Little Story tale from my observation. (By the way, there must be some Happy Beginning to this for all of us not only for me) Where do all the lonely people come from ? … (The Beatles) INDEPENDENCE AND ITS CONSEQUENCE This must be the Era of very independent time we are all living in, in regards of; We the single people are very good on our own and do not need really anyone in our live every day, so we do what we do, and as time pases by, we start feeling lonely and start creating profiles on the Internet in order to find that very special person... But do we really have made room for that special person in our daily life to be a part of our lives? How long do you feel and think of having some one taking part in your life? Just recently? LOOK OUTSIDE YOUR WINDOW In my opinion , the best place to find that special someone is outside of our window in daily life. I think more often like, Is it that hard to give a compliment to a women or even ask her out?.. Women like surprises, I do not know why we men do this so little or none at all and sometimes I do not know why women do not approach men a little to....Are we scared of commitment or of responsibility? I think, about my self like; Am I this good to prefer my own hand in waking off most of the time? (Especially switching hands feels good to:) Are we all like this? Or do we just love our Freedom so much that we do not make room to be hugged and loved? I do not know...Will I ever know? Maybe, who knows. How about you who is reading this? DILEMA OF SELECTING individuals ACCORDING TO SELF MADE INTELIGENCE WISH LIST We really have such big selection of people those days. It seems, that we are waiting for the perfect partner and time just goes by..We have so much criteria we are demanding, really much, but to us it seems like not much at all... As far as of this profile, I am selecting the long term relationship seeking people, because in my Opinion, the long term commitment, gives you and me everything and all the criteria that others are seeking...I mean look; Little of activity partner - friend - dating and last but not least the that makes everything happening. Honestly long term relationship sounds boring to me, but in order to get little from everything I feel one must have a long term free as possible respectful relationship. Also who ever writes in their profile, that talk is taboo and does not talk about it, she probably is not seeking a man, but a system obeying puppet. I understand, of course everything with a manner and at the right time, I know, just wanted to say it. I do see, that the most women are demanding and are seeking very stable future giving men with good paid jobs. I like this, but at the same time, it makes me feel, like the women takes my freedom away, by concentrating on stable future and I probably would run away:) Freedom over relationship, are we all not like this lately? I am like this, I really think so, and If I am on here right now now on this Website making this profile. I am going to also give some demanding criteria I am seeking in a women. I would love to met a women that speaks fluently English. She should write in her Profile more than 2 Sentences. Be outspoken and communicative. ( I do not like mega quiet people that never say anything)To me in relationship, the understanding each other and very good communication skill is more important then the, artificial feeling that people call Love. I love this type of women, that always looks young. There is those women that are way over 50 for example, but looks so young. I really love this type of human If I might say it this way. Prefer non smoking women. However smoking people are very interesting Individuals I must admit that. We nonsmokers can be boring, but not all right? I am not going to write what my so called hobbies are, what I do for work, nor am I going to put a blueprint of myself to deeply so, some one can copy my picture and do the perfect character description of myself for free. Besides creators of such Websites do study Human relations and we give them perfect material for free in the hope of finding the perfect partner. But we have to try it , why not I agree, but to know this makes that little tiny difference in naivety. THE LAND AND CITY EVOLUTION I would love to work some where on the farm. I love nature. Having the City all the time around me does not give me the quality, life should be about. Also having said this. Yes I like very much, to read books, go to some theater and enjoy during the week what the City gives us. INTERNET Last but not least. Girls from Russia , where there is most of the time a Man behind a profile camouflaging himself by pretending to be that girl and trying to gain Money or access to private data. Please do not contact me. Save yourself the Time, because I am very good in finding out anything I want by using the very same Internet you are using. That goes also to all the web cam Girls. Thank you.