'd probably be pleasantly surprised and flattered and do some digging to learn more about the girl who sent me that message.

premierblue Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 361	Wed 07/09/14 01:42 PM
Curious to know how men feel ... If I sent you a message .. Saying Hi gorgeous man ... Would you be offended and delete my message .. Since I'm average looking, my first thought would be . . . she's a scammer . . . especially being in the kind of business I'm in!